Well i am 13 and i huffed once. i was with my best friend (not friends anymore) and she decided it would be cool.. i thought it would be fine because i was with a "good friend". well i told my closest frined whom i consider a sister and now she is upset with me. what can i do so she wont be upset with me. (she also knows i USE to cut which upset her too) i dont want to lose my "sister" because we are really close.. what can i do?? help plz i rate
Nokomis answered Friday April 1 2005, 9:03 pm: Tell her it was a mistake, thats why you only did it once. Tell her everyone makes mistakes. She'll realize it.
_x3_HyPa_On_SuGa_x3_ answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 5:59 pm: Tell her its normal to do that kinda thing at our age. I mean if you quit...and truley mean it...then your "sis" should understand. Peer pressure can get to some people. But look at it from your "sis's" point of view. I mean...i would b upset too if one of my really close friends did that. B understanding. Member...people make mistakes. asHleyx3 [ _x3_HyPa_On_SuGa_x3_'s advice column | Ask _x3_HyPa_On_SuGa_x3_ A Question ]
xOtWiXi answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 4:17 pm: Your friend who is like a sister, tell her how much she means to you and that you need her support. You made a mistake, but atleast you knew enough not to keep doing it. You should be proud that you didn't keep up with it, and your friend should be supporting you, even though you used to cut and you tried this. Try talking to her, like I said, and I'm sure it will work out. ♥ If you need to talk, just message me! [ xOtWiXi's advice column | Ask xOtWiXi A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 3:17 pm: Your friend is right to be concerned. You are damaging your brain cells kid.
She is upset because you have kind of a history of this type of self destructive behavior.She doesn't want to lose her friend.You need to stop doing things because "friends" tell you it's okay.
If you want this good friend back you need to have a talk with her. You need to assure her you won't do any such thing again.She will probably be distrustful of you for awhile but if stay away from the bad influences...I think she will come around eventually. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Crystal_Moon answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 12:17 pm: You sister is upset because she really cares about you and she know's that you are on a suicide mission and she doesn't want to watch you kill yourself. Put yourself in her place would you want to see her hurt or kill herself? The worst part about it is she feels helpless right now as your sister that you would do things like that and you may leave her life in a bad way. You need to talk to her and tell her what you are feeling a true friend and sister would understand and help you. The person that you huff with is not your friend! [ Crystal_Moon's advice column | Ask Crystal_Moon A Question ]
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