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Friend Loser
ok, well, this so called "friend-of-mine" is being rly well not herslef lately and we use to be bffaeae's until i realized that i dont need a friend like her and she was talking about me behind my back with another bff of mine but it looks like my so called friend doesnt wanna lose our friendship but i dont think i need her as a friend if shes gunna do that what should i do??!! PLEASE HELP
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tell her that its her fault in the first place so talk to her and then u should get the answer ur looking 4...♥Mia
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Does she have any other friends who she hangs out with and they don't like you? Maybe that's the problem here..find out who she hangs out with and maybe they're the culprit..lol
GoOd LuCk XoXo
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If you really would like to try it again, then do. I'd let it be know right up front though that she'll have to reearn (is that even a word?) your trust and that you refuse to put up with any nonsense.
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You're right. You don't need her as a friend if she's going to be like that. You should try talking to her and seeing why she's like this though, I'm sure there has to be a reason- even if its completely stupid. You don't need a friend like that though- so don't worry about it! ♥ If you need anything, just message me! Hope I've Helped!
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lol, it sounds like you dont really want this girl as a friend, i can tell by your subject lol. I know it's hard, but sometimes you just have to let go of a friendship if you think it wont work. I did that before and it was like an elephant was lifted off my shoulders! I think thats great that you realize that you dont need her, so now all you have to do is talk to her about it and dont be mean, just suggest that you not be "BEST FRIENDS". If she gets mad, its not your fault, you just want whats best for, well, yourself. Good luck! :D
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well if she said alot of stuff that hurt you and you dont need her.. well yea you dont need her... but if she really wants to be friends with you again you should give her another chance.. girls will be girls.. we talk about everybody.. theres no harm in giving her another try.. hope everything turns out ok :-)
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I have been in this situation many times before & I know how horrible it feels to know you might loose a best friend. But it never happened alot for me - I always worked it out but friends will come and go. You need to figure out why she is talking about you behind your back & whats happening here. Then try to see if you are possibly able to fix the problem to save your friendship but only if you feel this "bff" is truly worthey of that. If not, you dont have to be best friends, you can just be the type of friend that hangs out every once in awhile & of course, you talk. But you need to tell her to please stop talking behind your back! After all, it wont solve anything ♥ Laura
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Do you really want to lose your BFFEAEAEAE over her just talking behind your back. I bet you've talked behind your friend's back before, and they've forgeven you. It says in the bible to forgive always. John 1:12
Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God. That means he gave you the right to live, to breathe to be a person. He didn't have to forgive you of all your sins, yet he did. Idk if your a Christain or not, but as you can tell I am. Forgiveness is the way of life.
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