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yes, another love life questions for ya'll
Ok, well there is this guy that I like and he absolutely adores me. He asked me out but I said no, maybe sometime soon. I like him, I really do. But see, I don't know if we went out that it would work out. He likes to play video games and talks about them a lot. I could care less half of the time but I listen and try to be interested in what he is saying because I care if that makes sense. And well, I'm the kind of girl who really likes to cuddle and kiss and sometimes other things. I don't have sex or oral sex.. just other things if you catch my drift. I mean I can live without those things if I have to. So my question is, should I go out with this guy? What are your blunt opinions on if you think it'd work out for us or not? Thanks
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I think that you should try goin out with him and see how it works. If your not ok with having sex or or oral sex then i dont think you should force youself to do it. If hes wanting you to really bad then he might not be the one for you. The one for you isnt gonna make you do anything that you dont wanna do especcially something like that. I think it can work out and talk to him about beinbg intrested in some other things besides video games.
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well i guess if you guyz really wanta have it work out it could. just talk to him and tell him how you feel or just go straight to the point and say SHUT UP ABOUT VIDEO GAMES but hey thats jus meh. but if you only like him for his physical features then i wouldn't.
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Use him.
The perfect soulution. You don't think you two would last because of his personality, so that leaves the physical relations open.
The better option would be to suck it up and have sex so you can pussy whip him and tell him not to talk about video games anymore.
but thats just me
-Emily
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i think it could work. i mean, you'd have to help it a little. but if you like each other, i don't see why not. and maybe when your talking, find out what his other interests are, and you might like them too. and as far as PDA goes, as the relationship develops, he might get more into that idea. hope i helped!
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if you are ever questioning whether or not to go out with a guy or not, just do it. the best relationships are the ones you dont think will work out. love is so surpring. he just might be the one thing you never knew you were looking for.
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Well.. yea. I HATE IT WHEN THEY SURROUND THEIRSELVES AROUND VIDEO GAMES.. i know b/c i have cousins and guy friends who are ALL about it, even looking for codes. But i'm sure that's not all that hes about. You should go out with him and see how it goes.. if he's a good boyfriend then you're a lucky gal. break if off if you're not happy, who knows? if he knows you're serious about a relationship, hell either try to get better.. or it will make a turn for the worse and he really isnt for ya at all hope i helped. good luck
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if you like him that much, then i think that you should date him. my boyfriend is really into video games and sports, and i could care less but we are good everywhere else. you know? ask him if it's not too late and tell him how you feel. you don't want it to be a sex-revolved relationship. good luck and i hope i helped!
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All I really have to say is try to put the guy on another subject.And yes you should go out with him because you said he'd liked you. So my advice for you is just go out with him and put him on whole different subject. And if you wanna make out then mention that to him. 'Cause he will probably understand.:hope i helped:visit my inbox or page:THE ONLY "GRAPE":
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You should definitely give this guy a chance and go out with him. All guys babble about things that girls could care less of but that's life. It's great that you care about things but then you don't sometimes when he talks on and on. Maybe he'll act different when you start a relationship with him? Hang around him more and just get to know him better! Maybe you could tell him how you feel about everything? He probably doesn't know that his babbling does effect you and that he'll stop once you tell him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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I still think you should give him a chance. You don't really know what he's like when he's alone with you doing nothing. My boyfriend is the SAME way. All he talks about is video games, soccer, skateboarding, paint balling, and all that crap guys normally talk about. But when we're alone together, he's so sweet. We cuddle and kiss and things like that and you wouldn't really think that he's like that just by talking to him. I think you should go out with him but don't expect for it to be like that right off the bat. Maybe after a couple of weeks of dating, he'll get more comfortable with you and will want to cuddle more and spend time with you to do the cute, sentimental things like cuddling. He expresses his intrests with you, so why not express your interests with him? You never know but you two could end up having a great relationship, you just have to give it a try. Hope this helped.
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just try hanging out with him one day. just maybe go on a date with him and see how it would all work out that day. if you like the way the day turns out then give it a shot. if not just tell him you would just prefer to have a freindship with him and not a relationship with him. this way you have already tried to see what it would be like and it wouldnt hurt him as bad as if you were to say yes and then break his heart when he got to emotionally attatched to you.
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You have to take chances and im sure if you guys went out he would take more time for you rather then before when you guys werent a item I would give him a chance just let him know that you dont always understand video game talk and your not very interested in that sort of stuff.. Kinda like he isnt into girl stuff half the time. I think it would work out if you put effort towards it!! good luck hun! hAPPY hOLIDAYS! tRIX
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give the guy a chance, you never know play a game with him you'll have fun, my bf was the same way and i NEVER played video games like ever! but now since i gave him a chance, weve been together for over a year now =) see.. you never know, that dorky kid in the front row could be your soul mate ;D hehe, well give him a chance, it cant hurt. see what else he likes besides video games, tell him about yourself, i'm sure you guys have something in common! x0 good luck!
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