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Member Since: August 17, 2004
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Last Update: August 21, 2004
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i really like this one guy but hes going out with a girl... and it seems like this guy likes me but then if he liked me why would he be going out with his grilfriend? so i don't know what to do anymore just go with the flow or try and work things out and just be friends with this guy... (link)
You should definietly not make this guy an enemy. I think that you should try to be friends with him and then get to know the girl and maybe become friends with them. They might even end up breaking up within days and so he'd be all yours. Just don't make them enemies!!! But when they do break up wait a little while, get to know him more and then ask him out! Dont wait around for him to ask you out! Besides rejection isnt always too bad. I hope I helped!
~Lady Marmalade


Well you see I really honestly don't care for her as a friend anymore. I think she is a bitch. She gets on my damn nerves now. I used to feel sorry for her and want to help her, but you cant help someone who doesnt want to be helped. she would tell me she wanted to stop and then like minutes go get high. I know that she really doesnt want to stop. I think its a shame that something is thought was just "all in fun" is now taking over her life. But, i can no,longer feel any sorrow for her, I think she is just stupid. I don't wanna be her friend. And despite the things she did, and the fact that I no longer like her, I had no problem with my sister hanging with her. I am not the jealous type. But, I just never thought that she would basically encourage my sister to do drugs when she knows that its wrong. I'm just glad that my sister is smart enough to say no. I wanna call her up and tell her " You fuckin little junky, If I ever find out that you are doing drugs around my sister or offering her drugs ever again, so help me god you won't have to worry about the drugs killing you"... thats just how mad I am. Now that you know more about how I feel, what do you think I should say?

Oh and her parents do know about her. She just can't be controlled. Shes been to rehabs. She lies and covers up teh stuff she does. (link)
Then i guess there is not much more that you can do for her, the important thing is that you tried to help her but she refused to.


there is this guy that i know...i just found out that he takes everything very seriously that is said to him and i said something before i knew that.. it was just playing around and i made it clear i was kidding...but i think he's still mad at me or he feels uncomfortable around me and i want to make sure we're still friends...but i dont know how..can you help me? this is rele important! thanx
ps-i'm 13/f (link)
you should definietly apologize to your friend and clearly tell him that you were just kidding right then. then make sure that everything is okay before you say anything else. i hope i helped!

~LadyMarmalade


I am 17/f. I had this childhood friend of like 8-9 years. We were best friends, but then we hit a ofrk in the orad and she turned to drugs about a year and a half ago. When I fisrt found out that she did it, I was pissed and told her that she was dumb and shouldnt do it again. She told me she wouldn't, that she was just tryingit so I gave her the benifit of the doubt. Her and I stopped being friends about 6 months ago. She started becoming really selfish,and just always pissing me off. She was telling me she was clean but I know her too well and could tell by how she wasacting that she was lying to me. Now she hangs around with my younger sister who is 16. I just found out the other day, that just as I thought, she is still using. My sister told me she snorts heroin in front of her all the time and that she is getting really bad. She also told me that she offered her soem to try but my she told her no. The fact that she had the nerve to offer my sister drugs really pisses me off. I feel like calling her up and telling her off. I have been debating on doing this for like the past 3 days. I cant seem to stop thinking about it. I understand that she is ruining her life but why would she encourage someone else to do the same? I wanna call her or so bad! I am so mad! I don't know what to do. (link)
you definetly keep your sister away from her so that your friend wont get her into any trouble. and you should really call her or talk to one of her parents or something because she could really hurt herself.


my boyfriend is really nice and i like him,but he is always calling other girls like my best friend to talk, and he never calls me. It always seems like hes avoiding me, what should i do? (link)
i think that you should start to call him instead of waiting for him to call you. this way he'll probably feel more comfortable talking to you and maybe you should ask your best friend what they are talking about and you can bring it up when your talking to your boyfriend. i hope i helped!

~LadyMarmalade


I have a boyfriend right now that im very happy with but i also still like my ex kinda. what should i do? (link)
you should stay with your boyfriend that you have right now and see later on how you really feel for your ex. for all you know you could get over your ex soon enough!




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