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Q: (im a 14 female) I have this guy friend, and he is giving me mixed signals. He tells my friends he likes me and then he makes a huge deal of telling me that we are just friends. I really like this guy a lot. now he's telling my friends that he doesnt like me. I'm so confused! every other day he changes his mind weather he likes me or not! I WANT HIM TO LIKE ME SO BAD! Like sometimes he's really sweet and flirty and other times he's sort of mean to me though which adds even MORE mixed signals. And one time i told him i liked him liked him and he told my friend that he didn't like me that way. BUT like a month later he was acting all flirty and he was like "if i asked you out what would you say?"

Do u think he likes me? Is there anyway i could make him like me even more than he already does? Is there anyway that would help him ask me out if he does like me? HELP!

give him a big kiss and tell him yes that you would go out with him if he asked you.

Q: Hey Ever1,
Our school will be having a sweethearts dance in Feb. And the girls ask out the guys. Well, there's this guy I like...and we had our troubled times, but I think he's starting to like me again! So, do any of you know how I should ask him to the dance? I wanna do something sweet for him since he's a sweet guy. Any tips?
~Missc~

write him a letter! and take him otu on a date and have him take youi to a movie and just ask him ythenb.

Q: Ok, well there is this guy that I like and he absolutely adores me. He asked me out but I said no, maybe sometime soon. I like him, I really do. But see, I don't know if we went out that it would work out. He likes to play video games and talks about them a lot. I could care less half of the time but I listen and try to be interested in what he is saying because I care if that makes sense. And well, I'm the kind of girl who really likes to cuddle and kiss and sometimes other things. I don't have sex or oral sex.. just other things if you catch my drift. I mean I can live without those things if I have to. So my question is, should I go out with this guy? What are your blunt opinions on if you think it'd work out for us or not? Thanks

I think that you should try goin out with him and see how it works. If your not ok with having sex or or oral sex then i dont think you should force youself to do it. If hes wanting you to really bad then he might not be the one for you. The one for you isnt gonna make you do anything that you dont wanna do especcially something like that. I think it can work out and talk to him about beinbg intrested in some other things besides video games.

Q: ok, i like this guy. we'll call him joe. and i have a friend who likes joe. lets call her belinda. sure. and we both like him a lot. and belinda is like one of my best friends...and i like joe A LOT. and belinda has been gettin' pressure to ask him out. and she's now sayin' she might....if its ok with me. and i want her to be happy....but i don't want him to say yes. i don't know! what do you think would be best to do? or say? PLEASE HELP! this is like a serious SOS, ASAP thing. please! thx in advance.

Well I think that you should talk to joe and see what he thinks about the whole thing and who he likes.I dont think that you and Belinda should get in an argument over him becuause he might not like either of you so thats why you should talk to him. And if he likes Belinda then you should move on and deal with it and support them both because someday you might want Belinda to support you and joe.