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ok heyz, this boy in my class likes me and its totally obvious. but the thing is he went out with my best friend and if he aske me out then what should i do should i say yes or no.because this other guy likes me and hes already sorta asked me out so i dont know what to do about that. its not really a date what should i do... help me soon!?!?! (link)
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well first of all if he went out with your best friend then you shouldnt go out with him period!! thats just wrong to go out with your best freinds ex. even if your best friend has no feelings for him at all anymore.. i know i would be really mad if my best friend went out with one of my exes! its just a law of friendship! soo yeah that should help you out a little bit with your answer and if you like this other guy and hes already kinda asked you out then you should see how things go with that guy instead! soo good luck with your decision or whatever and good luck with the guy that you choose to be with. just think it over before you answer the guy in your class ok.. bc best friends are so much more valuable then guys will ever be!!!
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thanks for your imput on my note question, but I need more help. My boyfriend will spaz if I tell him i hugged him, and a hug is not JUST a hug to him, it's like making out. I told him that I did and he got all like "WTF" look and he goes, "what? am I NOT supposed to be mad?" On aol, I told him that I didn't.. I don't know what to do! I love him so much, but I think he'll leave me if I said I hugged him. please help (link)
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well.. then just dont tell him. it is just a hug! he will never know and he cant be mad over a hug anyways. if you keep changing your mind about you didnt hug him and then you did hug him then your bf is just going to keep thinking things.. especially if he thinks a hug is like making out. which is soo not true!! soo just dont tell him and leave it at that he will just forget about it.. its not like you dont hug other people or he doesnt hug other people during a day! just write him the note and tell him how you feel about being with him and stuff.. and about your 7 months ya know. But if you really think that hes going to LeaVE you over a hug that is a little ridiculous.
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I'm writing my boyfriend of 7 months a note, I really want it to have an impact on him. He's amazing and honest and wonderful and I don't know what I'd be without him, and I've expressed that alot through the letter. Last week, I screwed up majorly and that's why i'm writing this note to him.
-- Last week I went snowboarding and I met this guy, before an hour had passed he had asked me to make out with him, since I have a loving and caring boyfriend I didn't make out with him because it's wrong, right? Like always, NO never works on a guy, so naturally he kept on harassing me. Insted of making out, we agreed on hugging. I told my boyfriend this, and to some people this might seem "over protective" or "obsessed", but he got really upset with me.
Everything is wrong now, so I told him I didn't hug him, i just dont' want to lose him. I know i should have confessed and stayed that way, but you've got to see it from my point of veiw. What I'm trying to say is, is there anything more to put in the letter to make an impact on him... I also need to have advice on what to say to my boyfriend about the other guy.
Please help, I'm desparate. (link)
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well first of all he probably only got really upset because he loves you and doesnt want to lose you! just start by telling him the truth and apologizing for lying to him and just say i didnt want you to get mad because i really love you and i dont want anything to ever happen between us, and say a hug is nothing.. you give your best friends hugs even just regular friends, he wouldnt stop bothering me and i just wanted him to leave me alone. hes probably just a bit jealous and if yall just talk it out i know he will get over it! this is a silly little thing that doesnt even matter. he wanted to make out with you big deal, you said no, because you love ur boyfriend! trust me.. he will understand. but you have to tell him the truth and not keep lying about it because if you dont tell him somehow he might find out and that is much worse than you confessing a lie. and the thing about him getting mad and people thinking that is obsessive! well they are totally wrong. not obsessive at all, he just cares alot about you! soo dont worry about what other people think, and about the letter thing just think and make everything you say come from your heart and truly mean it. tell him things like how your life has been the best its even been since hes came into your life and that these 7 months have probably been the best months our of your whole life! after you talk to him even put stuff in the letter that you said to him in person and say how you screwed up majorly and that you shouldnt of even given the guy a hug! and just tell him over and over and over how much you love him and how you dont know where youd be without him! the letter thing is a really great idea.. he'll love it!
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!! (link)
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well first of all if he loves you enough then he would care enough about your feelings and would wait on you until you are ready to have sex. now sex is a big thing.. you shouldnt do it with just anyone, especially if its your first time! you will know when your ready.. trust me.. and you should wait for a person that you love and truly care about and they feel the same way about you.
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sorry if this is long, but there is this guy that i like and we used to go out. he now has a girlfriend but i dont care, i still like him. This one girl likes him, so someone asked if he would ever go out with her and he said no. but then this girl asked if he would ever go back out with me and he smiled nad said "umm .. i gotta get to class" so the next day the girl asked again and so he was like "umm .. i gotta girlfriend" so he didnt say yes or no. Do you htink i still have a chance? (link)
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Yes, i think you could still have a chance. if he just immediatley said no to that other girl then that means no he doesnt like her, but when a girl asked about you he smiled but made an excuse why he couldnt answer meaning he was probably embarrassed to say yes or just didnt want anyone to know he still liked you! even though he has a girlfriend that doesnt mean you cant talk to him or maybe even flirt with him a little bit, to kinda let him remember all the good times he had with you or something!
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I go to a private school, and my friend did also, but then she went public. i still keep in touch with her and she is still a really great friend. But now i have this other great friend in school with me and i'm not sure wiether to think she is a better friend or not. Should i replace her? is it bad that i do not feel as close to my previous best friend?
-dorinflower55 (link)
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No its not bad that you dont feel as close to ur other friend anymore. when you go from private to public school people tend to change because there is a totally different atmosphere and the people at public schools are way different. thats also great that you have found a new friend, but that doesnt mean you have to let go of your other friend. you can be both of their friends and not have to replace someone. its also fine if you think your new friend is better or maybe she isnt, it just depends on how you feel. soo keep being both of their friends and if your new friend is better thats great because im sure your other friend has new friends at her school too!
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