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Q: my cat constantly follows me and everytime i sit down she comes to sit on top of me.. i will get up andmove somewhere else but she still sits on me.. i push her away but 2 minutes later she comes up again.. i know its cute and everything but it just really annoys me sometimes.. does anyone elses cats do this.. how do you get them to stop
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I'm afraid you're gonna hafta shmack 'em in the head. Or do something to put the fear of the lap in her. Otherwise it won't stop, and it'll just keep getting bigger and bigger and you'll be stuck with a big fat old cat on your lap and it won't be cute at all.
Alternatively reward her somehow for staying on the floor when the lap is available. Just make the floor more appealing somehow.
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Q: There is a show on TV, called America's Most Talented Kids~ and you are allowed to enter..and I want to enter...I'm a dancer, and I'm old enough. But it's in California, and if I ended up winning the audition, I (or my parents) wouldn't have enough money for me to go...And I really really want this..What should I do?!
signed,
Help!
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Go for it. Worry about fundage after you don't get shot down. In the (let's be honest) unlikely event you're considered most worthy for your division or whatever, you can dance in the street for sponsorships and donations. It's not unheard of for a town to back it's talented citizens. Good places to try are your local council office, and local businesses.
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Q: hey me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months and everything is great until he got into some legal trouble and he has cournt on the 4th of this month. i live him with all my heart and he feels the same way that i feel for him but the thing is he said that if he gets locked up then i should break up with him....he thinks that when he gets out that it wont be the same but i no it will....my ? to u all out there is should i wait for him or no and why..i no that we will have a great furture together. he means the world to me. thatnks!!!
jazi14
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Honestly if he's in that much trouble that he's headed for the big house for any serious period of time then it's not worth it. I'd say that about any extended departure but jail is special case because it means he's a FUCKING MORON.
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Q: Well i am 13 and i huffed once. i was with my best friend (not friends anymore) and she decided it would be cool.. i thought it would be fine because i was with a "good friend". well i told my closest frined whom i consider a sister and now she is upset with me. what can i do so she wont be upset with me. (she also knows i USE to cut which upset her too) i dont want to lose my "sister" because we are really close.. what can i do?? help plz i rate
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Start by not doing it. Honestly, if people around you are upset about something you're doing then it means you are doing something wrong. Kay? Kay.
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Q: I'm 15 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Pathetic, I know. The main problem people keep telling me is that when i like a guy i tend to be shy around him. I like this one guy right now and he knows i like him thanks to one of my big mouth friends. We've talked only maybe twice before he found out i liked him but thats the only time we've ever talked. When i see him in the halls he looks at me...what does that mean? How can i get him to like me without coming on to him as a stalker?
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I know a guy who's about to turn 21 and has never had a girlfriend. He's a great guy and there's no reason for him to not snag a chick, but it's just not happening for him. Don't think you're pathetic because you're 15 without a boyfriend.
Anyway to the point! If you talked to him twice online you really haven't gotten to know him well enough to know if you like him. I suggest just talking to him some more. You don't have to flirt or come on to him, just talk. If you're interested in him, and he's interested in you, then start thinking about moving on to bigger and better things. If you're shy that's just something you have to work through, but seriously, you shouldn't like him so much to make you feel that way, if you do you're only going for looks or reputation rather than actual compatibility, and that's bad.
So in summary: Talk. And don't feel like you need to rush into a relationship just because everyone around you seems to be doing it. You'll make better decisions if you take your sweet time.
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Q: me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months and his mom found notes about us having sex and both of us are really christain and love eachother so much.. otherwise we wouldnt had done that ... and his mom n dad freaked and he was away and i was here and then i went away and i didnt see him for 10 days... he picked me up frome the airport and everything seemed ok that night.. then that morning he seemed weird... and now i feel like hes avoiding me and doesnt love me anymore... he never calls me or acts like he cares... we have almost been togather for a year and i cant imagine my life without him. hes my bestfriend and boyfriend.. and i couldnt lose both.. but now both of his parents think im a slut and dont like me. i think they are getting to him. i was soposed to hang out with him tmmr and have a talk with his parents so that they will let him come over again... but then he said he couldnt because he had a birthday party to go to. im torn. i love him so much. i dont know what to do about him. or what to do if his parents are mean to me... i know i should stand up for myself. but im scared and dont know what to do.
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Clearly your boyfriend has been brainwashed. You'll need to reprogram him by sexing him long and hard. If he resists, your relationship is doomed.
Good luck!
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Q: im in senior yaer in school and we all signed our uniform last week,it hit me that were not gonna be together anyomore,im so scared bout the future and i dont want to lose conatct wiv my mates.the way im feeling is it immature or does everyone feel like this at this time?
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Out of around 450 odd people in my last year at high school, I'm still in contact with about 10, if I'm generous and count friends-of-friends. So yeah, you should be worried, but the fact is you'll probably find new people who are cooler than any of the peeps you left behind anyways. Friendship is temporary, it sucks but it's true. Don't let it get you down too much.
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Q: My mom doesn't want me to get braces because she thinks my teeth are fine. But I think I do need them because there are like 3 teeth that aren't straight. Well we had a huge argument over this and now she's mad at me. But anyhow, I got my seperators today and they are really annoying. Do they hurt the day after? And when I get my braces will they hurt? Also, what should I do about my mom-situation?? She's not talking to me and she's very pissed that I am getting braces.
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Firstly, you're in for a world of pain. But relax, as other people have said it only really hurts to start off with, and every time you get them tightened. The thing is, it's a long sustained pressure rather than a sort of jabby pain, so you'll feel it all the time until it stops. You know what I mean.
Anyways the best you can do is take care of them and take care of your teeth and hopefully you'll get them out nice and quick and be much happier about your smile. And hopefully your mother will notice the difference too and get over the cost.
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Q: Hi, im 14/ m and I just want to know what to do about me and my girlfriend, we have been going out for a year now and were across states. We always talk on the phone and we have gotten really close. But I am just wondering if when me and my girlfriend meet, Im worried that she will push me away. And Im afarid of that, does anyone halft to say anything about this...?
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You met her online, didn't you? Are you even sure she's your actual girlfriend? Is that just something you say because you talk to her on the phone more often than you do most of your friends, and before you hang up you both say "I love you?" If you haven't met, most likely you're not actually together. Even if both of you agree that you are, the only true test is to hook up, because there is a world of difference between a chat box in MSN or a voice down the phone and the person in the flesh.
Now obviously I don't know the whole situation, and for all I know you've actually met in person before, but if so why would you be afraid of being pushed away? Or maybe you met before you "got together" and haven't seen each other since. Regardless, my advice to you is to just meet her, don't get to hung up about what will happen when you do, and hopefully it won't suck. Worst case scenario is that you're both so nervous it doesn't work out, but even then you've still got a cool phone friend and you're only 14 so there's plenty of time to find someone better.
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bio
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I consider myself uniquely qualified to give advice, because my own life is a shambles and I have never been able to attain what I desire. Or wait... maybe that makes me bad at this sort of thing... I can never tell.
Anyways, I'm pretty big into theatre and writing and getting high on life in all sorts of spectacular ways. Just ask me anything and we'll see how we go, shall we?
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Info
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Website: Gender: Male Location: Melb, Aus Occupation: Uni Bum Age: 20 Member Since: March 28, 2005 Answers: 9 Last Update: April 3, 2005 Visitors: 1800
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