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my dad


Question Posted Monday April 4 2005, 3:19 pm

my dad is always so mean and curses alot he is an alchoholic what can i do to make him be a normal dad?

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karazimonki answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 9:41 pm:
Talk to him tell him that you don't like when he drinks talk to him may be about rehab. Talk to your mom also she could help convince him to go to rehab.
Karazi Kenzee

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Lovely2 answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 7:14 pm:
You cant do anyone, but if your feeling threatend go to your school counsler, and if you dont want her to say anything you can tell her to keep it confidential, and she can give you some better pointers than anyone on this site.

Lovely.

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freun989 answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 12:54 am:
Hide the booze...

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twynelyne answered Monday April 4 2005, 11:39 pm:
You need to tell your father that you love him and that you really wish you could spend more time together when he's in a better mood and is sober.

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l0stiNth0uGht020 answered Monday April 4 2005, 10:54 pm:
Go to AlaTeen (it's for kids who have alcholic parents/relatives). They can help you decide how to handle things.

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askzackwordlife answered Monday April 4 2005, 9:24 pm:
i have dealed with an alchoholic it was scary at times but i called my uncle and told him about it and he got him into a place with other acholoics and they talk about it. place for he can recover. encourage him to stop for u. love is stronger than anything

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sweetjewel answered Monday April 4 2005, 7:15 pm:
you have to call for help.. call Al- Anon/Alateen: 800-344-2666 (for friends and family of people with drinking problems or go to Alcoholics Anonymous: www.alcoholics-anonymous.org or call Center for Substance Abuse Treatment: 800-662-HELP
GOOD LUCK

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Talk2Me answered Monday April 4 2005, 5:56 pm:
No one has a normal Dad, you should know that. Some are more normal than other, but no oine is completely normal, kinda like no ones perfect. I am not a magician, there are no magic words I can say and poof he's fine. But first, you have to get your Dad to wanna stop drinking, if he isn't commited, it probably won't work out to well! Also try counceling, tell your Mom, teacher, or a person you trust about your Dad's problm, and see if they know of a place were he can get counceling.
Hope it Works!
XOXO
Rebecca

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shake answered Monday April 4 2005, 5:01 pm:
Nothing. Talking to him will aggravate him and piss him off. Screw him, hes a bad dad, just deal with it until you're old enough to move out.

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deceivingxheart answered Monday April 4 2005, 4:57 pm:
Unfortuneatly, I dont think theres anything you can do. I think that maybe he should try going to a counseler.

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xo_FARiNS_07 answered Monday April 4 2005, 4:26 pm:
this probly isnt wat you wanna hear but, you cant really make him be a better dad, he has to wanna do that on his own.. you could talk to him or something.. idk.. hope i helped.. xo♥*

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karenR answered Monday April 4 2005, 4:09 pm:
I'm really sorry that your dad is an alcoholic.
I'm also sorry that there just isn't anything you can do to make him stop and be normal.

Have you ever heard of alateen? You can get some very usful information there that will help you deal with your dad's problem.

www.al-anon.org/alateen.html

If for some reason that doesn't get you there, just punch alateen into your search engine. Go check it out! :)

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