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Question Posted Wednesday March 30 2005, 7:08 pm

I'm a girl and I'm 14. I'm attracted to the female body, but in an artistic way. I want to tell my friends, and show them some of my artwork, but I'm afraid they'll think I'm a perverted homosexual or something like that. Anyone have any advice on what to do or say?

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MiSsLiNz answered Friday April 1 2005, 11:08 pm:
Just show them it, its artwork and things like that look beautiful and if they call u homosexual or perverted tell them to mature and to learn to appreciate art. =)
x0Lindsey

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emoxemz answered Friday April 1 2005, 5:17 pm:
If you are uncomfortable with telling them, then just don't tell them. It's completly normal for someone to be attracted to something, you can't really help it. I hope that helps! ♥ Emma

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xOtWiXi answered Thursday March 31 2005, 10:28 pm:
It's completely normal. COMPLETELY. If you feel uncomfortable, don't show them, but art is art and art is meant to be free and passionate, so there's nothing wrong unless you are completely shy. I don't consider you perverted so I'm sure your friends won't! If you need anything else just message me. Hope I've Helped! ♥

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karazimonki answered Thursday March 31 2005, 5:13 pm:
It sounds to me like your really proud of your work, which must mean it's pretty good. Try showing it to one of your friends and seewhat this friend thinks. if she acts like your perverted because of this drawing then this friend is inmature. I mean this friend is about 14 anyway she should be able to handle it, and if it makes this friend uncomfortable then thats ok. Also if this one friend likes it you could try showing it to your other friends.Good Luck.
Karazi Kenzee

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alisonmarie answered Thursday March 31 2005, 3:46 pm:
First of all, homosexuals aren't perverted. So even if your friends DID think you were gay, that's not necessarily a horrible thing.

You can calmly explain that you're not gay. Tell them what you said in this question - that you are artistically drawn to the female body. There's nothing wrong with that.

If you treat your drawings as normal, which they are, then your friends might just go along with it. If you are obviously uncomfortable or weirded out by the idea of showing them your drawings, they will pick up on those feelings and even MORE weirdness will ensure.

Bottom line, don't show them until you are ready. It's your art and you shouldn't have to make excuses to anyone.

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xODuckieLuva33Ox answered Thursday March 31 2005, 3:07 pm:
You should just show them. If they are your friends they will understnad that it is just art. If they dont then they arent very good friends.
Hope I Helped
xO Kayla Ox

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karenR answered Thursday March 31 2005, 12:21 am:
Just show them your artwork if your so inclined and don't worry so much about what they might think. If they have questions answer them.

You are a female and have every right to think the female body is a thing of beauty.You might say it in a similar way...using the word attracted might give the wrong impression.

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GrAcIeBeLlE answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 11:27 pm:
well maybe yoo think she is pretty lik ei think some girls are pretty becuase htahyy are and im not a homo!unless yoo wana doo sumthing with her now that would be nasty!

x3 grace! x3

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Ecuagrlhelpsu answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 9:34 pm:
Just tell them the truth and if they think that that means they are very dumb because art is art! like my social studies teacher told me cuz i used to say ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!! and he got mad and he told us that!! i guess they are dumb ass if they dont understand art i think i used to me like that!!
xoxoxo
~~~~AnDrEa

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xcuriousx0 answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 8:41 pm:
just tell them your totally straight but you are just involved with that kind of artwork.

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Rocksoul55 answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 8:11 pm:
Well im a artist to so don't worrie i draw boys sometimes and they don't don;t make fun of me its alright to show things and even if they do laugh that really means there not your ture friends

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brodmister45 answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 8:04 pm:
do what you feel is right..i mean if your friends cant appreciate your artwork than what are they really..if my friends didnt appreciate what i do than are they realy my friends.....and hopefully if they are true friends than they will be fine with it all and dont ever be ashamed of what you do!!!

i hope i help
>brodmister

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animals answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 7:49 pm:
Do anything you want and if your friends don't like what you're doing, well, they're rude for not liking what you do. Just continue and do what YOU like to do.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 7:31 pm:
Wow wow wow alot of girls your age is thinkin they are attracted to girls.. um jus show em your drawings..tell em that its a very good piece of art.. and that its for something your doing for a guy friend lie bout it at first, but what ever you do dont ask to draw them or anything.. and maybe your not bi or whatever maybe thats jus the kinda art work thats in your heart..much luv dez x0x0

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 7:25 pm:
It would be pretty immature of them to think that you're a perverted homosexual or something of that sort just because you are attracted to a womans body in an <b>artistic</b> way. A womans body is something that many many artists like to paint because lets face it, women are beautiful! A woman's body has the kind of curves that artists like to depict. A friend of mine (female) is an artist and the majority of her paintings are of nude woman. She too is completely facinated with the female body. You don't have to tell them anything if you don't want. Put it to them plain and simple- A woman's body is beautiful and you would understand that easier if you were an artist. Honestly, they can ask any artist in their school if they like to paint a woman's body just because of it's beauty. It's nothing to be ashamed of!

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Crystal_Moon answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 7:19 pm:
Tell them that the female body is the most interesting artwork to do for an artist and that the female body is the most beautiful body in an artist's eyes, because it is the most unique and seductive of all bodies.

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