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> Full name: Katlin Nicole Starr Mitchell
> Height: 5'3-5'4
> Eyes: BroWn
> Hair: BRowN w/ Red StreiKeS
> Location: Mauldin, South Carolina
> Sexual Orientation: Straight
> Ethnicity: WhiTe but w/ A Tan*
> Pets: 1 Dog and A Cat! RIP Robbie, Died Aug 1 2004
> Siblings: 1 Brother
> Movie:13 going on 30...The Notebook..A Walk To Remember...Grease...Dirty Dancing
> Book: The NoteBook
> Actress: Sandra Bullock...and Uhh...
> Actor: Shane West...and...uhh
> Singer/Band:Ryan Cabrera...and Sara Evans
> Song: On The Way Down and She Will Be Loved
> Quote: "...Our Love Is Like The Wind, I Can't See It...but I Can Feel It..."
> Food: PastA*
> Sport: VolleyBall, SurfinG...BASKETBALL*
> TV show: Dawsons Creek, Newlyweds*
> Drink: Sprite w/ LemonS
> Number: 10 and 11
> Accessory:PurSe
> Color: Pank and Blue*
> Lipgloss: Watermellon, or whatever my Fiance lovEs! *
> Ice Cream: Cookie Dough*
> Mag: Umm...counTrY Weekly?
> Cartoon Character: DINO!
> Animal: DogS*
> Chocolate or Vanilla? Verrnilla*
> Book or its Movie? Both
> Gold or silver? Silver
> Boxers or Briefs?: It Don'T MattER
> Black or White? Black
> Hug or Kiss? Both at one time!
> Computer or TV? Both
> Morning or Night? Night*OOO*
> White Chocolate or Milk Chocolate?White ChocolaTe!
> Serious or Giggly? Giggly
> Drive or Fly? Fly
> Dog or Cat? Dog
> Inside or Outside? Depends on the weather
> Fantasy or Reality? Reality
> Dance or Sing? SiNG!! LALAL*
> Write or Read? Write
> Social or..Not? Social...verY*
> Draw or Paint? DRaW
> Watch or do? Do...HEHEHE
> Eat or Drink? UmmS???
> Write or Talk? Talk!
> Summer or Winter? WinTer*
> Joel or Justin? Justin
> TV or Movie? Movie
> Cholcolate or Caramel? Chocolate
> Tall or short? On A guy...Tall...
> Pepsi or Coke? Pepsi
> Innie or outtie? InnIe
> Have you dyed your hair? Ya :(
> Have you ever fit your entire body into a relatively small compartment? Yupperss...A Drier! hahaha!
> Hobbies:Shopping...sports..and my Babie
> Interests:Music...and my babie!
> What do you like Most about yourself? My personalitY!
> What do you like least? My Temper*
> Whats in your CD player right now? Sara EvanS..Niagra :(
> Ever left the country? Yes!!!
> Where to? Europe, Mexico, Australia, Canada, Japan...and Jamaica
> Whats the worst feeling? Heart Broken..and guilt.
> Whats the best feeling? Being in LovE* Being HappY!
> Whats your sign baby? Capricorn*
> Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes
> Whats your best friends name? Nathan and BJ
> How long have you been friends? ForeVeR* haha..I Dk!
> Who, really, let the dogs out? HaHa..Me DUH!
> If you're life could be a book, which book would it be? Umms...I have no idea. Harry PotteR? Haha!
> Who stole the cookies from the cookie jar? Hahaha? What kinda Question...
> Is oscar, really, a grouch? He was mean to the kiDs...so was big BIRD!
> Have you ever caught a Leprechaun? Oh Yes..Hehe *WINK* Great times w/ Him as Well!
> Who do you admire? My brother and my fiancE*
> Whats your most embarrasing moment? Not going THERE!
Website: UndEr ConStRuCtioN!!!
E-mail: KateStar1011@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Greenville, South Carolina!
Age: 18
ICQ: SOme #s I forgo
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Yahoo: KaTeStar1011
Member Since: July 16, 2004
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how do you make your hair look like you constintly brush it (link)
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I do constantly brush it. lol.
I care lots about my hair
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i know its stupid .. but i need help!! i have never been french kissed before and i think im ready, but i dont know how to do it! do both you and your boyfriend put your tounges in each others mouth or does one just put theirs in the others mouth? and how do you know whos tounge goes on top or bottom? I REALLY NEED HELP!! (link)
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Hey darlin*
This is a very cute question. Hehe, Well...For me, I've only french kissed one person and I'm only 19 years old. We do it all the time now, because we're engaged, but each time we try something new, ya know?
When we kiss, we tilt our heads, so you're tounge doesn't go to the top or the bottom really. When you both stick it in there, you just find a place, and get into it. Taking your toungue both in and out. And when you do it, kinda have this tounge rolling thing going with it.
If you really wanna get into it, take your tounge and go on the inside of his lips...he will love that.
I can't tell tell you anything else, because it's an experiance kinda situation. (Like sex) ya know?
Welp, tell me how it goes! :-)
Have a wonderful DaY!
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We've all seen a million questions on "HOW CAN I TONE MY BODY?"
Well, I'm wondering how to just well, make your abs more.. defined and a little bit flatter. I already know about Tone Teen and Seventeen Workouts so please don't suggest that, thanks. (link)
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Hey girly!
Well..every night before I go to sleep, I do what I call! "KATIE'S AB LAB!" Hehe...This what cha do girlfrienD!
1. You lay down. Cross your legs in the air, and keep them straight, and lift them about 2 inches off the ground, and then do about 15 sit ups. You'll get higher once you do them more.
2. Rest for about 5 minutes
3. Then, you lay back down, put your knees towards your chest, and lift your body about 1 inch off the floor, and do a bicycle movement with your leg. Do about 5 minute worth of those.
4. Rest
5. Then do just some standard sit ups. But, cross your leg over one, like a boy would sit into a chair...but, move your arm and upper body towards the knee with your elbow. So, lifting and turning. Do both side of your abs and do those about 50 each.
5. Rest
and then I do some reg sit ups to rest on.
Let me know how it goes!
Have a great WORKOUT! Put a little Richard Simmons into it girl!!!
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Hey There!
I don't exactly pluck my eyebrows at all, but they aren't "bushy". Is there any tips to help me shape my eyebrows? Where do I pluck, and where do I not. I don't want my eyebrows to get too crazy, you know? (link)
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Hey beautiful!
Already, if you're looking for the Britney Spears "arch" look, then start shaping your brows into an arch. It's like alittle hill, another words. Make sure when you do pluck your eyebrows that you hold the side of your eye, and pull the way you're plucking, it makes it less painful. If you're looking for the standard like, little arch eyebrow...then do like a what cha like look...just pluck a little, and look a little. If your eyebrows are long, then you can cut them as well...or trim them, not cut. Don't CHOP em girl!
Just a little trim, to make then not as long.
Welp, good luck!
Keeping ya in my prayers for the pain! *Wink*
Tell me how it looks! :)
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I'm 14 female. I've never been in a serious relationship. I dated one guy for 3weeks. But that's a long n hairy story. And a girl for 2weeks. I really want a bf or gf, but the one guy i really like doesn't like me(he's the hairy story lol) and the girl i like is taken. Frankly, I'm not the prettiest thing. The only thing i got going for me is big boobs. most my guys friends comment on these daily but i o dont think any of them mean it. i know of one guy who likes me but he's one of my best friends, and i couldnt date him comfortably. i have sorta bad acne and my clothes are very stlyish because of two fat horses who eat our money. how can i make myself more attractive to at least myself. (i run every day at least a mile n do crunches and other ab workouts to loose weight already) (link)
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Hey girl!
I feel bad answering this to be completely honest. I'm sure you're a really nice girl, but I want to help you in the best way I can. I'm going to go ahead and tell you now..I dont mean this as...me being a total "meany" to you. But, the truth is the truth, and I care, and I want to help.
You are 14 years old. I think you have a lot going for you so far. You bisexual, that's fine...but, you put it as if, HEY IM BISEXUAL, give me attention. I think you're striving for attention, and I DO NOT mean this IN A MEAN WAY! I DO NOT...I'm not mean at all.
I think you really need to find yourself, and who you REALLY are. Maybe taking time off away from relationships would be a good thing for you, dear. I think you are pretty, and I've never seen you before. It's finding who you are inside, and seeing youself not only in the inside, but on the outside too...and you have got to do that. When you find who you are on the inside, then you can move to the outside appearance. I think at the age of 14, you are a little rebelious, and that's a good thing, but only to a certain extent.
I want you to do something that I've done for another girl tonight. I want you to look at yourself, and say I'm pretty. But I also want you to look at yourself, and say things out loud, that you like to do. Say things to yourself...talk to yourself. Then ask yourself, am I like this around my friends, or at school?
You're big breast thing, that's fine. Once you get older, which you are very close to becoming more knowledgable to the "high school" world...you'll notice, it's not about a big butt, or huge boobs, it's about your maturity, your actions, and who you are.
You're acne thing, there is a thing called "Cetaphil" you can get at SAMS and Wal-mart...it works REALLY good...let me tell ya, ever since i used it, my monthly blemishes when away.
I Really hope I helped, and I hope you didn't take it the wrong way.
Have a wonderful night, and tell me how that mirror thing goes. If Ya Do It!
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all my friends are really pretty. they are all blonde and skinny and rich. im the opposite. im ugly, not good clothes, overweight. everytime i go somewhere like the movies with my friends the guys all want to make out with them and sit with them when they just ignore me. when my friends suggest they makeout with me they pretend to gag and say ewww. it makes me really sad. help! how can i make myself prettier or find a guy who appreciates me? sometimes it feels like i deserve a boy more than the other girls. im a good person and friendly. (link)
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Hey BEAUTIFUL!!!
I want you to do something for me. I want you to get a peice of paper, and I want you to write down ten things about yourself. Positive things. And about each one, I want you to put an occupation(job) for later in your life. Such as what do you want to be when you grow up. After you do that. I want you to think about what money, clothes, and looks have to do with any of that.
Overweight is beautiful. Boys, they stink! Hehe, I understnad that you want one of those guys that appreciate you...well...I'll go ahead and tell ya, they are hard to find, un fortunatly =-/ It really sucks! But...you'll find him once you get older. Boys turn into to guys, then men...and they start to realize things that are REALLY important in life.
Now...I want you to do one more thing. I want you to look at yourself in the mirror. Then, I want you to get in the shower, get all nice and clean (if you aren't already) and then I want you to get dressed again...only in PJS, no make up and your hair a mess. And I want you to say...Yes, I'm Beautiful! And if it hurt to say it...then say it louder. Say it as loud as you can...just repeting it over and over again. Then, I want you to think...I'm beautiful, and unique, becuase God made me that way!
You're beautiful in my book, and dont let girls or guys let you think differently! Don't let anybody let you down, beause it's only what you think...and you've gotta THINK CONFIDENCE! It gets you TO THE MOON and back IN THE WORLD!
I Lubby YOu!
Have a wonderful night sweetie!!!
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im a 16 year old female.
im losing my best friend she goes to the other highschool and she has a new best friend bethany. it gets me so sad because i cant make a new best friend, i still want ashley to be my best friend. ash invites bethany everywhere like on family vacations to arizona, and stuff like that. i used to always go to arizona with them,. no i wont make a new best friend so dont say that. how can i fix all this i want my bffld back! (link)
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Hey hunnie!
I'm sorry, first of all. I've noticed since I've been on this, that I say, talk about it with the other person alot. It's a good thing...but in this position, I don't want an argument to start up.
It's completely understandable that you DONT WANT to make a new best friend. And it's jealousy that is also coming over you as well...with Bethany. It's normal.
I do want you to start talking to Ashley about this problem, but instead of flat out saying it...ease into the whole situation...days at a time. Don't put it all on Ashley at first, because she'll get confused...and start fighting with you. Ashley most likely doesn't understnad what she is doing to you, because as a best friend...she wouldn't do anything to hurt you.
I want you to first mention some things about how you feels to her. Ease into the situation enough for her to get the clue of what she is doing. She should then start realixing, when you see that. Tell her everything you feel. With a best friend, you have to be completely honest, because have a bestfriend, means having another part to your family and heart.
Be sweet, like I am sure you are. Be honest, and do not beat around the bush. Let me know how it goes hunnie.
My name is Katie if you need anything.
Have a wonderful Night, and good luck sweetie!
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ok..is it possible for someone to only have their period every other month??...i rate (link)
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Hey!
Yes, it's completely possible. It just depends on the reproductive organs, and the way that the whole menstral cycle works in that certain body. Especially when you are a younger person, you're cycle tends to be off-rate. Not- regular. She may want to look into her cycle with a doctor, and maybe they could give her something similar to birth-contol to help her get on a complete normal cycle repetition.
Otherwise...I think it'd be okay.
Hope I helped!
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Ok, my ex-boyfriend and I are friends now. And we had a talk about my love life. He wanted to know so I told him. I brought up that one of my crushes is kind of offstandish towards me and he replied "one day he'll wake up and see the morning blossom." Then later he asked which one of my crushes I want to die with. What does all of that mean? (link)
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Hey hunnie...
I think your guess is just as good as ours. Men/boys have a certain way of speaking, some are trashy, and some are super romantic. Sounds like you got a cute little romantic one.
Anyways..I think that he is asking..Which crush to you want to grow old with, marry and die with. That's me best guess sweetie.
TRy asking him, exactly what did he mean by that, and that's probably how you'll get the right answer lol! :)
Have a wonderful day!
XOXO katestar
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Everytime i talk on the phine with my boyfriend and we discuss sexual stuff, like maybe taking our relationship to the next step, i start to shake and i shake like i'm really cold, but i'm not..and even hours afterwards i keep shaking. What's going on? (link)
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Hey hunnie..
WElp, I really Don't know what's wrong, but my guess is that you are nervous or scared. It could be a sign of anxiety or another nervous reaction. That's my guess. :-/
WElp...have a wonderful day!
xOXO katestar
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Hey im 13 years old and im a size 34B and i like to wear sports bra because they are most comfortable on me. The problem is that when I put them on my nipples show through the shirts even when Im wearing a bra. I dont know what to do and I dont want people to assume that im a slut or anything because i think this is gross too. What should I do as far as this issue? (link)
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HEy hunnie!
WElp hunnie! It'll be hard, but maybe you should move to a regular bra. Some of them can be really confortable..and I think as you get older you'll get used to the reg. bras. If not, try looking for a sports bra that has more padding near the nipple area. Also try asking another girl like your mother, or something.
Have a wonderful day! :)
XOXO katestar
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Okay.. well i went out with this one guy for a month and maybee a couple weeks... well i broke up with him becaz 5 months later i would be moving..i still like him alot at times but i also feel that i am friends with him, and thats about it. and he's getting ready to ask me out agian and i dont know if i should go out with him becaz im moving and everything. should i? (link)
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HEy hunnie!
With only dating a month...you don't really know how serious the relationship is. So, I would try to date again, seeing how tight the relationship is, and after you move maybe ya'll would stay together. Who knows what could happen!
Just be wild with it, live it all up girly!
Have a great day!
XOOXOO katestar
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okay me and mi friend(aimee) got into a fight over a really stupid thingy and now i am sry but i dont wanna let her know because im still kinna mad about how she hurt me. what should i do???
~meagan~ (link)
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Hey hunnie!
Welp, as much as you don't want to say sorry, you're going to sometime. I would just tell her how you feel, and your thoughts and feelings about the whole entire fight. After BOTH of you are done expressing feelings, then you can tell eachother you are sorry.
Well..I hope all goes well!
Have a wonderful day!
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Im 14/f and ive never had a boyfriend..is this weird...is it normal?? (link)
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For some people it is normal, for some it is not. I'm 19 now, and I didn't have a boyfriend till i was around 16. It's better when you are single when you are young because you are able to blank out all the boyfriend/girlfriend drama, and have more friends with just having friends!
Have a wonderful day!
XOOXOO Katestar
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If given the choice between Italian and German...which one should I pick to learn? (link)
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I would say which ever culture interest you the most. I know that German is much more harder than Italian. Itlian really resembles Spanish a lot and German is like...uhh..kinda random things. It's just that sometime in German words don't git together like they should. But trying studying the cultures and seeing whichever one you think is better. :)
Have a wonderful day!
XOXO Katestar
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What do you do when a person wants to hang out with you all the time? thanks (link)
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Well...if you want to, then just hang out with them. But obviously you don't want to.:) well..all I can tell you is that you just need to tell them that you don't want to hang out all the time, and just hang out on your own terms. I dont know what else you could do but, out up with it, or just telling the truth and saying you just don't want to hang out.
Have a wonderful day!
XOXO KAtestar
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Ok there is this New Guy that has been at my school for like 3 days. And he Sits at my table for lunch, and he also is in my Gym class and my S.S class. And i think he is cute but i don't know if i should tell him or not. Can you guys please tell me if i should your not. (link)
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Hey girly!
Well...that is a really fun situation, as long as you make it out to be that way. Get to really know the guy, go out places with him with a group and find out how he acts around groups and just around you, just to make sure you really like him. Then, you could easily mention liking him in a conversation with just the two of you. You'll know how he feels usually with his reactions. If he acts like the way you'd want him to, girlfriend go for it...ask him out!
Welp, have a great night, and good lucky chica-dee!
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I have 2 questions...
1) How can I decide what college I want to go to? I know I have to apply to a few, but, you know how everyone has there heart set on one, how can I pick one for me?
2) And, is there any kind of quiz online I can take to give me some good results on a career I could go into? I'm dumbfound when it comes to what I want to be and go to college for. (link)
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*Hey sweetie!
Welp, I've been there done that! I'm going to a tech college my first year, but next year I'm going to University of South Carolina. Anyways, It was really hard for me to decide, and it really depends on what you want to take in college to depend on the college. I wanted to go to a law school, and USC was the best one in South Carolina. If you go to www.collegehelp.com (I think that's the website, if not use a search on yahoo, Sorry! ) It really will help. You can also ask somebody at your highschool/or work, where ever you are coming from about some of their career goals. If you are in high school, try going to a guidence counsiler and maybe she could help you about some of the college decions. Well...good luck. Have a wonderful night! :) Bye doll!
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how long untill it starts ruining ur nose and making it ugly what our the other noticable affects of cocaine 4 instance skinny acne ugly nose etc (link)
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I have no idea what you are trying to ask...
...but I'll give it my best shot.
It depends on the person...It could easily start the first day you use it. It all depends on your ammune system. If you do sniff it, stop...it's bad for you too.
Have a wonderful day!
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ive always been teased about how i was *too* skinny...ive always been self concious, and guys have said that im not...but i get mixed messages...my best friend told me i was almost anorexic! what should i do?????? (link)
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Hey Sweetie...
...My best/f Dori is like that. She is very very skinny, and she eats everything. She just has a very high matabolism, and that's maybe what you have. You're friend can't tell you that you are anorexic. She is saying that in analogy, and she's not really knowing what she is saying. To me, she is making her self look stupid. Anorexia is a illness, that you, or stress brings upon a body. It doesn't mean you are skinny, that's really rude and childish. There is nothing that you can do but stay strong, brush off the messages off of your shoulders, and be you. So what if you are skinny or fat, or regular sized, it doesn't matter. You are you, and that's how God wants you to be.
...You need to tell your best/f to stop, and to just ignore the others.
I hope I helped! Have a wonderful night! :)
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