im in senior yaer in school and we all signed our uniform last week,it hit me that were not gonna be together anyomore,im so scared bout the future and i dont want to lose conatct wiv my mates.the way im feeling is it immature or does everyone feel like this at this time?
thumble answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 8:13 am: Out of around 450 odd people in my last year at high school, I'm still in contact with about 10, if I'm generous and count friends-of-friends. So yeah, you should be worried, but the fact is you'll probably find new people who are cooler than any of the peeps you left behind anyways. Friendship is temporary, it sucks but it's true. Don't let it get you down too much. [ thumble's advice column | Ask thumble A Question ]
iddybitty09 answered Monday March 28 2005, 10:20 pm: im sure everyone else feels the same, but you will all probably go your own ways, and do your own thing, unless you really really keep in touch an call each other and get together. keep in touch with them, see how things are going. [ iddybitty09's advice column | Ask iddybitty09 A Question ]
Sherry answered Sunday March 27 2005, 5:47 pm: Yes everyone does feel like that. I always say how much I cant wait for high school to be over, but my sister says once your gone your so sad. Its very normal and not immature. Your scared to grow up, to face the new things in life, to be away from all your friends, its a scary thought! But you can do it and if you ever have trouble you always have your parents and family to help you out. Try to get people's numbers and new addresses....but you might lose contact with some of them. Dont focus on the bad things so much, be happy that your starting a new chapter in your life! Good luck with your future and stuff...!! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
FrEe2bMe answered Sunday March 27 2005, 4:23 pm: Hey well senior year can be a great experience, and sad one at that too for many people. You just have to learn to view the glass as half full rather than half empty. I know it's scary to think about leaving a place you'vek known all your life, people you're so accostomed to being around daily, a general schedule to abide by and all that, but you really need to look at this as a great oppurtunity for you. Sure, you have a right to be sad for leaving what you've always known and all your friends, but at the same time, change has to take place eventually and now is that time. The way you are feeling is natural. Make the best of the time you have left with everyone. Take lots of pictures. Write in a journal about the experiences. Prepare yourself for goodbyes. Be silly, do something out of the ordinary for you. Seize the day. Once it's time to go, take the experiences you have learned from your friends and your background and bring them with you into your future. They'll like kind of serve as a guide for you. You are going to be just fine..think about all the new people and memories you will make. Good luck. :) [ FrEe2bMe's advice column | Ask FrEe2bMe A Question ]
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