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friends or more?


Question Posted Wednesday December 22 2004, 10:09 pm

(im a 14 female) I have this guy friend, and he is giving me mixed signals. He tells my friends he likes me and then he makes a huge deal of telling me that we are just friends. I really like this guy a lot. now he's telling my friends that he doesnt like me. I'm so confused! every other day he changes his mind weather he likes me or not! I WANT HIM TO LIKE ME SO BAD! Like sometimes he's really sweet and flirty and other times he's sort of mean to me though which adds even MORE mixed signals. And one time i told him i liked him liked him and he told my friend that he didn't like me that way. BUT like a month later he was acting all flirty and he was like "if i asked you out what would you say?"

Do u think he likes me? Is there anyway i could make him like me even more than he already does? Is there anyway that would help him ask me out if he does like me? HELP!


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LilAshBaby14 answered Monday December 27 2004, 12:29 am:
give him a big kiss and tell him yes that you would go out with him if he asked you.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 6:17 pm:
i think this guy is a little boy and a waste of your time hun.. i know you dont wanna hear that but if he keeps changing his mind bout how he looks at you then thats jus some childish stuff i dont know if he like you or not but if he doin that he jus playin games and wit your head..dont let hiim fliting wit you get you all geeked over him liken you.. cause you know that hell jus make you look dumb and get you upset.. hope i helped and wasnt bein too rude i was jus bein real wit you boo...~*DEZ*~

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tish answered Thursday December 23 2004, 2:51 pm:
well i think that he likes you you could always talk to him and tell him how you feel but dont let him bring you down carry on with your life

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AdInA answered Thursday December 23 2004, 1:07 am:
he probably does like you, but is just afraid of rejection. but you said you told him you liked him, and he told your friends he didn't like you. maybe he is just afraid to have a relationship! or maybe he just keeps changing his mind/is into another girl! guys are weird.. they seem to change their mind like every five seconds! if he likes you and is willing to go out with you, he will ask you out.

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LilPrincezzMari13 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 12:51 am:
ok, i've had a lot of friends in this sort of situationand i've got some advice that worked 4 them.only one warning:there were like 2 of them who it REALLY didnt work and...no time,but just make sure to only do this if you're sure you should cuz it depends on the guy.okay, just tell him, to his face, that you like him and you want to know if he likes you too, seriously and that you're not playing games.tell him how you feel about his mixed signals ad to tell you the truth.tell him that if he doesnt like you , to stop wasting your time and to not kid around anymore.i know, it's just a little risky, what if he gets mad, what if he really doesnt like you, what if what if you guys stop talking...just do this if you're seriously that desperate to know.who knows? you might even end up doing the REALLY RIGHT THING, this might be what you needed to do to get him to tell the truth.oh, and if he already likes you,the only way to get him to like you more is to keep...being you! if not, no one can force him to.hope it works out!P.S. tell me how it goes!

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Shortie8959 answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 10:25 pm:
Tell him what you know. Tell him how you know what's he's telling your friends and that you're confused! Just talk to him about it and find the answers. If you don't want to be that direct, and you just want to know if he likes you, say something like, "My one friend thinks we'd be so cute together, what do you think?" If he says no, just leave it at that, but if he says yes, then there ya go. If you want him to like you more, just be yourself, you sound like a great person! And if nothing works out (I hope they do!), don't worry, you'll find that someone! Good luck! Anymore questions, leave em'! Good luck!
Happy Holidays!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~

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