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Is he telling the truth or is he lieng
I used to date this boy(we'll call him john doe) for two months. Everyone at school told me a lot of bad things about him. Stuff about how he cheats on his gurlfriends and stuff. I talked to him to get to know him for about 2 weeks. I was straight up w/ him and told him that I wasnt sure if we should hook up b/c of all the things i had heard about him. He told me that they we're true & he did used to do those things, but he really did changed. He told me that it pisses him off when people say that about him b/c a lot of gurls wont date him b/c of it. He's the guy that all the gurls wanna date and he said that they're just jealous b/c he dont want them. Well I started hearing stuff about him the first day we started goin out, but I didnt believe it b/c I trusted him. He seemed really ginuwine when he told me all that stuff about him. 1 month after we got together I was in the hall w/ one of my friends. She was talking to one of her friends that I didnt know at the time. Me and her b/c kool and around lunch she wrote me a note saying I think you're a really kool gurl and I cant tell you love " John Doe " and I know ou would never cheat on him. but he having sex w/ a gurl at school( we'll call her jane doe). I called him cussing and yelling at him for about two hours. He swore to me it wasn't true. I didnt really believe him and he knew it, I told him I was going to trust that he wouldnt do that to me and I let him know that it does make me look at him differently now. Things got worse after that b/c the gurls knew they had got to me and they had me not believing him now. We'd been together for exactly two months when everyone told me that he was going around telling people we didnt go together. Everyone, well a lot of gurls & my friends, told me that he said that, or had heard someone telling people he said that. The whole school was talking about it, so I just assumed it was true. He tried talking to me, but I just ignored him. He asked one of my friends what was wrong and they told him that I said we didnt go together anymore & I did tell her that b/c of what I had heard. He stopped coming to school and went off to job-core. He started dating someone else that went to my school. He came back to huntsville but didnt come back to school. I called him on his birthday to tell him happy b-day & he was surprised that I called him. We talked for a while and we continued to talk. He still goes w/ that other girl, but he says he wants to go back out & that he's gonna break up w/ her. He said that he never said he didnt go w/ me & he tried talking to me, but I wouldnt listen to him. Do you think what everyone says is true or do you think he's telling the truth?
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well what do you believe do you believe in those people or do you believe in some one you really love? i woul think hes telling the truthbecuase he is your man!
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it sounds like you have serious doubts about this guys credability. if its not your gut instinct to trust him then there is never going to be any trust because as soon as something happens, which it will because no relationship is perfect, then you will doubt him. so you have to ask yourself is he really worth all this heart ache?
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Why do you need this loser? If you don't or can't trust someone, you don't have a relationship. He isn't in school; he is making promises he doesn't intend to fufill. Yeah rumours happen, but sometimes there is a bit of truth. Would you want him dating you and trying to get back with some other former girlfriend? I don't think so. Find someone with a future.
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I don't know.I do think that if you do get back together that the two of you should listen to each other and not the rest of the gossips at school. That would be a good place to start.
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is he a man whore? if so then ya the rumors are most likely true but if he changed lke he said then maybe he changed for you~! alot of people might have been jelous of you and wanted it to end it for their own good.it sounds like he realy likes u if hes gonna break up with his gilfriend 4 u !maybe give him a second chance! and see how he is now!
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Look, rumors go around and that is all i can say! If this guy is STILL looking up to getting back with you, it shows he REALLY cares about you! He's trying to make it up to you in a way that you won't listen to the other people, even if they ARE your friends, and for you to trust HIM! You never know, a who absolutely was in LOVE with this guy could have made up the whole thing so it COULD get around to you. Remember, some s are bitches and would do ANYTHING to get something they want and in your case, "John Doe!" hehe!
*!*I HoPe I HeLpEd*!*
-*Marissa*-
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I dated a girl just like that but deep down inside i knew she was telling the truth. look deep down into his eyes and say are you tellin the truth you will get your answer then and remember people change romurs dont.
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