i have this guy friend who me and him want to be sex partners and still be the best of friends were like best friends but he might be going out with this girl i dont mind i just dont wanna have sex with him if he goes with this certain girl who me and the girl have been in a bad argument already over him. but i dont like him its just i like the attention from him and i dont know if he goes with the girl should i stop talkin to him or should i not care cuz in the end we still best friends.
partygurl24 answered Friday April 1 2005, 5:51 pm: You should ask him if he still goes with her. I know that you two wouldn't want to upset her if she found out about the decision that you guys made. Just think about it...how would you feel if your boyfriend had casual sex with his best friend? If you don't really like him or even love him, then don't have sex with him. You shouldn't do it just because you want attention from him. That's not a very good way to get attention. Is it really worth it? Think about it. I hope I helped! [ partygurl24's advice column | Ask partygurl24 A Question ]
LiSaxOBaBii answered Friday April 1 2005, 5:50 pm: unless you love someone as in you are head over heels and want to live your life with a guy never..ever..have sex with him..personally, i think you are selling yourself short and not giving yourself the respect you deserve. people will look down on you when you have sex with him..also, think of the things that can go wrong...sexually transmitted disease..pregnancy..unless you are ready to possibly face these life changing situations this isnt a good idea at all.if you do get pregant who's going to help? not him...at least not full time if he's not your lover but only your sex partner..in the end, please make the right descision..
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