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last year i was friends with like EVERYONE but this year people are telling me how much i've changed and stuff. i didn't even notice it until they told me. now it seems like i'm pushing everyone away and i honestly don't mean to. it's like i can be fine talking to a person one second, then all the sudden i'll remember something they did and i'm annoyed. a couple minutes ago i was listing the people i talk to regularly and stuff, and i think i only got up to like 20 people and theres 600 students in my grade. it seems like im being a fake person than what i really am and lately i've been kind of depressed like everythings going wrong. so i guess my question really is what are some ways i can get back to my original self and maybe regain some of my friends that i used to have
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wow! thats weird!I had the exact same problem.My friends were all falling apart and they always talked about me and said i changed. I dont know how I got through it cause it hurt really bad and I kno how you feel.I dont really know what to say but just try to be thankful for what you have and just try to be yourself around your friends.If you do that for a while and their still bein that way then they arent your friends cause a friend will like you for who you are no matter what.Oh yea and remember this..people dont change.. it just takes a little while to realize who they really are! hope i helped!<3
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Think back on how you used to act. People liked your personality then. Ypu had many friend, and you still want that now. If you can manage to be like you used to be when everyone liked you, then that can happen again. Give yourself a second chance. They are probably still waiting on the old you to come back. End the wait, and just change your ways. Try to get things back to normal and how they used to be. I hope I helped!
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first to start off let me tell you that everyone goes through a time in there life in where they feel as though everthing is going wrong and believe me this wont be the last time you may experience this feeling it natural to go through this everyone does...all you can do is be yourself everyone changes some for the better and some for the worse but we all change its a part of life like it or not..all you can do is be yourself it doesnt matter what anyone else wants you to be just be you dont change for anyone but yourself...your true friends will stay by you no matter how you act(not to say they wont tell you things about yourself you might not want to hear)so to end it just be you and though things might not be going that great now eventually things will change..hope i helped!
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Well first off i dont like you. Who care if you cant talk to 600 people. 20 friends is just fine. Or maybe you just want to be popular like everyone seems to want, who cares. ITs not my prob you're standoffish and ignorant. Now go cut yourself somemore you emo.
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