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DRUGS
I am 17/f. I had this childhood friend of like 8-9 years. We were best friends, but then we hit a ofrk in the orad and she turned to drugs about a year and a half ago. When I fisrt found out that she did it, I was pissed and told her that she was dumb and shouldnt do it again. She told me she wouldn't, that she was just tryingit so I gave her the benifit of the doubt. Her and I stopped being friends about 6 months ago. She started becoming really selfish,and just always pissing me off. She was telling me she was clean but I know her too well and could tell by how she wasacting that she was lying to me. Now she hangs around with my younger sister who is 16. I just found out the other day, that just as I thought, she is still using. My sister told me she snorts heroin in front of her all the time and that she is getting really bad. She also told me that she offered her soem to try but my she told her no. The fact that she had the nerve to offer my sister drugs really pisses me off. I feel like calling her up and telling her off. I have been debating on doing this for like the past 3 days. I cant seem to stop thinking about it. I understand that she is ruining her life but why would she encourage someone else to do the same? I wanna call her or so bad! I am so mad! I don't know what to do.
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Call this girl! She needs serious help. She has a problem and doesn't realize it. You and others need to MAKE her realize it. Let all of your anger out if you talk to her. Tell her how she is destroying her life and her body. Tell me how it goes.
~Cayd
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Call her. At least it will be off of your chest an you will have done something about it. She may not listen, and she may hang up but you tried. I would also advise your sister not to hang out with her anymore because she could get into trouble for just being with her.
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If i were u i would call her. Tell her that u feel as if she is a bad influence on you and your sis. Tell your sis to say sumthing also. Maybe u won't get tru 2 her, but ur sis will! Hope i helped!!!
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If I were you.. I would def call her and tell her how you feel.I dont have friends that are into drugs like yours is... Most of mine just do pot... and I know my sister has done that a couple times. But thats not as deadly as herion.. But... You def need to call her and tell her whats up.. and you need to keep your sister away from her.. Because one day your sister is gonna feel like she needs to do what shes doing to fit in.. and then thats not going to be good..
I hope this helped..
~*Jackie~*
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You should call that girl and yell at her like your all alone in your room and no one can't hear you. Drugs are bad everyone knows that and the fact that she is offering your sister drugs is even worse so CALL HER AND YELL YELL YELL!!!
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If you're still worried about being this girl's friend, then you need to tell someone. Otherwise, it's not really your concern... All you should worry about is your sister; try to talk to her first, and explain the fact that this girl is a bad influence. If your sister doesn't listen, and still wants to be friends with her, it's probably best to take it to your parents. They ARE the only ones who can control who your sister is friends with. Hope we helped!
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i think you need to first talk to your sister and find out why she's hanging out with this girl...i'd get your sister's permission or at least tell your sister if you plan on confronting this girl - but i definitely think you shouldn't just let it happen...what kind of family is this girl raised in?? i kno it's a hard choice, but you might want to look into finding some help for her if you think she has a problem (and it sounds like she does)
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you definetly keep your sister away from her so that your friend wont get her into any trouble. and you should really call her or talk to one of her parents or something because she could really hurt herself.
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I would definetely talk to her...if you love her as af riend and everything then be nice about it.But i'm the type that if i wanna yell at you I will and if i wanna be a b**** about it i will.So I would probaly call her and I probaly would tell her off...not that that is right though.So just do what you feel.I have two younger sisters and if I didn't yell at her I would DEFINETELY talk to her and be like "Its your choice to do stupid things but don't suck my sister into it" Or somethin like that.So good luck!Hope she stops...
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i really think you should say something to her! that is really really bad that she is doing that stuff in front of your sister!!! even worse she's OFFERING IT TO HER?!?!? that's repulsive... call that drug addict bitch up and tell her off. that's not right! even better... tell her parents about it!
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