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Question Posted Monday April 4 2005, 3:46 pm

okay well i was friends with someone online for a few months and we got really close - we told each other like everything and stuff. I showed her like one pic maybe and my face wasn't showing that well and I'm not really comfortable showing pics online anyway because I knew that she saved them on her computer. Well, we grew apart, and then a month after we did I found out that she was even bisexual. the problem is.. she ims me every once in a while and asks for my pic, saying that she has all these pics of her friends saved. am i wrong for not wanting to give it, or feeling that im only imed so she could see my pic?

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Additional info, added Monday April 4 2005, 8:21 pm:
Let me just add shes going to be 15 in a while, and I've seen alot of pics, and she ims me whenever I put an a/m up that refers to pics. I just don't trust her - I have a friend overseas and I trust her lol. PS: SHE'S A GIRL! I don't have a problem with her being bi, and she always complains of being alone [her father made her move to a diff country without notice or something long story] and that she only has online friends..

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paenian answered Monday April 4 2005, 7:55 pm:
the question should be: what's the worst she could do? Assuming she's not asking for indecent pictures, I don't think the worst is very bad. Maybe she'll show her friends and they'll all laugh at you, but so what?

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sweetjewel answered Monday April 4 2005, 7:10 pm:
you did the right thing!! you should never give anyone a pic of yourself that you dont know.. how do you know that a 40 yr old man didnt send you a pic of someone else he talks to?? be careful

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heya answered Monday April 4 2005, 6:27 pm:
If you dont feel comfortable sending pics to her then dont send them. You probably will never see this girl. Tell her this..say something like "ya kno my computer got messed up and some of my files deleted plus my pics" Now if she gets mad and doesnt understand then i probably would block her .

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shake answered Monday April 4 2005, 5:00 pm:
No. You dont have to. Why would you get close to someone over the internet? Are you stupid?

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xmissybootsx answered Monday April 4 2005, 4:28 pm:
hun.. if you dont trust her or anything, don't show it to her. plain & simple. you don't have to if you dont want to.
tell her you just dont have any pics anymore bc you deleted them all, lol
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xo_FARiNS_07 answered Monday April 4 2005, 4:16 pm:
there is no reason that you should give her your pic, you should just tell her that you dont have anymore that the one you gave her was the only one you had.. i dont blame you for not wanting to give her your pic.. hope i helped.. xo&hearts;*

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orphans answered Monday April 4 2005, 4:12 pm:
Okay I have been in the same situation if you really dont want her to ask to see your pic every time she im's you then tell her that you arent comfortable showing your picture to people that you dont know very well for all you know she could be a he!



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karenR answered Monday April 4 2005, 4:03 pm:
If you aren't comfortable showing your picture online then by all means don't. Just tell her that.If she continues to im you and you want to be friends go ahead.

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