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need help
hey me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months and everything is great until he got into some legal trouble and he has cournt on the 4th of this month. i live him with all my heart and he feels the same way that i feel for him but the thing is he said that if he gets locked up then i should break up with him....he thinks that when he gets out that it wont be the same but i no it will....my ? to u all out there is should i wait for him or no and why..i no that we will have a great furture together. he means the world to me. thatnks!!!
jazi14
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I think that you should kind of indefinately wait for him. If another guy comes along, then don't throw away that chance, but if no-one comes along, then stick around for him. Whatever you do, don't just wait for him because it's not fair on you and if you do get the chance to be with another great guy but don't take it, then you will grow bitter towards your current boyfriend and start resenting him for 'making' you stay with him. I think it would be best for you both if you stayed friends at the very least but you keep an eye out for other guys and then, if you're available, you two can get back together when he comes out.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Honestly if he's in that much trouble that he's headed for the big house for any serious period of time then it's not worth it. I'd say that about any extended departure but jail is special case because it means he's a FUCKING MORON.
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I think you should break up with him anyway.Unless you like criminals? He may mean the world to you but that didn't stop him getting in trouble. And, it won't in the future either.
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Okay i was with my ex boyfriend tony for about a year he was always in legal shit til he finally got locked up.. yea i wanted to wait up for him so bad but my feelings for some other guy came to me and i had to break off with Tony.. hun i think personally you shouldnt wait up.. i mean if he gets out in a short period of time then hook back up.. but other then that maybe keep in contact with him while bein in jail.. and also if he gets out and ya'll get back together or even if you stay with him and wait up..you should tell him he shouldnt get in anymore trouble if he loves you enough he would do that so you can be together always..much luv dez x0x0
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I think its the best for both of you to break up. Hes right..i dont think it will be the same because jail will change him.. plus its too much away time from each other. Also..its not fair to you..you should get over him ..i know it might be hard..and find someone else later on in the future who wont get into trouble. Thats my honest opinion..
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Its not cool to go out with criminals. You're stupid and your boyfriend is even worse. Drop him. Hes dumb.
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