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backstabber
hi this is chantal, you might have heard my name a couple of times,well the thing is one of my friends who will remain unknown because of stupid reasons is mad at me because i asked her if she talked behind my back, i acctualy know that she did because numourus pplz told me and it was basicly all the same story. anyways she's denying it, i told her i didn't care if she did i just want the truth but she won't give it to me!then she tells everyone including some of you guys that i tell all her secrets, first of all she never tells me anything so how can i say anything and second i'm not that kind of person. we've been friends for a long time but because of that she blocks me on msn and never calls me... i just want the truth, what can i do?
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Yo Chichi it's ok cuz your friend which I know who isn't to nice ok and yeah she does talk of u and she made her question sound like you were the bad person for no reason which was mean and now she knows we know what she asked...and I told her so don't worry cocotte we all love you'z....:D
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Sit her down and TALK TO HER. Don't try Iming her, and don't E-Mail her either. Call her up, or when you see her at school say "I really need to talk to you. Please can I just tell you something?" If she says no to that you need to call her up. Maybe she doesn't answer the phone. Leave a message that says something like "You've been my friend for a long time and I really need to talk to you because I care about our friendship." Maybe someone in her family will hear the message and convince her to call you. Or maybe she listened to the message. If you do get a hold of her somehow say something like "I only wanted to know if you talked behind my back because I wanted to know the truth. Maybe you are embarrased about talking behind my back. I'm not mad at you for it, if you did, and I am not accusing you of it. Nobody is perfect. We've been friends for a long time, and if there's something going on in your life that's making you unhappy, then I'd really like to talk to you about it because I care about you. If you don't want to respond to me just know I'll always be here whenever you're ready to talk."
If she doesn't respoond to this, then you've done everything you can. There is really nothing you can do except wait for her to come to you.
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Dump that bitch of a friend like yesterdays garbage, and then listen to some N*sync
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