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im a 16 year old female.
im losing my best friend she goes to the other highschool and she has a new best friend bethany. it gets me so sad because i cant make a new best friend, i still want ashley to be my best friend. ash invites bethany everywhere like on family vacations to arizona, and stuff like that. i used to always go to arizona with them,. no i wont make a new best friend so dont say that. how can i fix all this i want my bffld back!
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Dear Whom Ever...
Ask Ashley that you miss doing things with her..and you really want to hang with her.. and maybe you can ask her hey we should go to arizona together like o'l times.. and if she says "well bethany is coming this year" ask if you 3 can all go together.. and someone can have more than 1 best friend you know..
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I don't think you should worry too much. You know you're allowed to have more than one best friend..If you and Ashley are still talking and getting together and stuff I don't think you lost her...Just stay in touch w/ her and I don't think you can lose her that way..unless you tell her and get mad at her for having another friend..and maybe you guys could like take turns every year going to Arizona..
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You can have more than one best friend you know. Anyway just try to make firends with Bethany too and everything will work out.
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-- Ok well...i undertsand that you want your bestfriend back..cuz she was your best friend first...and its hard bcuz shes going to a different high skewl..and you wont see each other that much...but you need to tell ashely how you feel about all this..dont be scared cuz if shes really your friend she'll understand why...but also tell her how she has totally left you out of the picture..(its look like to me)..bcuz friendship is all about honesty! soo see how tha workd..hope i helped..!
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Perfectly Unperfect
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Hey hunnie!
I'm sorry, first of all. I've noticed since I've been on this, that I say, talk about it with the other person alot. It's a good thing...but in this position, I don't want an argument to start up.
It's completely understandable that you DONT WANT to make a new best friend. And it's jealousy that is also coming over you as well...with Bethany. It's normal.
I do want you to start talking to Ashley about this problem, but instead of flat out saying it...ease into the whole situation...days at a time. Don't put it all on Ashley at first, because she'll get confused...and start fighting with you. Ashley most likely doesn't understnad what she is doing to you, because as a best friend...she wouldn't do anything to hurt you.
I want you to first mention some things about how you feels to her. Ease into the situation enough for her to get the clue of what she is doing. She should then start realixing, when you see that. Tell her everything you feel. With a best friend, you have to be completely honest, because have a bestfriend, means having another part to your family and heart.
Be sweet, like I am sure you are. Be honest, and do not beat around the bush. Let me know how it goes hunnie.
My name is Katie if you need anything.
Have a wonderful Night, and good luck sweetie!
<3 KaTEStar1011
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