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hi my name is Anik I'm 5'11 I have brown hair ans blue eyes I love to help pplz with their problems and questions because I figure I can help them in many ways
Gender: Female
Location: Sturgeon Falls
Member Since: August 17, 2004
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Last Update: August 18, 2004
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I'm 14..Well me and my boyfriend broke up because we didn't see each other(If you read my last comment you'd understand) But the night we broke up was a night at a local dance. After we broke up my best friend or what i thought was my best friend was all over him..I still really like my ex..Should I still be mad at her for that or should I suck it up and deal with it? (link)
Forgive and forget and if she ever does sumthing like that slap her acrosse the face man thats rood...but it's sumthing to just forget about and live life


I'm going to be a junior in high school and I have no idea what I want to major in, where I want to go, or even what I really want in a college. How can I start narrowing down the search and decide where I want to apply?? (link)
well if you have something you really like doing and that has your total concentration on it and you do well in...you find it fun and stuff you should probably consider going for that alot of pplz have problem with this so they go on careercruising.com and they take the 30 question thing to give them like different job options

hope I helped

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I am a very skinny girl, but sometimes when I am anxious or I have eaten to much or I eat alot of sugar or fatty things I make myself throw up. I don't throw up alot of food, though and I don't think that I've gotten to the point where I am a bulimic. I know that it's really not healthy though, so I haven't done it in about six weeks but I always want to, and I feel like Im on the verge. I really don't want to talk to anyone at home about it b/c I don't want to go to rehab because the problem isn't that serious. What do I do? (link)
well since you do like throwing up and u haven't done it for at lease 6 weeks you should probably say ok every 6 weeks I'll make myself throw up once...and if you start to notice you're puking liquid go see your doctor cuz it can be acid from your stomach and thats not a good thing to puke

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okay when i first started asking questions on this site they'd send me the answers to my e mail and i'd just click on a link but now lately i have to go to "give advice" and find my question then get the answers and i don't like that because sometimes i miss out on some really good answers because they answer them the next few days..can someone tell me why they don't get sent to my e mail no more? and what to do? please thanks so much! (link)
well on the side where you see Welcome..... you'll see it says your questions if you click on that you'll have your questions and the advice given to you....I thought the same way but when it sent it to my email my email would get full so I didn't like it but you can see it if you go to my questions...you have your advice columns and all that you don't need to go find your question


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My question got deleted! And it says to refer to the help pages...But where are the help pages? (link)
the help pages I guess they must me the last lil word on the side of your page....cuz it says help it might not be it but Idon't know


i start school in a little over a week on the 30th of this month and i got gym and i heard we have to take showers in front of everyone and i dont want to...what can i do to get out of it and make it look like i took a shower? and do people talk about your body parts to other people that are in that class? helppppp! (link)
hey guess what I think you have shower curtains like at my high school which I'm going to I had the same problem I was scared but I got told girls dpn't take showers with eachother they have their own showers...and if you do take showers with them I'm sure they wont talk about it....and what you could do to make it seem like you took one wet your hair so it drips or go in a wash room and wash your body in the toilet so you don't have to do it infront of everybody else

hope I helped


hi i moved july 6 and well i have the oppourtunity to stay at my school where i was going before i only have one more year ( going into 7th) and but i can go to a diff school if i want (it a long story) welll if i go to the new school i can start over but im not sure if i want to and if i go to the same school it will be the same ol' borin stuff!! well i need help and i will rate only 4's and 5's so? can you help? (link)
I say you should go to the same school and just be different cuz thats where you have your friends and all that...me I was like boring and just weird and then before I went to 8th grade I changed my look completely and I got more friend I hung with more cool pplz....and they didn't find me oring you'll see this so often everywhere no matter what pplz change...and I think you might fit in more at your old school I'm going in 9th grade and I have to change cuz I'm heading to high school so don't worry about anything just go to your old school and just change be a different person experience things you never would of

good luck hope I helped


i used 2 live in north carolina nd i had a great boi friend. then i moved nd we broke up because he was cheating on me.. well now i'm moving bac nd i still love him nd he loves me nd he said he never cheated on me, but wen we 1st went out he was cheating on dis otha girl w/ me. sp should i go bac out w/ him or not? plz help me
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I think you shouldn't cuz chances are if he cheated already he'll continue on doing it and I'm sure you don't want to get your heart broken again right...don't let a guy brake your heart more then once and I think he already did it....he might say he never cheated but he could of cheated with the one he cheated on for you...you never know

guys are playas at these games don't let him play you


Just a few days ago my boyfriend bought me flowers just randomly. Well i got some pictures of us developed and had him pick out his fav. one. Today I'm going to get it inlarged and framed... and he guessed i was going to do that. Does anyone have any good ideas of little things i could get him including the picture. The flowers were sweet but I want to do something for him too besides a picture. Thanks and I will rate!

P.S. I dont want it to be to crazy!!! Just something small and sweet (link)
well If you think the picture isn't enough which seems enough and so sweet you could always get him like this nice players watch you know big and kinda loose ones the ones that don't coast over like 30 bucks or sumthing I'm sure he's love that

good luck sweetie


is it alright to wear a tampon during cheer practice?...are tampons supposed to stick out like 2 centimeters?...and well i was @ cheer practice, and we were doin jumping jacks..and after wards..i didnt fil it in me any more!..and i found out that i was juss layin in my panties!..can u help?! (link)
well yeah you can wear tampos durring cheerleading it's the best thing but no ur suppose to feel them inside you at all times if it's not complitly in you won't feel it meaning you didn't put it in deep enough just take your time and make sure you place it correctly


after u eat ALOT is it bad to make ur self throw up just one time ?? i know i wont get like obsessed, but it it bad for just 1 time? (link)
yes it's bad cuz if you do it once you'll end up doing it again cuz it makes you feel better and then you'll keep on doing it which will make you bolimic and thats not good so I would just suggest you try not to eat to much and if you do instaid of making yourself puke take x-lax or sumthing


What color should i wear to bring out my blue eyes?? ... thanks!! (link)
To bring out your blue eyes wear darker colors I have blue eyes and I use a black shirt to accent it and I always get compliments saying your eyes are very beautiful but also if you can wear like black eye liner so it makes your eyes pop out a little more and you could probably wear like a skirt or anything colorfull for pants or w.e. don't wear bright colors for shirts cuz your eyes don't show as much it's more your cloths that we'll show


what exactly is an orgasm?..and is it posible to have one if you are still a virgin?...or do u have 2 masterbate to have one? (link)
well u can get an orgasm at anytime not neccesarily while masterbating cuz you can be really horny and have one your hormons just react to it...and if you get an orgasm durring sex it has to be a very good pleasurable sex


hi this is chantal, you might have heard my name a couple of times,well the thing is one of my friends who will remain unknown because of stupid reasons is mad at me because i asked her if she talked behind my back, i acctualy know that she did because numourus pplz told me and it was basicly all the same story. anyways she's denying it, i told her i didn't care if she did i just want the truth but she won't give it to me!then she tells everyone including some of you guys that i tell all her secrets, first of all she never tells me anything so how can i say anything and second i'm not that kind of person. we've been friends for a long time but because of that she blocks me on msn and never calls me... i just want the truth, what can i do?
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Yo Chichi it's ok cuz your friend which I know who isn't to nice ok and yeah she does talk of u and she made her question sound like you were the bad person for no reason which was mean and now she knows we know what she asked...and I told her so don't worry cocotte we all love you'z....:D

lots of love your friend Anik


im going to warped tour tomorow and last year wen i went the bands were signing sutographs and stuff like that and i was wondering if anyone has alreadi went and knos if good charlotte wil or will not be signing autographs (link)
I heard from my friend Katie that she went there and that Good Charlotte were signing autographs and stuff like that she's suppose to show it to me your very lucky


all my life i've bin mostely put down about the way i look even if it wasent intentional...so now that i'm older (15) i am starting to get compliments from ppl(guys) but not many but even so i cant take them i always say something that disses myself and i'm staring to think maybe i do look good but when i look in the mirror i just see ugly and its bugs....i'm thinking maybe i just need a guys that will finaly treat me right so i might feel better but i'm not sure. maybe if that happens i will change cuz all the guys i've ever dated put me down in some way or another so that might have something to do with it but i dunno if you can help this problem i am saying THANK YOU! (link)
omg you shouldn't put youself donw because the more you do that the more you'll find yourself ugly and lower ur confidence I was like that till I got told to smarten up and just live with my life I'm beautiful everyones beautiful it's like art strange but beautiful no matter what the others say ..and u get good compliments meaning your not ugly looking damn girl just believe what the others tell you cuz usually they tell the truth

lots of love....advice_chica


Does anyone know any websites for diary's? (Anything besides xanga or live journal) (link)
go to tripod.com you can make different things on that


umm im 14 and im only a 36A nd all my firends are a yr younger nd the same size as me!!i think that im done growing is there ne way that i can tell if i am or not?? thnnx (link)
weight gain bigger boobs
and well more moody for som longer periods


My husband and I are adopting a cat today from the Humane Society. The cat is 4 years old, and has not been declawed. I feel it would be inhumane to do declaw her, but I am worried about her scratching my furniture, and me as well. Does anyone have any alternitives to declawing, or how to prevent her from scratching the furniture.

And any other tips for a new cat owner would be appriciated. (link)
you should declaw only his front paws and leave him his back claw I did it to my cat and he's able to do the same things as before...and he can still catch mice with or without his claws




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