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Um ... help
Hi, im 14/ m and I just want to know what to do about me and my girlfriend, we have been going out for a year now and were across states. We always talk on the phone and we have gotten really close. But I am just wondering if when me and my girlfriend meet, Im worried that she will push me away. And Im afarid of that, does anyone halft to say anything about this...?
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she might a little, since long distance suddenly becoming close is a very strong thing. Just take it extremely slow, be conscious of how she is feeling by asking her.
just make sure you both are comfortable.
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break up wit dat hoe!
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I'm going through the same thing except we live in the same state and still haven't met...I need help to...anyone want to take a stab...its my b/f!!!
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I'm going through the same thing except we live in the same state and still haven't met...I need help to...anyone want to take a stab...its my b/f!!!
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Do u guyz even plan on meeting? Well if you do dont worry about it...if she doesnt like you there is nothing you can do about it...you could always find someone better!
cody
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Why would she push you away? You talk all the time so she knows what your like doesn't she? I don't think it will be a major thing, you're just nervous.It will be okay!:}
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You've never meet her. Did ya'll meet online or something? Anyways, I don't see why she would push you away, unless your like totally weird looking and she doesn't know that yet.
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If she pushes you away for any reason, then she isn't worth your time. A true girlfriend will love you for who you are not what you look like. If this girl really loves you she will not think anything less of you when she meets you... don't worry it'll all work out!
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You have been dating a girl for over a year and you are just now meeting her? Littl weird if you ask me, but if you have waited all this time to see each other, no doubt in my mind will she push you away.
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alright, if you haven't met yet then you aren't going out. Stop whining, it's not happening. Push you away? Is she strong enough? You probably shouldn't have lied about your appearance so much, but it's too late now, isn't it? Get up outta that chair and start running.
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You met her online, didn't you? Are you even sure she's your actual girlfriend? Is that just something you say because you talk to her on the phone more often than you do most of your friends, and before you hang up you both say "I love you?" If you haven't met, most likely you're not actually together. Even if both of you agree that you are, the only true test is to hook up, because there is a world of difference between a chat box in MSN or a voice down the phone and the person in the flesh.
Now obviously I don't know the whole situation, and for all I know you've actually met in person before, but if so why would you be afraid of being pushed away? Or maybe you met before you "got together" and haven't seen each other since. Regardless, my advice to you is to just meet her, don't get to hung up about what will happen when you do, and hopefully it won't suck. Worst case scenario is that you're both so nervous it doesn't work out, but even then you've still got a cool phone friend and you're only 14 so there's plenty of time to find someone better.
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I don't think you have anything to worry about! I don't think any girl would do that to a guy if it's been a year. If anything, she'd be happy to see you! Don't worry about it.
♥ Always,
Maria
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I'm sure she won't push you away. After all, if she didnt like you, why would she be spending all her time with you talking on the phone and stuff?
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look, if you get really good vibes from your girlfriend theres a good chance she cares about you. and im sure she wont PUSH you away. you should talk to her.. be like when we meet up next what are you comfortable doing?..you should also consider if you two love eachother enough to live so far away! good luck!
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Why would she push you away> Since your so close and have been together for a year...I'm pretty sure pushing you away is the last thing she'd wanna do. She'd want you close to her because it would be your first time meeting her. Are you just insecure about what she'll think about you in person? I'm sure she'll think the same (or even like you more) because shes known you so well for a year, that she wouldent just throw it away like that. Dont worry about it !
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