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Help im realy bored i do nothing all day except watch T.v and i have allready browsed the intire internet help!can you think of something to do I am realy realy bored!You may think that in exagerating but im not its realy an emergency.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
I know what you are going through and we are all having problems find things to do, but I have found that taking a walk or calling a friend, read a book, find something that your interested in and soon you won't be watching so much TV.


I like the stuff EBAY sells but my mom doesn't want to give her credit card number..do they take checks?What is PAYPAL? (link)
Hi, I sell on ebay and it is completely safe, yes most sellers will take Money Orders and some will take checks. Paypal is another form of a credit card www.paypal.com and it can be used, just make sure they have good feedback and you should have no problems purchasing on ebay.


I'm a girl and I'm 14. I'm attracted to the female body, but in an artistic way. I want to tell my friends, and show them some of my artwork, but I'm afraid they'll think I'm a perverted homosexual or something like that. Anyone have any advice on what to do or say? (link)
Tell them that the female body is the most interesting artwork to do for an artist and that the female body is the most beautiful body in an artist's eyes, because it is the most unique and seductive of all bodies.


I waas wondering if anyone knew where there would be cheap and cute/hot clothes cheapp like shirt:25-30$ etc. thanks website is what i mostly need because we don't have any great stores here. thanks (link)
You will find everything and anything and the clothing is great and cheap www.ebay.com


i need serious help! my friend gets mad extremely easyly! And she doesnt want to be friends w/ my other beset friends! Just b'cuz she calls her fattie like 3 times! SHE CALLS EVERYONE FATTIE, its just a habit! So, i tried to fix things and said "I'll talk to her." and i did!!! then she calls her it ones and is sry, she just forgot. And now *sally* (not real name, using fake name) is mader than ever! And shes sry. but *sally* is still totally pissed! And she wont listen to me when i say that she didnt mean anything by it!
what do i do! they cant stop being friends, it'll totally brake the group!!!
sorry, if its long! (link)
The group is already split up and with your friend being nasty to your other friend it is already a bad scene. I can't blame your friend for not wanting to be around the girl that calls her names and it wasn't an accident that she said it agian, she was just being rude and she knows what she is doing. I would find a new friend that isn't so nasty to people, because you will be next. She does it to one she will do it to another!


Im a female and 15. Well theres a guy ive liked for a few years that i went out with before. We're really good friends and i know hes someone who i can count on. Well i kind of fooled around with him before but it didnt really change anything, still good friends, and not going out. Well my friends think im going to have sex with him and i kno that he wants to.. He told his best friend whos also my friend before he wouldnt go do anything with someone he didnt care about or have feelings for. i dont know if i should avoid doing that though or not. And rght now im not a virgin anyway so i dont see it as a big deal but ive only been with one guy. I really want to be with him and everything and he's told people he likes me but he doesnt want to be in a relationship rght now but im hoping i can change his mind. I dont know what i could do to get him to want to be with me again... But i would do anything. Please help with tips or advice Thanks (link)
You have to make a choice at this point, do you want to keep him as a friend or go further with the relationship, but once you cross the line and get romantic the friendship will never be the same, so make sure you are ready to give up a friend if it doesn't work out. Maybe that is what he is thinking too that is why he is pulling away.


alright, i know im usually the one givin advice on my advice column, but i feel like i can do more to help the world than just that! like in teen people magizine, how they're all these kids who are doing so much--like giving toys to poor children and started organizations and food drives! and helping with cancer and stuff! believe me i know this will take work, but i really want to start something with sending bibles or supplies over to africa or anywhere poor around the world. there are so many people who dont even know who jesus is! i just want to lend them a helping hand, maybe even get some way to put a table of contents in there to show them where certain stories are! PLEASE HELP!! ;-) i give good ratings & feedbak! -mandi- (link)
What you are wanting to do sounds wonderful and you are so right that children don't know about God and who Jesus is and that is so sad. There is so much hunger and pain right here in the United States. You should start by doing a free website and get flyers made up of what you want to achieve and start with your area and it will grow. Look into spreading the bibles out to lower income families. I hope this helped a little. God Bless You In Your Journey


Well i am 13 and i huffed once. i was with my best friend (not friends anymore) and she decided it would be cool.. i thought it would be fine because i was with a "good friend". well i told my closest frined whom i consider a sister and now she is upset with me. what can i do so she wont be upset with me. (she also knows i USE to cut which upset her too) i dont want to lose my "sister" because we are really close.. what can i do?? help plz i rate (link)
You sister is upset because she really cares about you and she know's that you are on a suicide mission and she doesn't want to watch you kill yourself. Put yourself in her place would you want to see her hurt or kill herself? The worst part about it is she feels helpless right now as your sister that you would do things like that and you may leave her life in a bad way. You need to talk to her and tell her what you are feeling a true friend and sister would understand and help you. The person that you huff with is not your friend!


ok so i like a boy ALOT! and he likes me ALOT! but we aren't bf and gf...when ever he asks me to dance or skate at friends parties...something inside me says NO! i don't know what to do..and I DID tell him how i feel! PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
Well don't say no, what are you waiting for? You are like everyone else at the party just there to have fun, so just do it have fun. Don't worry so much about everyone else, just be yourself relax and have fun.


I think my parents went through my purse! I came home last night and my purse was on my bed and it was opened! I feel violated, and hurt because i dont know why they would feel the need to do that. should i wait it out..because maybe if they went through my purse then they would talk to me about it soon? or should i confront them? if it ends up they didnt look through it they would think im paranoid and think i mmight have something to hide right? (link)
I would blow it off, if they didn't find anything it probably gave them the peace of mind that they needed and they would probably not do it again. Yes it is a violation of your privacy, but parents will be parents and they are good at snooping around, so I wouldn't make an issue, because they just might think you are trying to hide something.


Hi,
My school doesn't do work experience but I need to do a two week work experience placement to get onto the childcare course I would like to study. So, I'm trying to organise it myself and writing letters to all the nurseries in my area asking if they can help me.

My questions are:
*Do you think they would prefer handwritten or typed letters? (My handwriting is neat)
*What goes after 'yours' when you don't know the name of the person you are writing to?
*I am studying for 21 GCSEs. Do you think I should mention this or would it make me sound like I'm showing off?
*Should I mention any of my GCSEs? For example, I know that I have to gain good qualifications in English to be a Nursery Nurse, so should I mention that I'm studying English?

Oh, and I've been to Connexions, if anyone was going to suggest them to me, and they were absolutely useless, so I'm doing this myself.

Thanks!
xxx (link)
You should type it, it look's better and if you don't know who you are writing to it is, To Whom This May Concern and yes you should include all of your skills and achievements.


i know i have dreams.. i just cant remember any of them! they are nightmares and they wake me up.. i think about them for awhile.. then i go back to sleep but when i wake up again i dont remember them anymore i just know i had a dream because i remmeber waking up.. is this weird? (link)
You are all parts of your dreams and some people can not remember dreams, because they are deep sleepers, but you should keep a dream journal near your bed and as soon as you wake up write down what you remember. The nightmares are the termoil in your life.


I feel bad about myself sometimes because I'm skinny yet I don't look all that great. I want to feel better about myself and also look better. How is it possible? (link)
Everyone is beautiful in there own way, find clothing that accent your best body parts and compliment your body and be positive about your self.


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this is kind of an odd question..but my body...gives off this..odor. i mean its not like a gross sweat smell just a weird smell i mean like my boobs even smell like this. when i wash my body the good smell of the body wash goes into my skin and the affect wears off after like an hour. and i'm not even at school for another 2 hours after i take a shower. i'm not really sure what it is..and i'm too embarrased to tell my mom

-Confused..very (link)
Some people have stronger body odors than others, but you should talk to your mom about it, it could be something that your eating. Eating certain foods can cause the body to give off odors. Next time your at the doctor ask about it!


i get these horrible and huge pimples on my vigina ..thay hert bad!!! wut shoul di do ... and i dont have sex or masterbate! (link)
They can be caused by shaving, but if they are big then that sounds like the soap you are using is causing irritation, so what I recommend is get your self some feminine wash, it is safe and mild, also if your shaving down there use a 3 blade razor, it doesn't cause as much irritation. Another thing that works good is Bikini Zone you can buy it at Walmart.


Im 21 female. I feel trapped. I love my fiance and all but sometimes I feel the urge to run away. Far away. Away from everything including the only person that's ever loved or cared about me... him. I just want to be free. He says it's a hippie spell. The feeling of wanting to leave never stays away for long. What should I do? (link)
If you feel trapped already in a relationship then you need to follow your feelings, before it's to late. If you get married you will really be trapped and it will not last, so go do what you need to do and don't worry about what other people want, do what you want. You only have one life, so live it!


i was wondering does any1 know any fitness exersises to get abs?im a girl and want to have abs. also a butt workout!! I really need to lose weight and how can i get motivated to lose weight? i am 130 pounds at 5'2 female.
Thank you in advance
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Get yourself a yoga ball and you can work your abs and do butt crunches.


After you spent 3 years engaged to the man you thought was the man of your dreams and you have troubles that make the relationship end, how long does it take for the tears to stop? When do you start over. 37 yrs 2 chilren
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Oh my that is not an easy question to answer and the tears will be there until your heart start's to heal. That is a long time to be together and then apart, but your heart will heal and the pain will get less bye every passing day, just know that there is someone out there that you have not met yet that is looking for you, because you are there soul mate and when you meet, the tears will turn to smiles and you heart will be whole agian, don't give up your faith in love, it will find you again.


Since I was five and up until I was ten, there was a man that used to abuse me and my bedridden mother. Finally when I was ten years old, my mother kicked him out. A few years after that, I was taken out of my mother's house, and am now living with my 30 year old sister, and her fiance. Anyway, off of the background. a couple years ago, I had a dream that I would run into the abuser guy, and then I did! Nothing bad happened to me that time, but now I'm having nightmares about him again! I'm afraid, because the nightmares are worse than last time, and I'm afraid something really bad might happen. What should I do??? I know dreams don't always mean something, but it's been happening for three nights now. I'm really frightened. :O (link)
Dreams are made up of who you are and your dream warned you of an encounter with the man in your past and this dream is either warning you to be extra careful or it is bringing your fears of him out in you dreams. Always listen to your dreams!


omg is it normal to have yellow discharge? i'm kinda freaked out because its kinda like.. sticky or it cums out in peices.. i'm not sexually active and it feels normal down there.. whats wrong with me??? I NEED TO NO PLEASE HELP ME
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It could be normal, but it could also be a yeast infection, which is not sexually transmitted. Go get checked out by the doctor, just in case.




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