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I HaTe My LiFe
Okay... I hate my life and everything right now. All my friends are in fights with eachother and me! And their is a nasty roomer going around my school that im not a virgen any more which i still am! And b/c of this roomer my 3 month boyfriend broke up with me. Im 13 by the way! So i dont know what to do! None of my friends will talk to me,eachother ugHHH! There are nasty roomers going around with them too. Everyone is making fun of me and my friends. Please Help Me! I Will Rate & Give Feed Back too =)
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That is what happend to my friend. Everybody is spreading a rumor that she is pregnant with a 21 year old and she is only 13 as well... I think the best thing to do is to go to the counselor and tell them about this rumor. if you know who is spreading it, tell the counselor. My friends and i went there just recently to tell about the rumor i said above ^ and it really helped.
Just act yourself. Make sure that everybody knows it is not true! As for your friends, sit down with them and talk. Ask them how they feel and why they are acting this way and tell them what they don't like about eachother so they can change it. GOod luck with everything and i hope it works out! :) love, Riley
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Try to talk to your friends and explain to them that you ARE a virgin. Tell your ex this too. I hope this will help.
Karazi Kenzee
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well, first of all: you shouldnt care what other people think of you so much. if your bf broke up with you just because of this, he is superficial. your friends should stick up for you and themselves as well, eventually it will cool down.
now for a spelling lessn
'roomer' should be spelled "RUMOR"
'virgen' should be spelled "VIRGIN"
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oh honey, I'm so sorry this is happening to you. people are mean. I think what you need to do is push it away. withdrawl into your studies and not really focus on whats going on at school. Hang out with your friends more on the weekends or after school (without forgettting homework) and do things that keep you occupied. The deal with rumors is that they cant last, they vanish as soon as they find that they dont hurt the person. So, keep your head up and stay confident. I know thats hard, but try. try to talk to your boyfriend...and if he wont talk to you, listen to you or trust you, he isnt a good friend, I know, its hard, but you'll pull through. Stay in there.
Good luck
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Welcome to the drama that is junior high/ middle school. 1) People are always going to talk about you and your friends. some people out there... its what they live for-to cut people down constantly and start rumors for the heck of it no matter how much it ruins your life. 2) if your boyfriend would dump you without hearing your defense... then he wasnt that good of one.. try to explain it to him even if he wont listen. 3)go to the Bible for answers.. before you say anything... my life was as messed up as yours.. i had no friends... no boyfriend (never have) and all these rumors going around about me... then i started havind a daily devotional and really getting to know God and things have gotten somewhat better.. change is meant to be and it will always work out forthe better eventually. trust God.
hope it works out for you.
GOD BLESS~ aeromonkey
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Who is starting all these rumors, any idea?
Whoever it is is not a friend.
I think given a little time everyone will get back on track.You don't need to be fighting among yourselves right now. You need to find out who the rumor monger is and have it out with them as a team. I'm sure your true friends know they are lies.
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it really sux when you're in fights with your friends but the main thing you have to do is talk to them. dont fight with them or yell at them, but just tell them how you feel and that you hate fighting with them. tell your boyfriend (or ex) that the rumor isnt true and that you and your friends are just in a fight and somebody made it up. if he doesnt believe you then hes not the guy for you because relationships are based on trust. good luck!
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okay first off, it's probably junior high or something like that, which in reality doesn't matter. but ive been in your situation before, all the rumors will die out if you don't let them get to you. those people don't matter, if you show that it bothers you too much then they will keep messing w/ you about it.but if you be the bigger person and just ignore them and maybe tell them to grow up, i'm pretty sure it'll do good. but everyone goes thru stuff like that.and if you know the truth that's all that matters.. and if ur boyfriend doesnt believe you, over the rumors, then he wasnt true anyway!
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dont listen to those ass holes!! well people make up dumb ass romers! well the important thing is that you now who you are and you now virgen!! so dont giv a fuck to what they say!!
xoxoxo
~~~~~~AnDrEa
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