all my friends are really pretty. they are all blonde and skinny and rich. im the opposite. im ugly, not good clothes, overweight. everytime i go somewhere like the movies with my friends the guys all want to make out with them and sit with them when they just ignore me. when my friends suggest they makeout with me they pretend to gag and say ewww. it makes me really sad. help! how can i make myself prettier or find a guy who appreciates me? sometimes it feels like i deserve a boy more than the other girls. im a good person and friendly.
maria2653 answered Friday April 1 2005, 7:22 pm: you should save all your money, every bit and buy some really cute clothes. i think it sounds like only you think your fat. you should also use the money you save to buy some makeup and wear it every day. and if you feel that uncomfortable with your weight then i suggest that you try to lose weight, diet and exersise are the keys!hope i helped
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emoxemz answered Friday April 1 2005, 6:25 pm: Don't worry about those guys! If they act like that to you, they don't deserve you! You will find your dream-come-true guy sooner or later, who will like you for who you are! =D ♥ Emma [ emoxemz's advice column | Ask emoxemz A Question ]
DaNcEcHiCk2511 answered Friday April 1 2005, 1:52 am: Hey! Being pretty isn't everything. The smart guys look for a girl with a great personality and a girl who is "down to earth". So just be happy with who you are and don't worry so much about what the guys think of you. You will find someone! don't worry! It just takes time! [ DaNcEcHiCk2511's advice column | Ask DaNcEcHiCk2511 A Question ]
icey0990 answered Thursday March 31 2005, 11:28 pm: hey..im pretty overweight and not that good looking..but i would never make myself pretty..go on crash diets or any kinda diet..for a guy. I mean..when you find a guy who is into..you will know he llieks you for you..not because your skinny or a blondie. All those guys like about those girls is their looks..wouldnt you want your guy to like you for more than that? guys can be shallow at our age..but dont worry..you will meet someone..its soo hard waiting.. ive been waiting too..but the wait will be worth it. Your friends have to worry about "does he like me for me..or just my looks?" and lot of guys our age only look at looks. It will change though..as guys mature and as you meet new people..you will find someone. Thats my honest opinoon..so dont go dressing up, being someone your not..or trying to lose weight..just for a guy. Its not worth it.
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xOtWiXi answered Thursday March 31 2005, 8:51 pm: First off, you have really nice friends to try to get someone to makeout with you and not trying to make you feel leftout. BE YOURSELF and you WILL find a guy- a guy who will LOVE YOU for YOU, and not any other reason, and of course you deserve a guy- every girl does, especially when they are good people! Just, enjoy your life now, and the right guy WILL come along, you can't plan it, and as for being prettier- don't worry- I'm sure your great just the way you are, but if you want to feel "flirty" you might like to wear some cute lipgloss! Hope I've Helped! [ xOtWiXi's advice column | Ask xOtWiXi A Question ]
Teza answered Thursday March 31 2005, 8:33 pm: Babe! Dont worry about it! You are pretty no matter what anyone says okay! Looks arnt the only thing that make you beautiful. Your personality does too alrite! Dont worry about guys. You have plenty of time to find your self a guy who will appreciate you for who you are. If you really arnt happy with your weight and looks maybe you could go on a diet but I dont think you really need to. Start doing your hair different wear make up go buy new clothes once in a while. Be happy with yourself and with who you are. x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
Erinn_the_bamf answered Thursday March 31 2005, 7:45 pm: NEVER CHANGE YOURSELF FOR A GUY! You are perfect the way you are. One day a guy will walk into your life and he will love you for you. Your friends are Barbies. And not like the awesome Barbies in the song Barbie Girl. They are the plastic ones who's looks are so stero-type. Stay who you are. If you are worried about your weight start working out. But only do it if it will make you happy. Also ask your friends if they can help you find a guy. But make sure you tell them not to change you. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
KateStar1011 answered Thursday March 31 2005, 7:43 pm: Hey BEAUTIFUL!!!
I want you to do something for me. I want you to get a peice of paper, and I want you to write down ten things about yourself. Positive things. And about each one, I want you to put an occupation(job) for later in your life. Such as what do you want to be when you grow up. After you do that. I want you to think about what money, clothes, and looks have to do with any of that.
Overweight is beautiful. Boys, they stink! Hehe, I understnad that you want one of those guys that appreciate you...well...I'll go ahead and tell ya, they are hard to find, un fortunatly =-/ It really sucks! But...you'll find him once you get older. Boys turn into to guys, then men...and they start to realize things that are REALLY important in life.
Now...I want you to do one more thing. I want you to look at yourself in the mirror. Then, I want you to get in the shower, get all nice and clean (if you aren't already) and then I want you to get dressed again...only in PJS, no make up and your hair a mess. And I want you to say...Yes, I'm Beautiful! And if it hurt to say it...then say it louder. Say it as loud as you can...just repeting it over and over again. Then, I want you to think...I'm beautiful, and unique, becuase God made me that way!
You're beautiful in my book, and dont let girls or guys let you think differently! Don't let anybody let you down, beause it's only what you think...and you've gotta THINK CONFIDENCE! It gets you TO THE MOON and back IN THE WORLD!
I Lubby YOu!
Have a wonderful night sweetie!!!
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