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how can i earn her trust?
i love my mom honestly i do, but she doesnt trust me....with anything!! not with my computer, phone or even with just my friends!! (especially the guy ones). how can i get her to just trust me?
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let her no that you can tell her anything and that she should be less protective. i had the same problem w| my mom buh i talked to her about it and she started to not be so crazy! lol if you have any more questions put it in my inbox ! thanks
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Maybe it would help to sit and talk with her about this lack of trust; if you feel uncomfortable talking with her, write her a letter. Don't do this while angry, try to stay calm or you may say things you'll regret later!
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well you are still young and your mom doesn't want you to do anything that you might regret. Someday you will understand why your mom is like the way she is. Just do as your told and she will come around one day
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wow i had almost the same problem a few years ago. all these little mistakes i made and they ended up not trusting me at all. the best advice i have is to prove to her ur responable. ask her to let you have guy friends over the house and hang out in a spot where see can watch you but not be hovering over you. ask her to give you a chance to prove youself. talk to her about stuff thats going on and if u make a good choice about something and your proud of it make sure she knows. also do things before shes asks u to. clean your room up, and get offline before she has to tell you to get off, and get off the phone the first time she asks. as you get older she'll begin to trust you more so have a talk with her and tell you that you'd like to prove you are responsable. she wont trust you over night but im sure it will work.
oXo Elizabeth
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prove to her that she can trust you. Start doing some kind of job and show her that you a responsible and that you can be trusted. Even write her a note about how you feel about the way she is thinking. That may help...
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just talk to her tell her everythuig
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I so know what you mean.My mom gives me the line "I trust you I just dont trust other people"!So what you have to do Is show her that you can be trusted and can take/handle responsibility.To do this first off Suck up as much as possible!I mean it if she asks you to do something do it right away no argument(parents hate arguments).This might take 3 days to a week for her to see that you are minding and LISTINING!Second,Make a proposal.Say you want to go to a partty at a friends house but your mom doesnt want you to.Tell her that you will call her at a certain time and check in,tell her that if she lets you go then you will do something for her,things of this sort.And the more that she lets you do and you follow through on your promises I bet ya she will notice and you will have to make less and less promises till she knows she can trust you!
Hope I helped
*Lacey
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your mom is just probably scared that you willl be influenced by all the shit that teens your age do. she probably see tv and sees that 13 yr old girls are being fast ass whores, and guy are taking advantage of them. and so many young people are doing drugs and drinking. shes being over protective, cuz she cares about you. just tell her, look mom, you can trust me, im not gonna out and be a crack head or pot head, or a drunken whore. when im on the computer or phone i dont talk about whos doing who and who im gonna do or where the big party is with all the boose and shit. and when im hanging around boys i dont be standing there like a hootchie like come and get it, im giving it away. let her know you are not a fuckin dummy, and you are not trying to live the fast life and ruin yourself.
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Well you didn't mention if you've eveR done something that would MAKE heR not tRust you, but peRhaps you should just tRying talking to heR. Tell heR you'Re getting oldeR now, and you'd appReciate some moRe slack, at least pRivacy. Just ensuRe heR that you won't go mess up and get high... let heR know you can be Responsible and counted on. I wish you the best of luck!! hope I helped! =D
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trust is something you win over time. did you ever do anything to make her lose trust in you? if not, have a talk with her. tell her that there isnt anything that you do that is "bad." tell her she needs to trust that youre not going to do something that you know is wrong, and that you know whats wrong and right.
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Show her that you are responsible give her a reason to trust you, dont shut her out on your life, let her know what you are doing, she'll give you more freedom that way...
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