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ALOT of guy trouble!!
ok .. this might be a little confusing but im sorry! lets say im lydia and my sister is brittany. There are 3 guys involved in this. Lets say their names are billy, mitch, and john. Well i used to go out wiht john but we broke up like 5 months ago. Long story about us but to make it short, my dad didnt like him adn told him to never talk to me again. So of course he hasnt. Well now my dad said i can talk to john again, and i really want to because i still like him! billy and mitch are both of his friends. Well over last summer, mitch liked my sister, then when me and john broke up, mitch started liking me. Now mitch likes me and my sister. i like mitch, but not as a boyfriend, yet im jealous when he likes other girls. About billy, Billy likes me, but he doesnt know that i like him. The other day one of billy friends called me and said billy liked me and asked if i liked him. I said no even tho i do. Now billy thinks i dont like him, so he said he doesnt want to go out with me. He now says im hott and he likes me but doesnt want to go out with me. (because i said i didnt like him). Its all really confusing but i dont know what to do. Wednesday i am going to try to talk to billy and john but should i tell both of them i like them? I like john way more but i think john has a girlfriend. Please help the best you can. Any advise is welcome!! thanks so much!
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Hey sweetie. Wow, you got yourself in a tough situation there!! But, I'll try my best to help you out =). Well, basically you told me you like the 2 of them and Mitch is well out of the picture. It's left with John and Billy. Billy seems like he doesnt know what he wants.. he should say he just likes you even if he wasn't sure you didn't like him. John, well you're not sure if he has a girlfriend. You should find that one out first before you do ANYTHING. But, don't tell both of the boys you like them because someone will get hurt at the end. You want to make this a clean situation and not a complicating hurtful kind of situation. Anyways, you should make a pros and cons of each of them and see which one comes out better. Like who would make you happier, who makes you laugh more, etc. I hope this helps and just follow your heart with this one, not which one is hotter. If you still need help, just post another message in my inbox!! Tell me how everything goes!!
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I don't think you should tell John and Billy you like them both! Since they're friends they might get mad at each other, like boys do... I think you should talk to John. Ask him if he has a girlfriend first, if he says yes, go to Billy. But if John says no, then you should go for him because you have past experience with him and even still like him, that's a good thing. Hope I helped. :)
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Dear: "Let's Say I'm Lydia", (Cute name by the way)
I would have to say- to just tell everyone the truth, and try to sort things out. It does seem a little confusing. But I have been in a situation like you before too, and so have a few of my friends. Just try to talk them threw it, and if they dont help, or understand, then thats their own loss, and you are too good for them :)
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You should tell John you like him and he might like you enough to brake up with his girfriend (if he has one) and if he says no you could go ask Billy and you might find by getting to know him better that you like him more.
Hope I helped.
Mandy
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well to my suprise i got that lol it wasnt confusing, but to the point lol
i think you should tell them both that you like them. Tell Billy that you didnt say you like him becuase you didn't want his friends to know.
And even if John does have a girlfriend i think you should still tell him that you like him just so he knows, and if he ever breaks up you can have him back.
So yea i would tell them honestly.
Hope everything goes good grl!
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That wasn't confusing but this answer might be kinda. And I don't know if you meant to ask this to everyone but if you did you only asked it to me. Well before you tell John that you like him then you need to find out if he has a girlfriend or not. And if he does then don't tell him at risk of the fact he could break up with his girlfriend. Sure that sounds good to you but think about what if you were the girl. Anyway tell Billy that you like him. As far as Mitch goes tell him the you only like him as a friend. Plus if John has a girlfriend you won't feel super sad because you still have Billy that you could go out with. I hope that this makes any sense to you. I also hope that you are happy with whatever results come from this. Oh and anyway if your sister likes Mitch then your sister could always go out with Mitch and that would make the Mitch end of this issue better.
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Wasn't this question already asked? Since I had read one with a girl name Lydia and her sister Brittney and these 3 guys or so.
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well you can like all three of them.Girlfriends or no girlfriends. You date the ones who ask you out. I don't know why you would tell someone that you liked that you didn't like them...it's fixable though, go tell the truth. Tell all that you like them. Go out with the one you want and the others will still be friends.
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