well my name is Elizabeth. i have brown hair and green eyes. im very friendly but im also very honest. my friends think i give great advice, so ask away! ill be sure to answer xox Eliza
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Hey there everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and I am a virgin. I am in no way thinking of having sex or asking if i'm too young to or anything, this has to deal more with the future. I am going to wait to have sex until I find a special person, it doesn't really matter if I am married or not. But, I'm afraid that the longer I hold out, it's going to be harder and harder to find a guy that's a virgin also, because it seems like there are none left. So I was wondering if it's silly of me to think that there is a guy out there that is a virgin that I will find somewhere down the road as I get older. Or stop being silly about it and not care? (link)
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Well first off let me give you a big congrats. i know it seems like everyone from ages 14-18 are having sex all the time these days but that simply just not true. Eighty seven percent of teens surveyed say they are not ashamed to admit they have never had sex. also the percentage of girls in high school who reported having sex dipped below 50% in 1999. The percentage of boys declined from 61% in 1990 to 52% in 1999. so its not embarssing to be a virgin. a lot of teens are waiting to get married or to find that special someone. so keep up the good work and dont let anyone infulence you into doing somthing u dont wanna do.
xOx Elizabeth
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i love my mom honestly i do, but she doesnt trust me....with anything!! not with my computer, phone or even with just my friends!! (especially the guy ones). how can i get her to just trust me? (link)
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wow i had almost the same problem a few years ago. all these little mistakes i made and they ended up not trusting me at all. the best advice i have is to prove to her ur responable. ask her to let you have guy friends over the house and hang out in a spot where see can watch you but not be hovering over you. ask her to give you a chance to prove youself. talk to her about stuff thats going on and if u make a good choice about something and your proud of it make sure she knows. also do things before shes asks u to. clean your room up, and get offline before she has to tell you to get off, and get off the phone the first time she asks. as you get older she'll begin to trust you more so have a talk with her and tell you that you'd like to prove you are responsable. she wont trust you over night but im sure it will work.
oXo Elizabeth
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It seems like the only thing boys like me for is my looks. I mean there's this one really nice guy that likes me for my personality, but most guys don't even TRY to get to know me, they just like my looks. -.-; Anyone else have this problem? o.O;
I rate! ^_^ (link)
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well i know how you feel. a lot of guys have only become friends with me becuase they have liked my body or whatever. what i did was tell them that im not that kind of girl and im not gunna do anything with them. most of them started to talk to me a realized that i have a great personality to go along with everything else. if they decide not to talk to you its their loss, i suguest just starting a convo. dont leave it up to them boys are dumb. so dont do anything u'll regret and have fun.
xOx Elizabeth
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Alright heres the situation.. I have this friend, his name is Chris. Anyways, we are like best friends, i guess you could say. We talk alot hang out pretty often. He has a girl friend and i am single. Do you think he likes me if he does the following.. always smiles when he looks at me, always ask who i like, is really nice to me, and hugs me all the time.. i am really confused i dont know if he likes me or is it just a friend thing? Thanks in advance!! -xXoBrianna (link)
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Well Brianna seems like your friend here is sending you mixed signials. he kinda flirts with you but he still has a girlfriend. i know this can all be very confusing, but really the only way to truley find out if he likes you is to ask. Because not all guys are alike some might do the things you named above because they are madly in love with you, some might do it just because they are nice people and they value your friendship. i sugguest casually brining it up next time u guys talk. just be like "so chris i know you have a girlfriend and all but you are always huging me and being really sweet, do you like me?" i hope everything works out well.
oXo Elizabeth
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