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Going to a WHOLE new school..
ok. well i live here in a town called fresno. fresno is a town of really down to earth, cool people. most people aren't really wealthy, which means theres hardly any stuck up snobby people etc.
well.. now im moving to the town next to fresno, called clovis. and clovis is a really nice town. home to people living in MILLION dollar homes. a lot of wealthy people living in that town. so.. theres definetly gonna be snobby rich b**tches there.. and i dont mix well with those kinds of people. meaning, i dont like them lol.
i dont totally have anything aginst them tho, thats just not the type of people i like to hang with or be around..
so of coarse. im going to the school there called buchanan. so like.. im really worried that im not going to make friends because i dont care for rich snobbs which is mainly what the school is made of.
WHAT DO I DO??? how do i make friends..
love, manda
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I kind of went through the same thing. I went from going to a public school in a not-so-wealthy (but not dirt poor) town to a "fancy", overrated private school. I expected everyone at my new school to be rich and snobby, and a few people were. But there were also many down to earth, nice people there too. I can't guarantee that you'll be in the same situation, but look for people who like you for you and not for how much you're worth and you'll have some good friends. The people I decided to befriend never talk about money, and I personally have no idea how much they make and whether they really are one of the richest kids in the school or whether they're just like me. Keep in touch with your current friends though, you said it's the next town over, so even if you go to Buchanan and it IS made up of all snobby kids, you'll have your down-to-earth friends from Fresno to back you up. It's only the next town over so it's not like you'll never see them again. Good luck.
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OMG we r totally going through the same thing i am switching high schools from one that is very deverse with like middle class pple and no one really judges u and ur friends with like everyone to a school where everyone has money and they r spoiled and stuck up and all that crap...i have been there one week and realized that not EVERYBODY are stuck up bitches...im not gunna lie there r some but not as many as i thought and im a very shy person so i usually dont just go up 2 pple and introduce myself but i tried 2 at least meet one person in each of my classes and its goin pretty well
sorry 2 blab on about my life but its just an example...try not 2 be shy and smile and introduce urself 2 pple....dont worry just smile and meet pple urself...dont wait for them 2 come 2 u.....GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD LUCK with everything and hope it turns out well...let me know...lol...:]
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okay. alot of schools are like that. but it mite be like known for the *snobs * but there are probably all kinds of different ppl that go there. so just wait till the first day and meet new ppl. try to get along w. them even if it kills you`! some of them could be really nice and yall could be really good friends
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hey im marissa i live in fresno california too i would liek to talk to you more cuz you seem really cool but buchanan is a good school dont worry i live near it but im goign to clovis west like amanda well the other one that posted shes one of my fantastic friends!! okay buchanan people are nice you just have to meet the right crowd for you most of the popular people are nice but some can be mean im not trying to scare you but yea its mostly the boys that are rude but then there are the hott boys wow they have some good lookers over there! ha but yea if you want to talk you can IM me on AIM at dressmeNdiam0nds (im not stuck up) or you can send me something in my inbox!!
..*..MarissA..*..
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give them a chance. just try and be yourself and get to know them. they might be a great group of people. good luck!! drop one in my inbox if you need more help. ****
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You are generalizing a group of people that might actually not be snobs. Give them a chance. Ask them about their hobbies, music, sports, or other interests. I am sure you will find someone you will like to hang out with among hundreds of people. Just be yourself and be friendly.
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wow i live in fresno. and im amanda! i go to Clovis West.. but um i think that you should give ANYONE a chance especially when you dont even know anyone there. Just because those girls have lots of money does not mean they are what you think they are. but Good Luck!
to make friends: be yourself! talk to people in your classes..etc.. dont wait for people to come talk to you. go to them and say something!
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Hi. hun it's okay that you dont like them but i'm sure not all richies arint snobs and everything. try to make a few friends...opick a few ppl in your class and find out how they are like and if they are snobs and forget them but try to find ppl that are more like your friends and talk to them and ask them about themselves and i dont kno..find things to say to them that if they act a certain way to it then maybe they are or not snobs. i sure do hope you find the right ppl there. Take Care..Hope I Helped! x3 SweetStar.
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first of all; forget completely about them being wealthy; it's their parents that are rich.not them. not all of them are gonna be bitchy, probably most of them won't be. relax, and just act normally how you would.
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Well, don't unfaiRly judge these kids.. you haven't even met them yet. PeRhaps you'll be suRpRised to discoveR that some of these "rich snobs" aRe Really teRRific people!! I say just go to school with an open mind. Also, it's like a guaRantee that, yeah.. SOME of these people ARE going to be "rich snobs", just be confident in youRself, and don't let theiR cockiness bRing you down. Just be outgoing and fRiendly!! Also, neveR woRRie about what these people aRe going to think of you.. just do youR thing and have fun doing it!! I wish you the best!! Hope I helped!! =D
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you cant just go judgeing those rich snobs. you might actually get to know some of them and they be the shit. i say just give em a chnace.
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well you never really know...they might actually be just like you! some of them might be rich but still nice! anyway..just be yourself!
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DUDE!!! Is that the school that has the bears as their mascot? i met people from clovis, and ive been to that one school...i dont live there, i just went for something, on the weekends..lol..it's a realy nice school. I know what you mean about the rich and snobby people, but realy..just be urself..thats all that matters and im sure u'll make a few good friends.
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well there might be kids in that school who feels the exact same way that you do. once you go to that school, just keep your head up and dont let those snobs get to you. youll make some good friends, itll all fall in place
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The thing to do here is just treat people the way you want to be treated. And if they don't like you,then I'm afraid that's their problem and youve done all you can do. Not everyone is an asshole. Just a lot of people.
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I'm sure there will be at least <i> some</i> rich kids that are not, in fact snobs. Try giving people a chance and be who you are at your present school. If certain people act snobby to you first, then you know that they aren't going to be your buds. Just don't jump to judge anyone before you know them.
Good luck, in any case.
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manda, i would try to get to know the girls and give them a chance before oyu completly reject the friendship you two could have. Dont judge them before you meet them and play nice! hehe good luck - tell me how everything works out!
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you havent met them yet and im sure their not all rich snobs. being yourself is best.
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