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Location: philly
Member Since: April 4, 2005
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Last Update: June 15, 2005
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ok my bf in skool told me to chose me or softball but i love him and i love to be athletic and play softball so i dont kno wut to do :-/ plz help (link)
If he really truely loves you he will let you play softball and be with him but if he makes you wut he wants you to do DUMP HIM no matter how hard it is you have to be your ownself and not let him tell you to choose


ok so,i play like every sport there is except rugby and football...cuz im a girl...all my friends say that im amazimg cuz when i get home from school iu do my homework get online then sports the rest of the night..but sometimes i goto basketball then to soccer then to lacrosse then to swimming. everyone says that i should quiet mayb 3 sports and only havge like 3 sports to do...should i quit? but i always have time for them...i rate REALLY high..*but it has to be good please!) (link)
No i love sports and to me u cant have too many sports they help u get in shape and other stuff but if its too much for you try to keep it limimted


I have the bestest friends in the world. but i cant help but feel left out sometimes. i know im just been stupid half the time but it really bugs me. I know that having 3 best friends will always be hard but its so awful been left out. Like they will sleep at each others house etc. I told my friends about this and my other friend said sorry i just feel more close to her than i do to you. and that just made me upset becuase i have known them both longer than they have known each other. So i dont know what to do, they will think im trying to split them up or something which im not! so what can i do because i have already told them but they just carry on. thanks
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the same thing happend to me and i got really jealous and like called them s**** they never forgave me and right now my social life ruined but life goes on dont do wuhat i did for this you have to lay bac and cant do anything.


I have a friend who is heavily into drugs. She isn't doing it to have fun, she is doing it to escape problems in her life. She has had a very difficult life, so it isn't like an emo thing. I am too close to her to help her. I have been through this with her many times. My question is, what can I do to try and get her away from all of the drugs without making her mad at me. Also if there is anything you could suggest, where I could help her, it would be much appreciated. Thank you all so much in advance. This problem has really got me down.

~Nokomis~ (link)
Sometimes if you really care for some1 you have to get her mad at you if u can save her. Tell her how much you care about her and tell her she cant run away from her problems you have to face them. Life can be scary but you have to be brave.
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I used to date this boy(we'll call him john doe) for two months. Everyone at school told me a lot of bad things about him. Stuff about how he cheats on his gurlfriends and stuff. I talked to him to get to know him for about 2 weeks. I was straight up w/ him and told him that I wasnt sure if we should hook up b/c of all the things i had heard about him. He told me that they we're true & he did used to do those things, but he really did changed. He told me that it pisses him off when people say that about him b/c a lot of gurls wont date him b/c of it. He's the guy that all the gurls wanna date and he said that they're just jealous b/c he dont want them. Well I started hearing stuff about him the first day we started goin out, but I didnt believe it b/c I trusted him. He seemed really ginuwine when he told me all that stuff about him. 1 month after we got together I was in the hall w/ one of my friends. She was talking to one of her friends that I didnt know at the time. Me and her b/c kool and around lunch she wrote me a note saying I think you're a really kool gurl and I cant tell you love " John Doe " and I know ou would never cheat on him. but he having sex w/ a gurl at school( we'll call her jane doe). I called him cussing and yelling at him for about two hours. He swore to me it wasn't true. I didnt really believe him and he knew it, I told him I was going to trust that he wouldnt do that to me and I let him know that it does make me look at him differently now. Things got worse after that b/c the gurls knew they had got to me and they had me not believing him now. We'd been together for exactly two months when everyone told me that he was going around telling people we didnt go together. Everyone, well a lot of gurls & my friends, told me that he said that, or had heard someone telling people he said that. The whole school was talking about it, so I just assumed it was true. He tried talking to me, but I just ignored him. He asked one of my friends what was wrong and they told him that I said we didnt go together anymore & I did tell her that b/c of what I had heard. He stopped coming to school and went off to job-core. He started dating someone else that went to my school. He came back to huntsville but didnt come back to school. I called him on his birthday to tell him happy b-day & he was surprised that I called him. We talked for a while and we continued to talk. He still goes w/ that other girl, but he says he wants to go back out & that he's gonna break up w/ her. He said that he never said he didnt go w/ me & he tried talking to me, but I wouldnt listen to him. Do you think what everyone says is true or do you think he's telling the truth? (link)
I dated a girl just like that but deep down inside i knew she was telling the truth. look deep down into his eyes and say are you tellin the truth you will get your answer then and remember people change romurs dont.


A senior girl in my first period's mom passed away on Friday. She wont be coming to school for the rest of the week because of the tragic situation. My teacher was to get a "sympathy card" and get my whole class to sign it saying how sorry they are and all that. I, along with a few other people in the class, don't think it'll be a good idea. WE said so in class today and our teacher just responded with, "Lauren need to know we care about her."

We don't think it's a good idea because she would be just coming back from a whole week at home with her family grieving and she doesn't need all this pity from us. When our teacher told us what happened, all you could hear around the class room was "Oh that sucks, I can't believe she's finishing her senior year without her mom, Prom is going to suck for her, etc." I know those kind of things are going to end up in the card.

At the end of class, we just decide that we weren't going to sign the card but do y'all think there's a way to stop the whole thing?
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I think u might be right but if you don't give a card show her what you wanted to say in it by doing not saying show that you care for her and you there for her.


my dad is always so mean and curses alot he is an alchoholic what can i do to make him be a normal dad? (link)
i have dealed with an alchoholic it was scary at times but i called my uncle and told him about it and he got him into a place with other acholoics and they talk about it. place for he can recover. encourage him to stop for u. love is stronger than anything




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