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Ok im really attracted to my friend and he's a guy and i really think he's hot but idk how 2 tell him how i feel or even if he's gay. Please help i am a 14 and im a guy please help!
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Well, does your friend know that YOU are gay?
I'd say that was the first step - maybe he's having similar feelings and does not know about your sexuality. Either way, you'll want to be upfront and honest with friends about your sexuality; you want them to know all of you.
Once he knows, he could ask questions, make a move, etc. The first thing to do is talk...and then hope he likes you back!
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Ok, I'm pretty good with this because I always give my best friend whoes gay adive. Ok. I'm guessing he doesn't know your gay. If he is stright don't come on too hard because you don't want to loose a friend. When MY friend came out to me it was almost like he tested me to make sure I'd accept him before he totally came out (I was the first person he came out to) He told me some story about a guy who came up to him and asked him if he was gay. Then he said the guy asked him on a scale of 1 to 10, 1 being stright and 10 being gay what he was. My friend said he was a five and said it was inpossable for anyone to be a one and even the strightest people for 2 or 3. Then from week to week he'd rase the number, untill he finally told me.
My point is try that. Make sure your friend is totally accepting before you come out to him but when you do don't scare him off by accessive flirting or anything. If your friend is gay, after you come out, he'll probally come out too, but he might need a little more time.
When he comes out to you is your chance to flirt. Please don't flirt untill you know because you don't want to loose a friend.
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this is a tricky one. does your friend know you're gay? and has your friend had any girl/boyfriends recently? i'd suggest talking to him. tell him how you feel, and see how he reacts. be prepared for the worst, because he may react badly. but hopefully he'll understand and let you know how he feels. i wouldn't recommend telling him you want to have sex with him straight away. talk to him first, and see where things go from there.
good luck :)
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well i think the best thing is just to tel him how you feel and just explaine to him that these feelings are their and that if he doesent want to...just ask him to still be friends
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Hey hun. Well ... so this is a complicated problem, because you are faced with two different things. Coming out of the closet (if you haven't already) and if you tell this guy you are attracted to him, and he's not gay, you might lose a friend. Well, first, I would beat around the bush .... ask him questions, like if he has ever been attracted to men and things like that ... if it sounds like he's gay, and your comfortable with it, tell him!!! Your not alone in this, I have a gay friend who has the same exact problem as you.
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Okay well you are just going to have to tell him how you feel about him and if he doesn't like you like that then he is not the boy for you! I know it is hard being gay but your going to have to try and deal with it.
-Katie
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play like truth or dare or somthing and ask him if hes ever done nething sexual with a guy and if so did he like it? if he says yes he liked it then u kinda know hes gay u know? or maybe bi..maybe that will help...good luck!
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p.s if this guy is ur friend then if u tell him that u are attracted to him he shouldn't not wanna be ur friend justbecuz ur gay/bi sexual..so if he does freak out and not wanna be ur friend he was never a friend worth having
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uhh.. well i dont think theres anything wrond with beiing gay so i guess if you feel sooo strongly about him then tell him.. you have a 50/50 chance.. and wait for the whole sex thing.. :P
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whoa, ok!! i dont think u should tell him 1st, i think u should like ask him if hes bisexual n u will be able 2 see by the way he replies to u if hes gay or straight. if hes straight, then let him go, if hes gay then ask him out!!
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Wait awhile to ask your friend. Study how he acts around girls or other guys. See if he flirts with guys or girls. If he flirts with girls, he probably is straight. Hope i helped a little bit!
~Cayd
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ok...heres what you do...hold off on wanting to have sex with him. Try seeing if he goes for the girls at ur school, if he looks like hes tryin to be straight, and really bad at it thats a givenif he acts like you do, lkke if he likes doin things that a stright man would never do then hes probably gay. Theres also a possinbility thathe really shy about expressing his sexuality get him to loosen up around you.
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Well u can take him into a room where no1 will bother u and xplain how you feel, and ask him how he feels. if u need more help, im me at ATINARAT4ever
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instead of asking, Are you gay? dance around the question. for instance, do you know anyone whose gay? that way if he isnt gay he wont never talk to you again.
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