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Hello! My name is Emma and I'm sixteen. My heart belongs to Jesse. I am currently living in Toronto, Ontario and schooling at St. Joseph's Morrow Park.



My interests/hobbies: Make-up such as eyeliner ♥ I

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There's this guy that i'm going out with, his name is Terry. We started out by My friend telling me that he liked me, so yeah. Now we only talk on msn, and it seems like the internet is our only connection. He never talks to me in real life, and it hurts me. One time i saw his talking to one of is other friend's, that's a girl. They were all lauging and making jokes. He never does that with me. Is it because he's just shy and only feels comfortable talking to his close friends? Or is it that he's falling out of love with me? Or he didn't like me that much to begin with? Please help, because i feel really bad now. THANKS! From, Nadine

It may be any one of those answers. I'm sorry but if you really love him, and you think he doesn't seem to be spending enough time with you, I would tell him that it's over. He's focusing more time on his friends more on you, or you could confront him. Maybe it would be better off that way. ♥ Emma

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all my friends are really pretty. they are all blonde and skinny and rich. im the opposite. im ugly, not good clothes, overweight. everytime i go somewhere like the movies with my friends the guys all want to make out with them and sit with them when they just ignore me. when my friends suggest they makeout with me they pretend to gag and say ewww. it makes me really sad. help! how can i make myself prettier or find a guy who appreciates me? sometimes it feels like i deserve a boy more than the other girls. im a good person and friendly.

Don't worry about those guys! If they act like that to you, they don't deserve you! You will find your dream-come-true guy sooner or later, who will like you for who you are! =D ♥ Emma

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Does sex really hurt? Or is it like not painful at all? I just wanted to know because I'm scared of doing it and I just want to know if it was really painful. THX! -Kelly

Well, coming from someone with no experience, people say it does really hurt. Some people say that once you do it alot it won't hurt as much but some people say that it hurts all the time. I hope that helps! ♥ Emma

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I have a large and painful canker sore in my mouth that won't seem to go away. I've tried salt water and o-zone water (water that has anti-bacterial purposes). Are there any other remedies that'll help that I don't need to go and buy stuff for?

Whenever that happens to me, I use this stuff called 'Oracort'. It really works! I hope this helps! ♥ Emma

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ok heyz, this boy in my class likes me and its totally obvious. but the thing is he went out with my best friend and if he aske me out then what should i do should i say yes or no.because this other guy likes me and hes already sorta asked me out so i dont know what to do about that. its not really a date what should i do... help me soon!?!?!

if you really like this guy go for it, but if you feel that your friend would feel uncomfortable with you going out with him, then you should respect her descicion. But if she says "Sure, go for it!" then you should go out with him! I hope this helps! ♥ Emma

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I'm very shy and quiet, and I not a geek or anything but I'm not exactly popular either. There's this guy that I think might like me.. but he is really popular and outgoing, so I'm not sure if he really does like me or if it's just my imagination. Is it possible for a popular, outgoing guy to like a shy, not-so-popular girl? What are the chances? I don't know what to do because of my uncertainty.. should I flirt back or not?? Thanks in advance!! :-)

Anything is possible! Any guy can fall for any type of girl. Me and my bf are totally diffrent! But he still loves me for who I am. Also, why don't you try asking one of those so-called popular guys, and maybe he would go out with you. If he says no, keep your hopes up, because there's always that special someone you're going to meet! ♥ Emma

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I'm a girl and I'm 14. I'm attracted to the female body, but in an artistic way. I want to tell my friends, and show them some of my artwork, but I'm afraid they'll think I'm a perverted homosexual or something like that. Anyone have any advice on what to do or say?

If you are uncomfortable with telling them, then just don't tell them. It's completly normal for someone to be attracted to something, you can't really help it. I hope that helps! ♥ Emma

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if my boyfriend touched his dick(no cum) and then fingered me, is there a chance that i can get pregnet? Thanks!

If there was no sperm, then you probably aren't! But you better check just in case =D ♥ Emma

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I just got my period (i've had it for 2 years) and i noticed that in my pad the blood was dark black instead of red/maroon like it usually is. What does this mean??? its dark dark black. Am i dehydrated or sumthing?

Getting it dark black is normal. It's just when you keep the pad on too long the blood gets darker, that's all. ♥ Emma

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my friend wanted to know if getting braces affects kissing ???

nope! you kiss with your lips not teeth! you might cut your lips if the other person has braces too, but no worries, it rarely even happens! ♥ Emma

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there is a new girl in my class and she is taking over my friends. my friends act like they dont want me around anymore.what should i do?

they are probably are just trying to make her feel comfortable in a new place. If you were in her position, you would probably want to have some people to be with you. When she starts getting to know the place better she might try to get new friends but she has to deal with what she has now. I hope that helps! ♥ Emma

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i was at my mates party last nite in secret(i told my mum that i was staying at my mates to study)so my boyfrend came and met me,he took me for a drive in his new car we ended up crashing we rolled over a bush and ended up upside down. i had cut on my hand and just told my mum i fell but its really painful i think theyer mite be glass in it.i cant go to the hosp cos she werks there.what can i do?

I would just tell the truth. It's probably better than being in pain all your life. Tell your mom, she will probably forgive you. I hope this helps! ♥ Emma

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hey! Your are really pretty! What kinds of other make-up do u use? -Melissa

Awww.. thx! You're probably better looking than me! LOL! Well...I only use black or red eyeliner and sometimes i wear blue-ish, green-ish, MAC eyeshadow. ♥ Emma

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