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my exbf just broke up with me and now im looking for people. well i didnt know this till yesterday but i met his cousin and his cousin was flirting with me and i was flirting back. his cousin even knew i was his exgf but he still flirted but i didnt know so i didnt think i was doing something wrong. now i feel like im doing something wrong! can i go out with my ex's cousin?!?! im so confused and his cousin seems intrested in me and he knows a couple things i never told any1 bfore. is it right to go out with him? i really like him and i know he likes me so please tell me or should we just stay friends? i think my exbf would get mad but he broke up with me. kk
thnx
signed,
CONFUSED (link)
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if he broke up with you, then ANYONE is fair game, plus life is way too short to not be with someone you like just b/c you think its wrong. i was in love with the love of my life 2 years ago, but i wouldnt date him b/c he was my friends ex boyfriend. his name was steve. well steve was in love with me i was in love with him but i kept saying, i cant be with you b/c its wrong, i feel bad. well march 1st of last year steve died. i have to live with that for the rest of my life, all the "i wish", or "what if"'s run through my head every day. my whole point is, never deny yourself or anyone else the chance to love. life is too short, just go with it. hope that helped.
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For as long as I can remember, my aunt has always been an alcoholic. My family has stopped being in contact with her because she has caused many problems with my family in the past. There are days she will drink so much she'll pass out and other days she'll become extreamly violent. I never see her anymore and yet I'm worried about her. I'm more so worried about my 10 year old cousin (her daughter). My aunt has been on and off with drinking. Before I was born it was really bad. My mother told me that it was because she was in love with this guy but he was Chinese and his parent's didn't want him to marry a woman of another race so they had to end their relationship. That was nearly 30 years ago. I fear for my aunt. Although I do not have a close relationship with her, let alone any relationship with her at all, regardless she is family and I'm scared she is going to take things too far and hurt herself or someone else. I need to find her help. My mother and my other aunt have been trying to find places to take her but every place said that they needed more information about her problems. We really don't know at all why she is the way that she is. Her husband isn't any help at all. He just sits his fat ass on the couch with a beer in one hand and the TV remote in the other. Their house is a terrible mess and a person living on the streets would be too disgusted to even live there. They have a 10 almost 11 year old daughter and they do take care of her, and as a matter of fact, she's a spoiled brat. I'm still worried because the environment she is living in is in no way healthy for her. I don't know what to do. My family doesn't know what to do. I need to find her help but we can't find any place for her. Please, please, help. I apologize for the length of this question. (link)
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my father is the same way. your question really hit home for me. IM me on iblinknimu and we can talk.
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I really like this one guy and so does one of my friends. But I know I like him more than her but she doesn't belive me. But I just found out today who really likes and that he likes me more than my friend. I really feel like bragging to my friend cuz she does it all the time but I know I shouldn't so how do I not? (link)
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show her, dont tell her. actions speak louder then words.
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Ok, well there is this guy that I like and he absolutely adores me. He asked me out but I said no, maybe sometime soon. I like him, I really do. But see, I don't know if we went out that it would work out. He likes to play video games and talks about them a lot. I could care less half of the time but I listen and try to be interested in what he is saying because I care if that makes sense. And well, I'm the kind of girl who really likes to cuddle and kiss and sometimes other things. I don't have sex or oral sex.. just other things if you catch my drift. I mean I can live without those things if I have to. So my question is, should I go out with this guy? What are your blunt opinions on if you think it'd work out for us or not? Thanks (link)
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if you are ever questioning whether or not to go out with a guy or not, just do it. the best relationships are the ones you dont think will work out. love is so surpring. he just might be the one thing you never knew you were looking for.
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I have a problem: I am a lonely introvert, and I try to get out and make friends. But my problems is that most people only want to talk about superficial things such as house, car, kids, job, and shopping. While I know those are what most people care about, these topics bore me to death. I like deeper conversations about philosophy or literature. I don't mean to be conceited, but it's hard to find smart people to talk to. Why can't I find anyone on my level? Should I dumb myself down to fit in? Any comments are appreiciated. Thank you! (link)
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never ever lower yourself. it sounds corny, but seriously dont. there are people out there just like you, and you will find them. just be patient. go online, go to a library. go to places you havent been and you will find people you fit in with.
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