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Im 21 female. I feel trapped. I love my fiance and all but sometimes I feel the urge to run away. Far away. Away from everything including the only person that's ever loved or cared about me... him. I just want to be free. He says it's a hippie spell. The feeling of wanting to leave never stays away for long. What should I do?
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go to a psyciatrist. it seems like you have some sort of depression. tell this to your fiance. hope i helped!
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Take a road trip. Tell your fiance you just need to gather your thoughts for a while and that you'll be back. He should understand that you just need some time for yourself. However, if you feel once your on the open road you'll never come back then don't go. Here are the lyrics to a song that may help you:
As I was walking through a life one morning
the sun was out, the air was warm, but
Oh, I was cold
And though I must have looked half a person,
to tell the tale, in my own version,
It was only then that I felt whole
But do you believe in something beautiful?
Then get up and be it
Fighting for the smallest goal: to get a little self-contol
I know how hard you try. I see it in your eyes
But call your friends, 'cause we've forgotten what it's like to eat what's rotten
And what's eating you alive might help you to survive.
We went on as we were on a mission, latest in a Grand Tradition
And oh, what did we find?
It was Ego who was flying the banner, and me and Mia, Ann and Ana
Oh, we'd been unkind
But do you believe in something beautiful?
Then get up and be it
Fighting for the smallest goal: to get a little self-control
I see it in your eyes, I see it in your spine.
But call your friends,
'cause we've forgotten what it's like to eat what's rotten
And what's eating you alive, might help you to survive.
And even the nights, they can get better
And even the days ain't all that bad
And after a week of fighting, as more and more it seems the right thing
But do you believe in something beautiful?
Then get up and be it
Fighting for the smallest goal: to gain a little self-control
Won't anybody here just let you disappear?
Not doctors, nor your mom nor dad, but me and Mia, Ann and Ana
Know how hard you try. Don't you see it in my eyes?
Sick to death of my dependence, fighting food to find transcendence
Fighting to survive, more dead but more alive
Cigarettes and speed to live, and sleeping pills to feel forgiven
All that you contrive, and all that you're deprived
All the bourgeois social angels telling you you've got to change
Don't have any idea. They'll never see so clear.
But don't forget what it really means to hunger strike
when you don't really need to
Some are dying for a cause, but that don't make it yours.
And even the nights, they can get better.
This song is called Me and Mia it's by Ted Leo and The Pharmacists. But I still think you should take a road trip just for a couple of days to get you mind together. But remember come back to your fiance. I hope I helped1 ♥ good luck
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If you feel trapped already in a relationship then you need to follow your feelings, before it's to late. If you get married you will really be trapped and it will not last, so go do what you need to do and don't worry about what other people want, do what you want. You only have one life, so live it!
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well i had the same problem but it didn't last long i just got over it. you probobly miss some of your old life. hoped i helped
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If your having wander lust better to do it now than to wait until you a married with children.
Get it out of your system. Maybe fiance could go with you if you feel inclined to invite him.
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you need to think about what attracted you to him in the first place. think about what scares you so much. then think if you can live without him or not. if the answer is no then it's just jitters, it will pass
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Well, I think that you should try to like cuddle with him more often. Don't hang all over him like a mad woman, but just cuddle every now and then. Hope I helped! =)
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