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im pretty upset
I think my parents went through my purse! I came home last night and my purse was on my bed and it was opened! I feel violated, and hurt because i dont know why they would feel the need to do that. should i wait it out..because maybe if they went through my purse then they would talk to me about it soon? or should i confront them? if it ends up they didnt look through it they would think im paranoid and think i mmight have something to hide right?
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If you have any brothers or sisters you should ask them first then go to your parents and ask if they went through your purse and if they did maybe they were woried about you and watch 2 much drug things cause something lie that happened to one of my friends. I hope I helped
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They really should have told you that they would be checking through your things on occasion if they were going to.But, you live in their house and they do have that right.Even if you are up to nothing!
You need to talk with them. Maybe you've been shutting them out latley? Not saying you have but maybe they are feeling a little left out of what's going on with you.As a result they may wonder if there could be a reason...besides just being a teenager!
Just have a talk.Tell them you found your purse opened and that's not how you left it.Do have have brother or sisters? They could be the culprits as well.
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i ask them nicely, like
"Did you guys look through my purse, because i found it open on my bed."
somthing like that. If they did you can talk to them about it and if they didn't hunt down your brother or sister (if you have one) lol
good luck hun
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thats all true but if you want to know just ask them if they went through your purse. IF they did then you can ask why, but dont approach in a way that will make them think you have somthing to hide.
h.i.h. and good luck!
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I think you should talk to them, ask them why they went through your purse (but make sure it was them before start talking to them)
Say that someone has been through your purse and its invading your privacey!
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I would blow it off, if they didn't find anything it probably gave them the peace of mind that they needed and they would probably not do it again. Yes it is a violation of your privacy, but parents will be parents and they are good at snooping around, so I wouldn't make an issue, because they just might think you are trying to hide something.
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calmly ask them to please not go through your things. if they need to check anything if theyre questioning your behavior, they should ask you first and you will let them. (not saying that u actually will...make them feel like they can do somethin) <3
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