i need serious help! my friend gets mad extremely easyly! And she doesnt want to be friends w/ my other beset friends! Just b'cuz she calls her fattie like 3 times! SHE CALLS EVERYONE FATTIE, its just a habit! So, i tried to fix things and said "I'll talk to her." and i did!!! then she calls her it ones and is sry, she just forgot. And now *sally* (not real name, using fake name) is mader than ever! And shes sry. but *sally* is still totally pissed! And she wont listen to me when i say that she didnt mean anything by it!
what do i do! they cant stop being friends, it'll totally brake the group!!!
sorry, if its long!
karenR answered Thursday March 31 2005, 1:14 am: Well I don't think she's really in the wrong here.I wouldn't like being friends with someone who was going to call me names either.
The one who get's off calling people fatty had to know she didn't like it. You just talked to her about it. I don't know how she could have possibly did it by accident.
Stay out of the middle of it. You will wind up being the bad guy. If they aren't friends so be it. You gave it your best shot. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Crystal_Moon answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 7:10 pm: The group is already split up and with your friend being nasty to your other friend it is already a bad scene. I can't blame your friend for not wanting to be around the girl that calls her names and it wasn't an accident that she said it agian, she was just being rude and she knows what she is doing. I would find a new friend that isn't so nasty to people, because you will be next. She does it to one she will do it to another! [ Crystal_Moon's advice column | Ask Crystal_Moon A Question ]
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