I'm very shy and quiet, and I not a geek or anything but I'm not exactly popular either. There's this guy that I think might like me.. but he is really popular and outgoing, so I'm not sure if he really does like me or if it's just my imagination. Is it possible for a popular, outgoing guy to like a shy, not-so-popular girl? What are the chances? I don't know what to do because of my uncertainty.. should I flirt back or not?? Thanks in advance!! :-)
emoxemz answered Friday April 1 2005, 5:20 pm: Anything is possible! Any guy can fall for any type of girl. Me and my bf are totally diffrent! But he still loves me for who I am. Also, why don't you try asking one of those so-called popular guys, and maybe he would go out with you. If he says no, keep your hopes up, because there's always that special someone you're going to meet! ♥ Emma [ emoxemz's advice column | Ask emoxemz A Question ]
xxBrOkEnxx answered Friday April 1 2005, 4:27 pm: it doesnt matter if your popular or not .but it might matter to someone because poeple might start rummors about you. flirt back who cares mayabe if he doesnt like you he will like you...sorry if that didnt make sense [ xxBrOkEnxx's advice column | Ask xxBrOkEnxx A Question ]
advicemaster answered Friday April 1 2005, 2:23 pm: its totally ok for that to happen. once this girl i know was the same as u are and the guy was the sam. so she flirted a little in math class with him the next day he asked he out. so it is 100% possible. if he likes u then flirt if he get weird about it then he is just a jerk. Hop I helped [ advicemaster's advice column | Ask advicemaster A Question ]
karenR answered Friday April 1 2005, 8:05 am: Well sure do flirt back if you are so inclined.
Popular and outgoing doesn't mean you are attracted to the same kind of person. Every guy is diffrent so it is very possible that he likes you. Don't be intimidated by the popular tag...He's no diffrent than you! [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Teza answered Friday April 1 2005, 7:37 am: Yes its very popular! Just because you arnt popular doesnt make you any different from other girls. Flirt back! You might end up going out =]. l0l x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
xxxxxx answered Friday April 1 2005, 7:26 am: yes its very possible, there are ALWAYS those few popular guys who like the nonpopular girl, and same with girls liking guys. it happens all the time in high school. i think you should flirt back or make it known that you like him, because you DO have a chance! good luck [ xxxxxx's advice column | Ask xxxxxx A Question ]
EpAsh2010 answered Friday April 1 2005, 6:09 am: It reminds me of me!! lol..omg i had the same problem! It's very possible! you're nothing less then the other girls! And YES flirt back! he might ask you out! lol...Hope I helped ((Good Luck!))
mrs_radcliffe answered Friday April 1 2005, 4:26 am: There is alot of chance just because hes popular doesnt mean to say hes always going to go out with a popular girl. Of course you should flirt back go girl!!!
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QueenCece answered Friday April 1 2005, 3:00 am: Well, dear i think if your attractive, witty and smart you'll get him. I'm not certain, but just act like your flirting, but don't let everyone else know your interested in him. Be a sort of a mysterious flirt, but don't be weird though. Don't do that stupid girly stuff. Act like a strong, but witty girl around him. This may change yourself as well in a positive way to give you more confidence in yourself. I used to be quiet like you and people tried to push me around 'til i got to a certain age and finally realized i have to have fun with it all. Don't act like you don't have any common sense because when i started to act outgoing more people noticed me for it and i felt more happier too, but i didn't act stupid though. Make yourself stick out from all the other girls and don't try to like all the things he likes that hardly ever works. If you guys have a few things in common work with that. Be yourself but with a better self-a-steem and you'll probably get him. Don't forget try to talk to the boy, observe him at first and then you start talking to him about meaningful things. I asure you if you act this way you'll probably get a few more guys looking your way. They did with me!! Good luck and hope i helped!!! [ QueenCece's advice column | Ask QueenCece A Question ]
bluemonkeii answered Friday April 1 2005, 2:17 am: he might flirt back because i had the same problem and he flirted but he wasnt very nice to me he might lke u and he might not like you so there is a chance that he does [ bluemonkeii's advice column | Ask bluemonkeii A Question ]
ShYbl0nD3 answered Friday April 1 2005, 12:40 am: Yes it is possible.
The chances... that's depending if the guy cares about his popularity or the girl...
But yea if you like him too flirt back and see what happens!
Good Luck to ya! [ ShYbl0nD3's advice column | Ask ShYbl0nD3 A Question ]
DrAnqel answered Friday April 1 2005, 12:35 am: yeah definitely flirt with him a little bit to see if he's interested. Just be yourself, I know everyone says that but it really works, or if it doesn't work, then at least you know that you're not being fake. There are definitely pretty good chances of him liking you, not all popular guys are shallow popular girl-loving airheads. Hope I helped and good luck. -Angel [ DrAnqel's advice column | Ask DrAnqel A Question ]
feverdancer03 answered Friday April 1 2005, 12:17 am: I think you should go for it! I mean if you like him. If you dont...dont play him like that. It is possible for a popular guy to like not so popular girls! Of course. I mean many popular guys have known the popular girls because usually they are all a close group. And we all know how popular girls sometimes can be. Im not sayin they are bad cuz i have popular friends, but some can be mean and stuff, i dont know wat the ones in your school are like. However not os popular normal girls are usually the more down to earth girls that guys can have better times with. And maybe this guy is a popular guy, with a good heart and knows a good girl when he sees one, and doesnt go only by status in school. Hope i helped! And good luck! [ feverdancer03's advice column | Ask feverdancer03 A Question ]
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