ok well im 14 and like 2 years ago i some how started talking to one of my older brothers friend online like alot!(he's really hot) and like we would go off and on with talking and stuff and like ive started to REALY like him and now he's leaving for collage tomarrow and im so upset about him leavng but i knwow how i feel dosnet make a differense to him and its not like i dont want him to go i just idk im so confused i can really us soem help!
xoMarisox answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 6:56 pm: look, it's okay. i know how you feel. it will blow over, i no it will. u will prob. find some1 else. dont let it worry u 2 much. think about the happy times u 2 had 2gether online and stufff.
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xoxo, maris [ xoMarisox's advice column | Ask xoMarisox A Question ]
xcry4noguyx answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 6:47 pm: I don't agree with the person that said it was just puppy love. People can feel strongly at the age of fourteen. The issue is, you like this guy BUT, even if you did have a chance with him, it would be illegal and he could go to jail. I think maybe you should concentrate on guys your age, none over two years older. He probably thinks of you more like a little sister, and maybe thats how you should start to feel about him. I know that it takes some time to get over people, but it does just sound like infatuation. Sure, you're going to miss him but life will go on. You'll get over him in time and will find someone more..well..legal and someone that really truely cares about you! :) [ xcry4noguyx's advice column | Ask xcry4noguyx A Question ]
ShOrTyRoX069 answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 6:47 pm: ive been there before im the youngest of 13 and my brothers all have hott friends and i hook up with them and this year i started going out with my brothers best friend (hes 17) when he had to go off to college he said he would call everyday wich he did but i broke it off and i just forgot about him..........i know its really hard to see someone u love leave so just find someone new like i did! [ ShOrTyRoX069's advice column | Ask ShOrTyRoX069 A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 6:33 pm: Well do you really think this guy is intrested in you? Or does he look at you like a little girl? If hes not intrested in you then you just have to move on hunny. But if it makes you feel better or special make sure you are there to say good bye/ good luck to him and see him off. :) [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 6:30 pm: sweetheart... you're 14 and he's what? 18 or 19? that's a pretty big age difference since you're only in highschool... i mean if you weren't in highschool and you were in college or whatever it wouldn't be a big deal but there is the whole fact that he's legal and you're not. i'm not saying you'd do this or anyhting but i've noticed ALOT of extreamly young girls are having sex at this age and even younger. i know a girl that got pregnant when she was 12!!! you just really have to consider your feelings about it. he's older he's more experienced (well probably) and i'm sure that he thinks your a nice girl and whatever but it's not exactly legal for him to like you as his girlfriend. if you care about him alot just let him be happy! let him find a girl friend his age! and you should do the same(but a boyfriend) i don't think that 2 years older than you is a problem so go for the older guys! you're probably just starting highschool... so check out the sophmores and juniors!!! hope i hepled! good luck! [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
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