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I have the bestest friends in the world. but i cant help but feel left out sometimes. i know im just been stupid half the time but it really bugs me. I know that having 3 best friends will always be hard but its so awful been left out. Like they will sleep at each others house etc. I told my friends about this and my other friend said sorry i just feel more close to her than i do to you. and that just made me upset becuase i have known them both longer than they have known each other. So i dont know what to do, they will think im trying to split them up or something which im not! so what can i do because i have already told them but they just carry on. thanks
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i feel like that too with my best friends. you should just talk to them, if you dont feel comfortable talking to them in person about it try email or IM. and if they still dont care then maybe they just arent the right friends for you. it can be really tough, i know, i feel your pain and i have worked it out. talkig may not fix it completely, but you will probably feel better! hope everything works out!
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Feeling left out always happenes but if you already talked to your friends you gotta try again. Maybe they didnt understand and maybe they didnt think it was a big deal so they kept doing it. Let them kno again! You dont like when they ditch you so they gotta stop! Invite them both over a lot and spend time with them so you get to know your other friend better and so you guys get closer. x0
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Well you can either talk to the two of them and convince them that all three of you can hang out TOGETHER. or you can ditch them and find new friends that you can hang out with while you hang out with them when they have time for you. I was in the same situation. And the three of us ended splitting in a year. And i felt like i was always left out. But yea it definatly helps having another group of friends on your side that you can hang out with while the two of them are to busy for you.
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I know that it is hard for you, and I know that you have tried to talk to them, but try to get through to your friends , let them know it is a serious matter, if they continue not to listen write me back.
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I can totally relate to this, because me and my best friends are like peas in a pod. But a lot of times one of us gets left out. Sounds like your dilemma, right? Well, I suggest trying to plan activities where it's hard to leave one person out, like going to a carnival or something. I'm sure they haven't forgotten about you. If none of this works, I would try to have a heart-to-heart conversation, no excuses. Just try to get it out in the open, and eventually things will work out. Maybe one of you will get hurt, but that's the danger in threesomes. Good luck!
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if you've told them that you feel left out and they act like it's no big deal then there not really being good friends to you. I mean it's rude to invite one friend to sleep over and not invite the other that's all i'm saying. But if they act closer to one another then they do to you then they must not be considering you as a best friend. Why don't you make new friends who won't leave you out of the loop.
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the same thing happend to me and i got really jealous and like called them s**** they never forgave me and right now my social life ruined but life goes on dont do wuhat i did for this you have to lay bac and cant do anything.
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I feel the same way, 2 of my friends I have known one since 2nd grade and one since like 6th grade..and they both became close and 1 said that she is comfrontable saying stuff to the other one then to me, they would go for bike rides, and to the movies and say that they called but my sister never told them... which I don't belive but yeah. Then recently I had the same thing with another 2 of my freinds who don't know each other they only talked on-line a few times, but the one I knew for a lil over a year got annoyed because I was telling the one I only knew for a few months more personal stuff, bc I knew he would be there for me when I need someone to actually talk to. I know how it feels being left out of a triangle, I also know how it feels when you know one feels like they are left out. (such like I knew my friend was getting annoyed bc I couldn't be as open to him the other one)...What I am going to say is sit down with both of them and talk about how you feel and maybe have a day with just the 3 of you to have fun like old times, I know it wasn't the best but if you need anything else feel free to drop on in.
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Why don't you all get together for a sleepover? 3 is just an odd number and someone will always feel leftout. Maybe they just have more in common with each other. I don't know. Maybe you need to just jump right in and don't let yourself be left out.
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