ok heyz, this boy in my class likes me and its totally obvious. but the thing is he went out with my best friend and if he aske me out then what should i do should i say yes or no.because this other guy likes me and hes already sorta asked me out so i dont know what to do about that. its not really a date what should i do... help me soon!?!?!
karazimonki answered Friday April 1 2005, 9:50 pm: quick! before he asks you out talk to your friend and make sure she doesen't mind. If she does then find out why she might have really good reasons. If it's because she doesen't want you to take her "not boyfriend" then forget her go with the boy.
now about this other guy, say yes to the boy that already sorta asked you out. You didn't tell me about any "road blocks" so it's ok that way you can avoid any problems with your friend.
Karazi Kenzee [ karazimonki's advice column | Ask karazimonki A Question ]
gp4l answered Friday April 1 2005, 6:13 pm: A good friend will ask her friend if its ok that she talk to her ex and when i say ask i mean really talk to her about it because you never know she might still have some sort of feelings for him even if she doesnt say it off the bat PERSONALLY I WOULD NEVER GO WITH MY BEST FRIENDS EX BECAUSE I FEEL AS THOUGH THATS DISRESPECT but thats only my opinion if you really like the boy then follow your heart but dont be ignorant to other peoples feelings in the process...hope i helped [ gp4l's advice column | Ask gp4l A Question ]
aBby_BiaNca_126 answered Friday April 1 2005, 5:50 pm: well first of all if he went out with your best friend then you shouldnt go out with him period!! thats just wrong to go out with your best freinds ex. even if your best friend has no feelings for him at all anymore.. i know i would be really mad if my best friend went out with one of my exes! its just a law of friendship! soo yeah that should help you out a little bit with your answer and if you like this other guy and hes already kinda asked you out then you should see how things go with that guy instead! soo good luck with your decision or whatever and good luck with the guy that you choose to be with. just think it over before you answer the guy in your class ok.. bc best friends are so much more valuable then guys will ever be!!! [ aBby_BiaNca_126's advice column | Ask aBby_BiaNca_126 A Question ]
shake answered Friday April 1 2005, 5:50 pm: Why do we have to help you? You told us nothing about these 2 people and we really dont care so dont make an edit explaining it. Its your problem and most of us could careless. Why dont you just decide whos cooler? Idiot. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
emoxemz answered Friday April 1 2005, 5:50 pm: if you really like this guy go for it, but if you feel that your friend would feel uncomfortable with you going out with him, then you should respect her descicion. But if she says "Sure, go for it!" then you should go out with him! I hope this helps! ♥ Emma [ emoxemz's advice column | Ask emoxemz A Question ]
partygurl24 answered Friday April 1 2005, 5:46 pm: I think that you should decide which one you like better and have more feelings for. If you like the guy that asked you out who wen tout with your best friend, then ask your best friend if it's ok, and if she says yes, then you can go out with him, but if she says no then you should respect that...don't let a guy come in between your friendship. On the other hand, if you life the guy that asked you out first, then definitely go out with him. I guess it's just a matter of strong attraction. I hope I helped! [ partygurl24's advice column | Ask partygurl24 A Question ]
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