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Hey there everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and I am a virgin. I am in no way thinking of having sex or asking if i'm too young to or anything, this has to deal more with the future. I am going to wait to have sex until I find a special person, it doesn't really matter if I am married or not. But, I'm afraid that the longer I hold out, it's going to be harder and harder to find a guy that's a virgin also, because it seems like there are none left. So I was wondering if it's silly of me to think that there is a guy out there that is a virgin that I will find somewhere down the road as I get older. Or stop being silly about it and not care?
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your not being silly,and your rite when you get older youll be able to someone easier cuz there wont be as much pressure to have sex. hope i helped.
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I am sure that when the time comes you'll find a great guy to be the one who takes away your virginity. He may or may not be a virgim, but he may just be the man that God has intended for you. I bet that you will be able to find a guy who is a virgim, just don't give up. giving up is the worst thing you can do! -Macy (rate me!)
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no --> i think its great that you are waiting. but just b/c u want to be a virgin till u find that *somebody* doesnt mean that *person* has to be one to. so...what ever you feel is best for YOU
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Don't just abandon your beliefs because you're afraid you won't be able to find someone that's a virgin too. There ARE guys out there that are virgins, it's just not so widely talked about. And there are also guys that have had sex before, but care about your beliefs and what you want to do, and won't make a big deal out of it. Stick to your morals, no matter what.
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you'll find someone. and don't fall from your morales. stick to them like you would clang for life of of a cliff.
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no theres gotta b SUM guy that will still b a virgin by the time u get to him
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yes there can definitly be someone out there thats also a virgin and meets your priority standards. for example in the september seventeen magazine issue theres a couple in there talking about how they both waited until they was married. but if u happen 2 meet a special guy that isnt a virgin b4 u get married let him know u r, and if hes willing 2 wait for u then when ur ready have him take an std test and than go from there. good luck! p.s- dont ever think u have 2 put out for any guy make sure your comfortable with the situation and dont give into peer pressure. well ever need more advice just ask PRINCESSKISSES1
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I dont think that you should care, as long as you love him and he is special to you maybe yall can talk about it and then go on with it..ONLY IF YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE!!
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I don't think it's silly to want to find someone who has the same standards as you, as long as you realize that your perfect person might have made mistakes in the past.
That being said, my wife was a virgin until the age of 22 when we began our relationship - there are more people like her out there.
Think about the reasons you want to find a virgin, and then honestly try to understand why they are so important. Many things which might seem off-putting, such as a non-virgin, can be resolved with genuine searching and openness with your future partner.
I wish you the best.
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No its not silly at all... there are sum guys out there that will save themselves for a special girl too... a lotta guys lie about not being virgins dont worry about that... at this point just worry about urself and what u wanna do...
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I am not a virgin, dating a virgin. He's 37. They exist. It would be nice if you could marry or be with another virgin. What's important is that you trust each other in the relationship. Otherwise, I would be alone right now.
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if you really cared for that guy who was that special someone for you, then it wouldnt matter wether he was a virgin or not. and trust me there are still guys your age who are virgins. just keep waiting and see what's there for you in the longrun.
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no, there will still be guys out there. you can find guys like that at church camps and stuff. and you're not the only one!
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i don't think it's silly, but i'm just wondering why it matters to you that the guy would be a virgin?? in my opinion, as long as you're the most important thing to him, then why should you let what he's done in the past bother you?
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Ya, I know how that is, and it's hard. This is sumthin that I believe, so it might b no help 2 u, but I'll say it anyways... It seems as tho if ur waiting 4 sum1, sum1 willbe waiting 4 u. That "special" some1. Not exactly a soul mate, but the person u were meant 2 b with. If u keep waiting (which I think is a good thing) ur sure 2 find an awesome guy who is still a virgin. Good luck!
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welll i think ur right a lot of guys probably wont be a virgin but i think that the guy u will consider to be special will be because if thats what u want then ull probably wait for sum1 who is so dont worry about it
and i think that waiting for a special guy is a realli good thing to do cuz im 16 too and didnt wait i wasnt even goin out with the guy and it totally sucked and it was sucha disapointment .....so im sure the more the guy means to u the more amazing it will be so good luck
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ehh... chances are that the "right guy" will think like you too... and it prolly wont matter if he is a vergin or not if you love him and he loves you... my advise would be... you should wait till your married and in love.. trust me
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Well first off let me give you a big congrats. i know it seems like everyone from ages 14-18 are having sex all the time these days but that simply just not true. Eighty seven percent of teens surveyed say they are not ashamed to admit they have never had sex. also the percentage of girls in high school who reported having sex dipped below 50% in 1999. The percentage of boys declined from 61% in 1990 to 52% in 1999. so its not embarssing to be a virgin. a lot of teens are waiting to get married or to find that special someone. so keep up the good work and dont let anyone infulence you into doing somthing u dont wanna do.
xOx Elizabeth
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you'll find sum1 that still a virgin. dont dwell on it.
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AWww...sweetie.
I've gone through this same thing. I am a virgin and I'm 18, and engaged now. I know I've found that special person, but I'm still not ready to give it up. HE isn't a virgin...but he regrets it a lot. Which, if you knew...I would too. *wink*
There are guys out there that are virgins, they are indeed very hard to find, but there is a guy out there that'll steal your heart, because he has been just as strong as you are now.
If a guy does steel your heart, and he isn't, then I would have to let that go, because, yes...it bothered me knowing my Fiance has had sex with others...but I love him for him, not of because of his past with others. Ya know what I'm saying.
One thing you don't need to do...is not care. You should always care, so...the answer to that is no. I know this is getting long, so I'll wrap it up. I hope I helped...Have a great day!! <3 Good luck on that special guy!*
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Once you find the guy you care enough about to give it up to, you won't care about whether or not he's a virgin. If that's even a factor in who you decide to have sex with for the first time, you should probably rethink your "perfect guy" criteria.
Good luck, sweetie. I hope your first time goes better than mine did. :)
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yes there are still guys your age that are virgins! think about the catholic ones - if their parents really stress absinence. he's probably hoping that there's a girl out there for him - just like you! keep waiting and i'm sure you'll meet the guy of your dreams =) good luck!
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ok, wait because that's important. thats very important.
if you find that special guy, why only care if he's a virgin or not? if he's that special, and he's experienced, so what? does it really matter?
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