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Last Update: August 19, 2004
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I'm 16 and i know im pregnant. Im starting to gain weight, my family has a good reputation,like no pregnancies below 20 i dont know how to tell my mom what should i do
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well your going to have to tell your mom sometime cuz like you said your gaining wait so its going to showand if your mom really loves you(witch she probably does) she will get mad but she will be there for you and the reputation wont matter....tell your mom! lol
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Ok im really attracted to my friend and he's a guy and i really think he's hot but idk how 2 tell him how i feel or even if he's gay. Please help i am a 14 and im a guy please help! (link)
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well i think the best thing is just to tel him how you feel and just explaine to him that these feelings are their and that if he doesent want to...just ask him to still be friends
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i want to sleep with this guy, im a vrigin and im lil nerveous but i know im ready should i?
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well its up to you if you feel you like this guy and YOUR ready go for it
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how come when people smoke weed..there eyes get all red? why does it do that? (link)
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your eyes get red cuz its a natural body reaction and some ppl actually dont get that reaction though
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ok so my best friend thinkz that theres a guy in our class who likes her cuz shes been asking him who he likes and hes giving off clues in a way. but i talked to him and from my point of view, it sounds like im the person that he likes cuz he said its a "very close friend of hers" that he likes. so if its ME that he likes and not her, and he told me not to tell anybody, should i tell her that shes not the one that he likes? this is a very serious question and i could loose my friendship with both of them if i just make one wrong move (link)
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ok this is easy if he asked to you keep your mouth shut do it.....she doesent need to know that its not her cuz if you tell her she will atomaticly assume that you know who it is and if you tell her its you you'll just probably end up with both mad at you....but if this guy reacts on his feelings well then if you find that you really like him back well just tell him to wait make sure your friend will be ok with everything then go for it but i'd say keep it shut until everything is right but right now i say she dosent need to know. hope i helped if you have anymore questions feel free to ask me
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Hi I have a quesiton for all of you.
I'm 14 a gurl and for 8 years of my life (sence I was 5) I have been dancing. Jazz, Tap, Ballet all of it. I quit each one until I had Tap left. I will be honest I was one of the best dancers in each class I was in But I quit because I couldn't take my mothers constant complaining about the money and the time it took her to take me there and wait. I finaly gave in to her the begining of this year and I quit Tap also. after I quit everything reminded me of tap. I cried myself to sleep I missed it that much. I have made up my mind to go back when dance starts again but I having doubts that I won't be excepted by all the other dancers. and my mom is starting her complaining already and I haven't even found my tap shoes yet. I was wondering what all of you think?
P.S. I was in the highest class you could go (Advanced 2) so I was really good but I really am afraid that I can't take what all are going to say. (link)
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i was in tap for the same amount of time but i'm 16 and i quite when i was 14 i quite because of a simular reason but all i can say is probably forget about it cuz even just a year can put you really far behind other then that i dont thinkg the other danser will have a problems and if they do tell them to shuv it
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Hey me and m boyfriend were best friends b4 we went out so we were alredy really really close and we got even closer since we r going out...and we could talk 4 5 or 6 hours ont ha fone and never have a silent moment or a dull moment and talk 24.7 but latly we hardy cant even talk like we talk 5 30 mintues on tha fone and prolly get 20 mintues of talkin dun...and i think now thats skools startin were gunna grow further apart than we alredy r ...and i really luv him and he really luvs me 2 but we r just growin apart and not doing as much 2gether wut do i do?! pls help me thx so much (link)
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just chill lol he prob doesent love you less its probably just that you guys are to much together and you guys just need some days apart and things will prob get back to normal lol
hope i helped
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Ok, well my friend is having this party this coming saturday and shes inviting her cousin. i think he's really fun to be around and stuff but all he wants to do is makeout with girls at the party. i like him, but im not into like just meeting a guy and making out. and since ive never made out with anyone, im scared. i was thinking of just not going to the party so i wouldnt have to worry about him wanting to make out. wat should i do? im 13 and hes 15. (link)
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ok well first of all i was the exact same way at your age and i'm 15 now lol kissing is not so bad and it doesent mean your gonna marry him lol and you dont have to miss the party just tell him no and he will get the message but hey girl f hez fine and he tryz to makeout take it as a compliment lol
hope i helped and if any other problems come up just give me a shout out
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okay, im a sophmore this year and ive been going to the same private school since the 5th grade so obviously i know everyone in my grade well and blah blah, the problem is, the ppl that i have been friends with in the past years, are jus really annoying, childish, and down right lame, im jus so sick of them i dont want to be their friends anymore, dont tell me that im mean, becuz you dont know the whole situation, the point is ive dropped them, anyhow, now how can i make new friends becuz i dont like anyone in my class and im not sure if we are getting any new cool girls this year, what can i do! and most the ppl that i would wanna hang out with, its liek theyve already got their own friends, and i have no one! help plz! (link)
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if your only looking for ppl cool i cant help you because that is shallow but who cares if they have their own friends if they like you as a person they will hang with you and their friends
hope i helped
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the only way i can get a cell phone is if i pay for it, and i was just wondering how many ppl felt that it would be worth it? (link)
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i think its worth it if your old enough....like if your old enough to stay out past eight and if you dont have a curfue or if your old enough to party but if your like 13 or younger its a waist cuz yes you might think its cool but thats all you will use it for...to look cool and a cell isent worth if you only have that in mind
i hope i helped
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ok well there has been a lot of things going on and i've gotten really depressed. im on medicine for it but it doesnt seem to be working anymore. its like the 5th kind of pill that i've tryed. im always crying and thinking about the bad things but i can't help it. i used to be able to write about it in my poems but now i just kinda can't. i really need help and i dont know what to do. i dont want to cry myself to sleep everynight.
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hey,
i can realte i went though a fazz like that and what really helped me was a jornal i took with me everywher and i wrote in it each time i felt any emotions....and that helped me alot....since then stoped crying in the dark and started dreaming again....i hope i helped and if you have more questions dontbe afraid to ask i went through it
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my friend whose a girl and 14 told me a few days ago that she cutts. i was devistated wen i heard this. i asked her wat in the world wud make u so miserable as 2 kill urself? and she sed that her family was messed up and that shes ben feeling really depressed. i told her 2 think bout wat life will bring her in the future. youll have kids a husband a job and a happy life. i dont think it convinced her. wat should i do? (link)
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you should get her help and be there for her as much as you can so she might not feel so alone and other then that all i might suggest is that you tell her parents about this she might not thank you now but she might later
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Okay i was just wondering....does it hurt to get your tounge belly-button or nose peirced? and is there like any way you could do it yourself without damagin anything?? and then also..if your like drunk or high or somethin....would it still hurt? and one last thing....does anyone know of any good sites thatll give you tips on how to do it yourself or information on it?? Thnkx alot!! (link)
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ok well its easy nothing of those things hurt cuz i'v had them all done and YOU CAN NOT do your tougne yourself because you can end up not tasting anything for the rest of your life and you cant do your belly botton either cuz thata gonna prbobly end up just infecting and getting all nasty anyways lol and the nose well i've done it and its all good but i suggest if your a wimp and i dont mean that in a bad way but if you cant tolerate pain go do it proffessionaly and about the site for pearcing it yourself....dude its simple take a pin sanitise it and sanitize the place your pearcing and go for it. lol hope i helped and if you any more questions about pearcings i'm the person to ask
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Hey everyone, Sporkster here. I logged on Advicenators today to discover that I've somehow been deranked. Not just from Level 2 Mod to Level 1: Now I'm not even a Level 1 Mod. What's up with that? I've answered 103 questions and I'm ranked as a 4.71. (link)
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maybe you'v answered so many questions that you've stoped really caring about the persons probleme and your not giving good advice
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I watch my 2 year old neice a lot for my sister and every time we go anywhere we always listen to veggie tales in my car or she spazzes. Anyone know any current music that wouldnt make me crazy that a little kid might like? (link)
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the only music 2 year olds like drive you crazy but then again my mom is a day care worker and i find that pop music with alot of beat can satisfy a little kid but other then that lol enjoy the crazy music lol
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We've been going out for 2 years and her birthday's coming up. What should i do? (link)
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it doesent have to be big but be romantic.....some will tell you by her a gift$$$ lol but i will personaly tell you that not all girls like big gifts but all girls love when you make them feal special so maybe that help and if it does feel free to ask more questions to me i can tell you more
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I met this guy at the movies..we had been talkin for quite awhile on the internet. He goes to a different school and my best friend knows him. Well i think he is interested in me but i dont know..how do i find out if he likes me or not? (link)
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thats an easy question to answer....be straight forward and tell him how you feel and ask him about how he feels and if your nervouse its to be expected but just think whats the worst he can do....say no would be bad but its not the end of the world and at leased if you know you can move on if he doesent feel the same and if he does have fun lol good luck
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all my life i've bin mostely put down about the way i look even if it wasent intentional...so now that i'm older (15) i am starting to get compliments from ppl(guys) but not many but even so i cant take them i always say something that disses myself and i'm staring to think maybe i do look good but when i look in the mirror i just see ugly and its bugs....i'm thinking maybe i just need a guys that will finaly treat me right so i might feel better but i'm not sure. maybe if that happens i will change cuz all the guys i've ever dated put me down in some way or another so that might have something to do with it but i dunno if you can help this problem i am saying THANK YOU! (link)
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sweetie everybodies pretty no matter what you don't need to put youself done for nothing if guys find you hot or good lookin they mean it and guys don't lie to girls faces about looks
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My girlfriend is moving three states over for 6 months because of family problems but will for sure be back by then. She says she wants to continue dating while shes gone but i dont know if i can do that. We would only beable to talk on the phone and maybe i could drive over a few times. Anyone else had a long distance relationship? Whats it like, what do you have to do to make it work? (link)
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well in my experience it doesent but maybe talking a small break for that period of time should be best and then it that way you wont be dating but at leased you know that you wont break up or argu alot and you can still talk to her o the phne just like you were going out but it will be a break.
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whenever i talk with my friends and stuff and they gossip about "ooh so and so got to this base"... im always kind of the one who is wondering... "what does that mean"... like im not SLOW in that department i just wanna know what each base means (no im not talking about baseball)... im not super young, ive heard just different explanations of the bases and i wanna know THE ULTIMATE BASE LINGO. if you catch my draft ;O)... thanks for whoever gives advice!
-signed, catchmeup (link)
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1st base- kissing(pecks-no tougnand hugs
2nd base-feeling up(under and over cloths
3rd base-oral sex(blow jobs,hand jobs,eating out,fingering, 69 etc..)
home having actual sex.
i hope that answers it for you lol
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