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ok, i like this guy. we'll call him joe. and i have a friend who likes joe. lets call her belinda. sure. and we both like him a lot. and belinda is like one of my best friends...and i like joe A LOT. and belinda has been gettin' pressure to ask him out. and she's now sayin' she might....if its ok with me. and i want her to be happy....but i don't want him to say yes. i don't know! what do you think would be best to do? or say? PLEASE HELP! this is like a serious SOS, ASAP thing. please! thx in advance.
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hey the same thing has happened to me but i was in "belinda's" place instead. well i asked him out and he said yes and the friendship that i had with my friend has never been the same. i dont know if we just drifted apart or what?, but i do know that asking him out was deffinately part of it. so if you really dont want to loose your friendship with this girl then talk to her and try to tell her exactly how you feel...make sure you reach and understanding that you both feel is good before either of you do anything with "joe".
-:kate:- hope it helps!
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You should deffinitly tell your friend the feelings you have for this guy. If shes a great friend she will not ask him out after you talk to her, and neither of you would go out with him to make things fair. Good Luck!
~Brina~
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tell ehr that you like the same guy too.. if shes a true friend... u both'll back off *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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i was kind of in this same situation a few months ago with one of my friends and we didnt know we liked the same guy until i told her that i did and he said he liked me and might ask me out. i was telling her this the she tells me shes "madly in love with him". i didnt kno what to say. call me corny but i was truly speachless. we havent even spoke of it sense that day...its a long story but me and the guy had never really met persay but we had talked everyone once in a while and i had found out he liked me through some other people but anyways you and "belinda" need to talk about it. you also need to talk to joe and see who he likes but first talk to belinda...boys come and go but friends are there forever. if u need anything else dont hesitate to ask because i know exactly how u feel! gOoD LuCk
XoXo, katie
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if you and your friend are trying to go after the same guy it will mess up yalls friendship really bad...so just talk to eachother and see what would be the best thing to do considering the both of you like this guy...i hope i helped-Nikki
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just talk to belinda and find out who likes him MORE.
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u should let her do it if ur a good friend, and just think if he says no it will give u a chance, if he says yes wait until they break up then ask him!!!
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Well I think that you should talk to joe and see what he thinks about the whole thing and who he likes.I dont think that you and Belinda should get in an argument over him becuause he might not like either of you so thats why you should talk to him. And if he likes Belinda then you should move on and deal with it and support them both because someday you might want Belinda to support you and joe.
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read this you cannot let her read y!!!i was in the same situtaion last year if he says yes yall are gonna hate each other 4 the rest of the year ive been this same situtation i was you last year your gonna be jealous and joe's bff will hit on your bff and he'll think ur bff is flirting with joes bff(o yea the guy we liked last years name was joe) and he'll get jealous!!! yall will call each other bad names i wanted my bff to be happy but we were mad at each other it is 4 her good 4 it not to let it happen you have to talk to her!!!
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i dunno. this is a tough one. if she knows you like him then i don't think she should ask him out in the first place. talk to your friend about it. tell her how much u like him. i hope i helped!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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dont be mad at your friend, let her what she wants to do, theres plenty of other guys out there, plus, friendship is way better than having a bf that could just leave you within days.. friends are always there for you no matter what, hopefully! lol, well hope you make a right decision. x0
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