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Okay well I am 13 years old. I think I am one of the fattest people out their! I weigh about 105, and I am about 5,1 ½ .. There are like 4 people who tease me, and call me fatt because they know it gets to me, and I cry all the time. About 1 week ago I tried making myself throw up. It hurts, but I don't care. I am also on a diet. So the food I eat is healthy still get's vomited out. But oh well. But my two best friends ones a guy who I like love with all my heart, and one is a good girl friend of mine are so pissed that I do this, and tell me not to listen to what people think =/ They said if I continue to do it they'll refuse to talk to me.. Urg! I wanna lose a lot of weigh for summer, and stuff and this is a pretty good way to do it but I dont know because I dont wanna lose my friends anymore =/ .. Ekkkk what to do? (link)
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oh my god are you kidding me? im 13 , about 5 '2 to 5 3' and i weigh like 110! DONT TRY AND MAKE YOURSELF THROW UP. do you know how bad your hurting your body when you do that? and about those people that tease you... say something back to them. think of something cleaver and then they'll know how it feels. and if that doesnt work ignore them. if they say something to you act like you dont even hear it. even if their tapping you on the shoulder or something just don't even look at them. and the more you cry the more tey'll know that there getting to you, and that they are hurting your feelings which will make them wanna say more. hope i helped..
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ok, i like this guy. we'll call him joe. and i have a friend who likes joe. lets call her belinda. sure. and we both like him a lot. and belinda is like one of my best friends...and i like joe A LOT. and belinda has been gettin' pressure to ask him out. and she's now sayin' she might....if its ok with me. and i want her to be happy....but i don't want him to say yes. i don't know! what do you think would be best to do? or say? PLEASE HELP! this is like a serious SOS, ASAP thing. please! thx in advance. (link)
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i was kind of in this same situation a few months ago with one of my friends and we didnt know we liked the same guy until i told her that i did and he said he liked me and might ask me out. i was telling her this the she tells me shes "madly in love with him". i didnt kno what to say. call me corny but i was truly speachless. we havent even spoke of it sense that day...its a long story but me and the guy had never really met persay but we had talked everyone once in a while and i had found out he liked me through some other people but anyways you and "belinda" need to talk about it. you also need to talk to joe and see who he likes but first talk to belinda...boys come and go but friends are there forever. if u need anything else dont hesitate to ask because i know exactly how u feel! gOoD LuCk
XoXo, katie
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ok this might be cheesy but i have no freekin idea hat to get my bf for x-mas.. he isnt into skateboarding... not like punkish stuff and like hes just kinda a prep i guess.. but im soo clueless on what to get him! i dont wanna get him somthing that he thinks is retarted!!
help! 13/female (link)
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this doesnt really have anything to do w/ your question but thats awsome that hes a skater and a prep put together...i love guys that are multi-taskful! ANYWAYS i think u should go to PACSUN or if where ever u live has a skateshop go in there and get him like a cute skater shirt that he would like, woldnt think is that punky, and that u would also think is cute. i u dont know n e thing about good skate stuff either look it up on google or somethin! hope i helped and if u need anything else...dont hesitate to w/b or i.m. me
.katie.
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here is my ? kinda stupid i know lol but i have a black dress and shoes for homecomin and i was wonderin what color nail polish i should wear? cuz i don't wanna wear black cuz that is 2 much. thanks for ne help i will rate u
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any color would work with black...i would try pink sense as we all know its very "in" right now. if your a "bright" type of person i might do like a neon bc its a good contrast with black and stuff.
HoPe i HeLpEd!
XoXo katie
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This is a REALLY stupid question but, do you know those iPod commercials where the silouette of people are dancing around...well anyway, there is this one song that they have been doin latley and it sounds really cool, BUT I DONT KNOW THE NAME!! its a kinda rock song and its really fast. Does anyone know this song??? Thanks, ill rate. (link)
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OMG! I LOVE THAT SONG TOOOO. but i think its called "walkie talkie man" by umm... i kinda forgot the name of the artist but i know it has the word "machines" in it-if that helps at all..
good tastes-
x3 katie
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okkk my friend was over and she is 12 and just started her period a day ago!.. and we went to the lake.. and she wore a pad!?!?! and it didnt leak!! why? thats wierd! and it was heavy! (link)
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ok im a bit confused here...is it a BAD thing that she started her period? bc 11-13 is the normal age to. and she wore a pad to swim? or just to...what?? please write back here...im a bit confused yet still interested :\
x3 ya
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I know this is going to be long, so sorry. But I will rate you high even if you answer!!
Well, I have a feeling that I could be a lesbian. And it's really difficult and I know that I'm going to have to wait and see if I actually am. The thing is I feel so much more comfortable around girls, and I actually have my eye on this one girl from my school. But the thought of getting married to a girl and not a guy makes me feel sick. And I just get this feeling when I'm around guys like Wow i'm so embarassed/nervous, But then I get this feeling like ohh YAY i'm so glad im here when I'm with girls. It's just everytime I like a guy, I only like him for like a week. Is there a chance I could be lesbian, or do you think it's just a phase? Please help!!
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ok well how old are u?if ur like 11-13 its prolly just a phase...u might not have the hormones that triger to guys yet and ur just used to being around girls. its not that big of a deal u might just not have matured as fats as some others....NO BIGGY!!
x3 katie
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well ok. this is gunna sound stupid at some parts! but im soo mad at my boyfriend becuz in his AIM info it says..
Jackie- Your Awesome Gurl-Very Sexy
Nina- Your a Great Girl- Very Sexy
Brad- Sexiest Mofo Alive- Very Very VERY sexy!
Rachael- (shes my best friend btw) Your Pretty Kool- Very Sexy
Heather- Your Good To Talk To- Sexy
then at the very very very bottom of his info which is like 9348 spaces down.. says
Amy- I Love You- Very Very Sexy
I told him it makes me mad when he has these chicks in his info.. like callen em sexy n stuff and he responded with a " im allowed " it made me SO mad, as u can tell im a very jealous girlfriend, i jus dunno what ta do.. Please help!! I need it.. (*i rate high*)
AMy* (link)
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well hes stupid. gaa u should always have ur gf/bf on there and not at the very bottom like he has. does he really even like u? and i mean hes obviously an a$$ hole sooo im sure u can do better! think about it
x3 katie
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Okay here's my problem!I liked this guy here and there on and off. There's no doubt that there isn't any attaction cause people see it all the time. When we go out in public, people think we are a couple. I told him how I really felt about him (though we are like best friends) he said he only likes me as a friend, and that he's sorry he can't return the same feelings. But he also like one of my friends and out of the kindness of my heart, I hook them up... but she's jux like me, and we are also cool. I'm not jealous (yet) or anything like that cause me and him still flirt the same way we do, and we are still good friends. So I dunno what to do, still like him or move on? I dunno how to feel or what to think? Any advice? Plz help! Thankz a munches! (link)
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well a lot of guys do this...yall probably have a very good relationship as friends and if yall would go out and then break up, it would probably be really awkward to be around each other afterwards. so maybe thats why...talk to him about it
...katie...
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Hey my friend told me about this place so that i would stop asking her for advice.....I went to a new school today and I made some friends and this and that, but when I first laid eyes on this boy that already had a gurlfriend and it was like love at frist site, but we talked and he seemed to like me, but when his gurl came around he wouldn't talk to her or look at her, and I don't want to make her think that Im a slut , but I don't want to hurt her feelings..andwhat do I do?? (link)
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well i mean theres nothing u can do if he already has a boyfriend...and if he likes u more than he likes his gf now than he might break up w/ her 4 u! but dont put n e pressure on it...let it go by it self
-katie
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What do women really want from a guy? What will make a girl want you so badly it hurts? (link)
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well i mean if a girl doesnt like u then she doesnt like you...but if theres a girl u like then talk/flirt with her and get to know what she likes like music n stuff and if u really want her then start doing the thiggs she likes so yall can have something to talk about! and it helps if ur hott! ;)
good luck with that woman...
-katie
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all my friends have got got boyfriends and i havent (im 14 and female), i havent even been with someone, n im scared that they will call me frigid, my mates boyfriend keeps saying 2 me that his mate will go out with me but ive neva met him n i dont wanna go out wit him either.
has any1 got any advice for me??? (link)
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i sorta have the same problem...just let it go by its self, dont force n e thing. bc then u might become to obsessed with guys (which can happen trust me!) and im sure theres someone out there 4 u! and if u see a guy u like n u kno him go flirt with him or something. or if u see a guy u dont kno and would like to then go talk to him! ya only live once ya know...
good luck
-katie
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this guy that i was friends with for a long time was having a bad day and when we were in art class i asked him what was wrong. and he was like back the *uck off and leave me alone. i was like jesus okay i was just asking i didn't mean to get you upset. that day we were making these clay things and there is this tool that has a very sharp edge on it and he held it up to my throat and he said if you don't get away from me i'll stab you with this. the look in his eyes was absolutly terrifying. that night on AIM i had asked him what was wrong and he was acting really funny. his typing had changed. he was making alot of errors and not correcting himself like he normally would. he threatened to blow up my school and then he threatened to kill me and himself. i got scared and i told my dad about it and the next day my dad called the school and my principal, my guidance counselor, and the schools D.A.R.E. officer sat down with the two of us and we were talking and he kept saying that he was joking about everything that he had said to me that night. We aren't friends anymore and i do not want to start a new school year knowing that he hates me. what should i do? should i try talking to him? or should i leave him alone? he was my best friend for a while and i miss having him as my friend (link)
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well if he really cares about u then he wouldnt and shouldnt have been playing around like that...bc thats really dangerous. maybe just check back with him and see how things or goin if u havent seen him in a while.
good luck and please rate,
-katie
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do you consider ppl with dirty blonde hair as blondes or brunettes?? cuz ppl joke that i'm blonde when i say dumb things, but i really don't think i'm blonde!!!! lol (link)
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wellll sense ur "dirty blonde" thats just what u are...but probably as u get older it'll get darker and u can really define ur hair color!
..please rate..
-katie-
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Hi. Im really skinny, im 5'5 and 96. EVERYONE calls me anerexic, een my best friends say r u anerexic and make sure that i alway eat...should i try to gain weight or just live with it? thankz i'll rate (link)
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well i mean you shouldnt just eat 24-7 or n e thing but eat healthy and stuff...and dont just NOT eat at all
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For some reason when ever I ask a question, the question never appears under the give advice secttion. This one may not either. Does anyone know why? And could anyone help me with a question I have? (link)
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sometimes the questions get deleted...like bc its goes through the head people and what not. like if other people always put the saem question on there then i think theyll delete it. but if u need advice on somethin just ask mmeeee! hot_tamalee_1218
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ok. this is kinda confusing. but the (semi) short version is:
i liked this kid and he didnt like me bak so i made up this grl "jennie" on AIM and pretnded she was 1 of my frends. and one day we were talking about "me" (this kid and "jennie" were) and he sed i was fat and ugly. so a week after that i told him it was me and he got all pissed and so he sed hed get mebak or w/e and i fugured i deserved it. but he sed he knew alredi it was me b4 i told him-- but i dont believe him. ne way... so he was mada t me for a while, and he didnt talk to me and then wen he did, all he did was ask me for my frends' s/ns. and i gave them to him figureing he deserved them. but then he started calling them and meeting them at the mall 4 movies and (i still liked him by the way) i kept wondering wut was rong w/ me that he didnt like me like that. this kid has been my neighbor 4 about four yrs now and not once have i been to the movies w/ him. and like, he knew i liked him and yet, he still kept talk in bou thow much he LOVED my frends. ok im almost done. so yesterday, i told him i had a boyfrend i met online and uk wut he sed? after i told him i was kidding he sed he didnt believe me anyways cuz i cudnt get a b/f if i tried. idk if he was tryin to be funny, (cuz hes like that sumtimes) but i didnt find it funny. and so after that, i asked him not 2 tell ne 1 bout my "boyfrend"; so naturally, he goes in his house, IMs it 2 everi 1 on his buddylist and calls and tells his best frend. i had had enough by this point. so i ran inside and stayed there. and ignored him the restof the day. and he has the nerve to lie to me and tell me that no 1 knos... haha. rite. cuz didnt i jsut happen to talk to the kid he was on the fone with, and it turns out that he is no one, cuz he happend to kno all of what i told the kid not to tell. but today i started to tell him how much hes hurt me and he was hardly listin to me he just was tellin me random stuff, so i gave up. i didnt kno wut to do. i was PISSED. i wen in the house and cried pitifully. and idk wut to do now. i rly wanna tell him how much he hurt me and gr... lol im not sure he cares. wut if he duznt? wut shud i do? and all he talks about is my frends and i m like hey! wut abou tme! i feel so out-of -the- picture even tho im the closest to him. HELP!
~rly desperately confused and agrivated
(Lizzie)
ps im 13 and hes 14 if that helps ne
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omg what a freaking butt whole seriously...you need to GET OVER HIM and soon. if he had the nerve to say that about you and stuff and then hes not worth n e thing. BUT you need to be like ok listen up here buddy... u really hurt my feelings and if he still doesnt care just dont EVEN bother with him... "leave him be in his fake plastic trees" and hopefully if n e of ur others friends go out with him u can tell um that hes not worth it.
good luck *please rate*
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Me and this guy are really good friends and we have been talking for about 3 months now.Well...I like him and he likes me because he told me before and he always protects me and stuff.Well...I've been waiting a VERY long time for him to ask me out.I want him to SO BAD that its driving me CRAZY!!!Do yall have any ideas on how to drop hints to him on asking me?Thanx! (link)
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just kinda be more flirting. like ask him if he likes anyone and stuff like that. GOOD LUCK bc i know thats an EXTREAMLY hard position to be in!
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know a good site where it doesnt cost anything and u can like put ur pictures on there? (link)
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picturetrail.com
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ok well im a guy that no girls like cuz i am ugly. all the girls around where i live r shallow. none of them like boys that have freckles, redhair, and very very lite skin. what should i think of myself? as an ugly person or a cute person juss ppl cant see that? (link)
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aww dont think that low of urself... do something that will start making u feel good like that u want to do if u feel like u look bad like go shopping and get some new clothes or something and one u look good u feel good and that really shows...im almost 13 and now that im getting older and i started to dress cute n stuff guys like me and i feel GREAT so yeah...
good luck with the ladies...
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