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hey hey hey people..well im 14 my b days in november ill be 15 and gettin my drivers permit yay :) lolz..well i attend alief taylor high school ..this is my 1st year and im on the junior varsity cheerleading team and am gonna try out for softball :)....im here to help people and not get any crap from any one i hope that i can help you and ill do my best!!! mauhz ~!KaRa!~
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Last Update: August 26, 2004
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i hate my life the guy i like hates me becuase he thinks im a whore my family is disappointed in me for sum gay reason all my freidns hate me b/c they think i said stuff that i didnt!! i jus dnt see da point in living anymore please help (link)
Listen to me you do have a reason to live dont say that...and that guy if he cant see you for who you really are and not cause of what hes heard then honey hes so not worth your time.and your friends tell them you said none of that stuff and talk about it with them get everything out tell them you want to talk about everything because you dont want to lose any good friends and prove to your family that they shouldnt have a reason to be disapointed in you! you only live your life once and i dont know who you are but i dont want you to think that theres no point in living because there is!! update me back after youve talked to your friends and tell me how its going!


i have looong hair that i can't seem to do anything with, it looks nice straight, but i want to SPICE it up a bit, without dying it, ive done that enough



please help meee (link)
get a cool cut!! like if its super long do really short layers on top and like loong layers at the bottome(i know it sounds weird but trust me ive seen it on a girl before and its really cute)


hay its confued girl i went with ur advice and it worked out really well b/c he was feeling da same way and now im going out with da guy from katy taylor thank you soo much u rock kara (link)
awww im really glad it helped!! and good luck with the katy taylor guy!!!!


okay i have a long distnace relationship and there is this guy who goes 2 katy taylor and i really ike him and hes really cool but my bf who lives in another state and i really care bout him and a lo but im jus so lonely should i tell him bout the other guy or keep it a secret??
*confused girl* (link)
ok well i can see how much you like your current b/f but to be honest you should end it cause when you think of it you probably never see him
(i dont really know the situation) but i would end it because you could have that guy at katy taylor and hes right there you know...but ultimately the decision is up to you and what you thinks best im only tryin to let you realize why have a long distance relationship if you never see the person...? hope i helped ..tell me what happens


I just got hives(itchy big bumps on your skin) and its from an allergic reaction. I've been taking a pill everyday so everyone thinks its from that. Does anyone know anything that can help them go away? (link)
DONT ITCH!! im sure you know that already but that will help keep em from spreading and leaving scars..but go to your doctor and ask for a stronger medicine


OK heres the thing me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and hes a grade younger than me, so next year ill be in a different school an im wondering if othr people are goin to make fun of me and stuff, i rlly like him but im afraid that it might ruin my reputaion, also im afraid wht will appen if he was to brake up wit me? will my reputaion be ruined forevr? PLEASE HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!! (link)
well i can understand a little where your coming from my ex of almost a year was a year younger than me..but it dont bother me and you shouldnt let it bother you..especially if you really like him dont let other people ruin somthin good for you...age is nuthin but a number! and if people say somthin just tell them at least you have some one who cares about you and that they should worry about themselves..i never let it bother me and people were cool with it! good luck!


Ok im a cheer leader im 14 and our uniforms are like really ugly and supposadly we cant get new 1's but we can get stuff like matchin shoes, socks, and jackets but we cant get new uniforms so we needa raise money to get these thigns and maybe convince them to let use get new uniforms so wat are some good fun raising ideas?????


~Cheer grl~ (link)
tell your coach or sponsor as a team that you all think its time for a change and somthin new and ..like before you telll them this look around at to find reasonable prices but its still cute...and tell your coach and then have a car wash backe sale or do a fundraiser with a company..good luck!!


see well okay at the store my mom had to run in for a few things, well my x b/f came to talk to me ,(with his new gurlfriend!) and I couldnt
talk i was speachless!, But he broke up with her right there and then , and in front of her he asked me back out and I couldn't say anything to answer!!should I or shouldn't i?? and he said i was hott in front of her.!!!!
PLZ Help!!!
AS SOON AS U CAN!!! (link)
well 1st off i wouldnt want a boyfrend who would tell his ex(in front of me) shes hot then break up with me right then and there...i mean hes got some bad qualities and you wouldnt want him to do somthin like that to you would you?? i mean just think it over if hes worthy enuff for you!


i have the friend her name is kara wara..n i dont know how to tell her shes soo damn awesome!! hahah!!! what should i do???



hahah love ya muchos kara wara..ill be@ yalls game..to cheer yall on!! mucho love!

wEavY nAy nAy
xo-nAy nishA-xo (link)
awww weavy nay nay lolz..man gurl ima miss ya sooo freakin much and you betta be at the games lol!!! good luck at kerr!!!!kick ass
mauhz ~!KaRa!~


Hey. I'm having my boyfriend over on Satarday, I have the house to myself and everything, and I want to make him dinner, but I have no idea what to make!!! Does anyone have any ideas, or recipes??? (link)
ask him what he likes then look it up on the net for recipes and how to make it ..ask him what some of his favorites are ...especially desert..:)


i have a welt on my leg that i got from a bad fall 2 years ago and i kno it's been a long time, but is there any way to make it less noticeable or get rid of it?? (link)
if you ask your doctor i think they make a special medicine for that cause i have one to and i got the medicine and you can hardly see it and if you rub it lightly then that somtimes makes it go down to


wat kind of things make girls laff like wat kind of jokes or actions? (link)
nothin discriminating or racial..but be yourself cause a girl can tell when your nervouse...but somtimes some of the stupidest corniest jokes make us laugh believe it or not


Kevin1986 here again. I've been hearing a lot about guys only look at looks and everything like that. Lemme set the record straight here. If a girl is hott,she's a lot more likely to get asked out,true enough. But very few guys will tolerate a hot bitch. We're much more likely to go for the average looking girl with a great personality. I get pissed when we're made to look the bad guy and not every guy is as shallow as you describe. And besides,who are you more likely to ask out,Brad Pitt or the nice fat guy down the street? Stop being so hypocritical. (link)
i agree with you..even though thats not for me i think your absolutely right i have been talking to an amazing guy whos changing my total outlook on guys and giving me hope :)


Ok. Im fat is there neway i can get skinner by tha time skool starts on Sep.7 and i need to work on my stomach area. (link)
go running ..and do crunches


Hi people! I am on a high school varsity cheerleading squad. And the thing is, there are 15 of us and we are 600.00 in debt cause the last year's coach bought the team new uniforms and never paid for them, and now we need fundraising ideas. We already got the basics like the car wash, bake sale, candy sales, and things like that. So if anyone has any other ideas rather than the one's above, IT WOULD HELP US OUT ALOT! We also have to buy new uniforms as well! Thankz for your time! ;) (link)
try an auction! like have people donate things then send out flyers to get everyone to come...im also on a cheerleading team so i can understand ....try doing a fundraiser with a company!!! good luck :)


I'm really into writing Dark Poems, REALLY dark poems. But the weird thing is, I'm a REALLY happy person who leads a good life with a loving family and lots of friends. o.o; I don't have any depression or anything and I'm not going through Teen Angst. Is something wrong with me? o___O; (link)
maybe since your always so happy you try to make the dark poems bring you down since theres nothing around you that makes you angry or upset..i think the poems are a good way to get that out..but dont dwell on them..stay a happy person people like that


This is just a question of curiosity...how many mL's (milligrams) of water are you suppose to get each day? If not mL's..then oz's(ounces)..? Thanks!!!(14 year old gurlio) (link)
you should drink up to 8 or 10 glasses of water a day


ok this mite seem complicating. I always hang out wit my older sis and her friend. Well theres this boy that my sisters friend knos n theyve known eachother for awhile. Well i like boy now and ma sis and her friend always try to ignore him wen he wants to hang out i wanna hang out wit him b/c i like him and they dont kno that.What should i do!? and how can i figure out if the guy likes me or not w.o askin him? he always looks at me n smiles n stuff but i dunno if hes jus b friendly or if he likes me?..xo`help! (link)
well ask him over yourself..see if he wants to hang out with you and your sis maybe..then tell your sis that hes coming and if she wants to hang out with yall..then maybe your sis will get the idea that you like him or tell your sis..she might be able to help ya out :)


does anyone know any good places that hire 14 year olds? i really need a job! lol (link)
well since your so young try smaller business because they are more likely to hire you..and try to get a workers permit through the school becasue thats what i did and im 14 and ive had the same job for about 4 months :)




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