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my dad is always so mean and curses alot he is an alchoholic what can i do to make him be a normal dad? (link)
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Unfortuneatly, I dont think theres anything you can do. I think that maybe he should try going to a counseler.
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R.I.P Pope John Paul II Karol Wojtyla
Now that he has passed away, how does everyone feel? What do you think is gonna happen? Is the world really gonna come to an end? - xglam0urx (link)
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I don't think the world will come to an end, exactly. I feel horrible. But now that he is in Heaven (for sure) I'm glad he does not have to suffer anymore...
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Any tips on how to be more patient? It seems like when I'm waiting something that I REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEALLY want [lol] I cannot stop thinking about it. Any tips? (link)
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This is a tough one. I get really impatient with my parents or friends sometimes. And thinking about somehthing gets my nerves going at times. Breathe, and think about something else and maybe that will help.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out since around..Christmas. Anyway, last night I was home all night & really bored..and usually I'll have such an urge to get on the comp & talk to him, or call him. But last night, something was different..I felt like he just got out of my system. So, I got on the computer real late..like 10 mins before he usually goes to bed, cause I didn't feel like taling long. What's wrong? Am I just losing interest in him? And I don't know why, but the night before this happened I had a dream that he was going out with another girl. Does this mean anything? Why didn't I want to talk to him? :/ It's like..now I don't even think about him, in one day it happened. I'm confused.. (link)
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Do you know if he feels this way to? Ask him..if he feels the same, let your feelings out to. If he doesn't, tell him about the dream that you had. See what he has to say...because maybe you've just moved on, so just see what happens..
I hope I helped!
*good luck*!
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ok im going to a new school monday how do i make freinds? like i dont want to sit alone @ lunch or sit by the rong person. iv decided that guys are more easy to make freinds with than girl i mean some girls are really nice but you have to addmit guys are easier to make freinds with what if they think im a slut then if i try to make freinds with the guys? help!!!! (link)
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I just started a new school too this year. Sometimes it's really hard trying to fit in and make friends. Are you in junior high or high school? Because I'm in junior high and that was hard enough. Maybe you'll end up sitting next to someone in class you could make friends with, or they'll come up to you. Good Luck. write back and tell me how it goes.
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I'm 15/f and a freshman in highschool. Lately I've been having problems with my phys. ed. teacher. I'm not going to be around the bush about this, but he's an asshole. (excuse my language). He's always such a jerk to me about every little thing. A friend of mine had a shirt on that she changed into for PE that had a picture of George Bush Sr. and George Bush on it and it sayd Dumb and Dumber under their pictures. He had a fit about it and I was supporting her saying that she can have an opinion about whatever the heck she wants to. He basically said she's not allowed to have an opinion about it until she's 18. Then he proceeded to say how he can run his class the way he wants to and if I have a problem with it to take it up with the principal. Not only is he a jerk, but alot of the time he seems like one of those really creepy pedophile type people. He's always staring at me when we do stretches and stands behind me when we're doing toe- touches. We had to do jumping jacks this weird way and I'm not coordinated enough to do it so he asked me to stay after class about it. We were doing lay ups when we played basketball and I suck at any sport that involves a ball and he asked me to stay after class to work on it when there were about 5 other people that sucked 10 times worse than me but didn't ask them to stay after. What exactly should I do about this? I mean, he hasn't made "a move" on me so I can't really say much about that but what should I do? Sorry this was long! (link)
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Wow, I would be a little worried if I were you. He seems really creepy, indeed. Have you told anyone about this psyco? Maybe you should. Another teacher, or something? And you definitly made the right decision not staying after class. Try asking someone about it.I hoped I helped! Write back and tell me how it goes.
*GoOd LuCk*
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I just got my period (i've had it for 2 years) and i noticed that in my pad the blood was dark black instead of red/maroon like it usually is. What does this mean??? its dark dark black. Am i dehydrated or sumthing? (link)
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That may be it, but have you tried talking to someone about it? Your mom,a doctor? I'm pretty sure thats it, but I would still look into it.
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ok im confused at school i get made fun of alot because im smart. well normally i just bottle it up and dont do anything because im weak but what i have noticed is sometimes i will get so pissed off that if anyone who hasnt even done anything to me so much as slightly bothers me i blow up at them. i guess i just want to know how can i channel my anger more so at the ppl who piss me off because i hate blowin up at my friends but i cant blow up at the ppl that make fun of me cause im weak as shit and im just confused i dont know wut to do can someone please help me.. (link)
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I get teased a lot at school too. I get mad at my friends who say the slightest thing of mean things and I blow up too. I suggest that after you blow up at your friends, definitly apologize and tell them that sometimes that happens to you. Try asking your friends for help. Are they with you when kids tease you?
I hope I helped!
let me know how it goes
*good luck*
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I am 13/f, 14 in july, but i took a baby-stting class for 2 days at a saint francis hospital...well now that i have done that, i dont know what to do! i mean theres like nobody i can babysit! anybody know a site that i can go to thats like a teen babysitting line or soemthing haha!?!? (link)
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Do you have any little cousins that you could help out with? That always helps. I do that sometimes for my Aunt because she's always busy. Do you have any friends maybe that need help with their brothers and sisters? Try that and let me know how it works out.
*gOoD lUcK*
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I havn't worn my retainer for a LONG TIME, about 2 years, and my bottom teeth have moved, just the 4 in the frontish, and well, i was wondering, if i started using my retainer now...and delt with the pain, would my teeth move back into place?? (link)
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It's probably possible, but I would see your orthadontist first and ask so you would have a clearer picture and see what would happen.
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Ok heres the problem, i LOVE to sing, i can sing very well too. The problem is i can't preform in front of people! I am way to nervous. I can't even sing infront of my family. Its just to nerve -racking. My family says i should go out for singing lessons because sometimes they hear me but im to nervous to go out. When i get older i really wanna try out for american idol, ya it sounds stupid but i do. Its just im to nervous in front of people! Does anyone have any tips to get un-nervous, or any advice for me to go out?
- Shy Singer - (link)
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Omg! I think you should totally go for your dream! Maybe start out w/ one perosn seeing you, and another, and another, and so on..Try to find local community things where they have singers and that. I wouldn't be to nervous if I did something like that. Just go for it!!
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I feel a bit awkward using this site.. I've never asked anyone for advice like this before.. I'm a 15 year old male, and I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 months. She works at a pizza shop and is surrounded by other people. A few weeks ago a worker from a different location was transferred to her shop.. She got along very well with him. I saw her that weekend and she seemed a little subdued, I tried to talk to her about it, but she said she was fine.. I tried to call her the following evening, but she didn't pick up her phone, nor her mobile.. I was pretty worried.. and I'm known to be a very worrying and fragile type person..
Anyway, the day after, I called her and found out that she had been at the movies with this guy.. She told me it was as a friend.. but later that night when she went to work, he kissed her.. this really upset me.. And she said she was very sorry and would stop seeing him..
However, one day, the following week, I tried to call her, and she wasn't there.. I stayed up until about 1 or 2 in the morning, calling her, untill she finally picked up.. Having been out with him again.. She is very truthful to me, and said that she was just seeing him as a friend, and didn't tell me because she knew I'd get upset.
She said to me that she loves me, and likes him, but she doesn't know what she wants.. I really can't take being strung along like this.. I'm naturally a very sensitive person, and my music is no longer enough to keep me alive.. I'm not at school, I don't have a job, I have very little to hold me together.. I don't know if I can deal with this.. Can anyone help me? (link)
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I think you should tell her how you feel, and from there give her some time and see what she does. If she wants to be with this guy, ask her. Don't get totally upset with her. I mean, you're still her friend, right? Maybe you guys will break up, and maybe you won't. If you guys turn ouit just being friends, maybe she'll realize that she needs you back..
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what is the meaning of life? (link)
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The meaning of life is to enjoy and spend it however you want. i mean, I hope you wouldn't do anything stupid to stick yourself in a situation where you could be in jail or anything..but live how you want because it's your life and have fun!
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don't bother reading if you can't manage, but 5's to any singly word of response because i really really need some advice here...
i have this twin sister- we're both 14- and she is really immature and selfish and just a totally disgusting and impossible person. sometimes i love her, but alot of times i could just explode! she is just so hard to take!
the main problems with her are that she is really into herself but at the same time extremely insecure and self-consious...and the second is that she just can NOT get over things...like tonight she was trying to get me to remember something by repeating like the same vague amature description over and over and I was like, OK I DON'T REMEMBER CAN WE DROP IT OR CAN YOU GIVE ME A BETTER CLUE?!?!
See its little stuff like that, but I just want to rip my brains our and throw them at her face!!!!!!!!!!! I HATE sharing things with her when I just don't really like her as a person...and she really harms me as a person, because I spend so much energy being infuriated at her or trying to ignore her pesty existence.
I really feel like we are the only people in this world that each other has, so we need to get along...but I just cannot tolerate her at ALL! Its like her brain is so many pages behind, and I can't stretch to reach her and make her stupid accomodations.
Is there any way I can coexist with her as a step towards actually liking her? There are some people in this world that I just cannot ever like, and that's okay, but I really don't want her to be one of them...and how can I vent my feelings in a healthy way? lol i've been sitting in my room screaming (literally) for the past 20 minutes...ew and I wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone so don't go there....
snaps to you for reading this!
xox and SOS (link)
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Sometimes sisters can be like that. I know you would wanna feel like you wanna strangle them right then and right there. But you can't. Try telling her when she does this kinda stuff to just stop- either you don't remember or you're not in the mood. Have you tried getting your feelings out about her and talking to her to a friend? Usually that helps me. I hope I helped you!
*GoOd LuCk*
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hey how do you get those little things that you can stick on your AIM profile for people to see your advice cloumn, live jouranl, and my space....i will rate high if u help me......
thanks (link)
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Create your hyperlink (linking) to the website of your choice.
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Hey, I'm 13/F and I just got my period in January. I had it for 6 days. I haven't gotten it since!! It's the end of March now which means I skipped two months?? I know I'm not pregnant (I have no idea how to spell it)
Is something wrong with me??? (link)
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If you just started it could very well be that your periods will be irregular for a little while.. If it continues for maybe more than 7 or 8 months, I would see a doctor.
*GoOd LuCk* XoXo
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ok, well, this so called "friend-of-mine" is being rly well not herslef lately and we use to be bffaeae's until i realized that i dont need a friend like her and she was talking about me behind my back with another bff of mine but it looks like my so called friend doesnt wanna lose our friendship but i dont think i need her as a friend if shes gunna do that what should i do??!! PLEASE HELP
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Does she have any other friends who she hangs out with and they don't like you? Maybe that's the problem here..find out who she hangs out with and maybe they're the culprit..lol
GoOd LuCk XoXo
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heyy...
well i like hanging out wit these boys and wen my best friend is with them they all ignore me! most of the guyz no it bothers me but they say that they cant help it but my friend ignores me if shes hanging out with ANYONE thats not me..wat do i do?? (link)
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All I can say is try talking to her. It's not like you do that to her..so why should she give you crap like that?!
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all my friends are really pretty. they are all blonde and skinny and rich. im the opposite. im ugly, not good clothes, overweight. everytime i go somewhere like the movies with my friends the guys all want to make out with them and sit with them when they just ignore me. when my friends suggest they makeout with me they pretend to gag and say ewww. it makes me really sad. help! how can i make myself prettier or find a guy who appreciates me? sometimes it feels like i deserve a boy more than the other girls. im a good person and friendly. (link)
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Guys who go for the "looks" really aren't worth it. I had trouble with a guy like that once.Looking for the right one may not happen right away. Give it some time and maybe you'll just find the perfect guy for you..
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I've got an issue that i really need someone to help me with.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months tommrow and I'm going to lose him very soon if I keep up my issue. Whenever I get the slightest bit upset, I get very close to breaking up with him. I few times I actutally did, but he took me back withen seconds. I don't know why I do this, it's really confusing me because I promised myself and him I'd stop. The first time I did this he cried. Yes I know, a guy crying "He must be a pansy", he's not he's affectionate, but just the other week when I did this he just said "Do what you want" and didn't care, at all. I've done this alot and he's begun not to care that I do this anymore because I think he realizes I'm not actually going to follow through with it, but someday I will. I don't want to break up with him, but I get in this tunnel-vison mode where the only way out is out of the relationship. Any advice on why I do this and how to stop.
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I understand that he's your b/f and he doesn't treat you that way, so you should try to give him the same respect. I truly know that you don't mean to do this, but maybe something else is bothering you. Try talking with him and telling him that you don't want to break up w/ him, and you don't mean it. If he's really there with you, he'll definitly understand.
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