my exbf just broke up with me and now im looking for people. well i didnt know this till yesterday but i met his cousin and his cousin was flirting with me and i was flirting back. his cousin even knew i was his exgf but he still flirted but i didnt know so i didnt think i was doing something wrong. now i feel like im doing something wrong! can i go out with my ex's cousin?!?! im so confused and his cousin seems intrested in me and he knows a couple things i never told any1 bfore. is it right to go out with him? i really like him and i know he likes me so please tell me or should we just stay friends? i think my exbf would get mad but he broke up with me. kk
BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 10:14 pm: do whatever you want to do, i know how that can be like kind of ackward and weird having like it be ure ex's cousin but who cares , its notlike it as his brother or anything, im think ure fine just watch yourself and stuff but i pretty sure your ok! [ BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS's advice column | Ask BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS A Question ]
*ashlee* answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 2:22 pm: yea, do watever the hell you want. its not wrong that you two like eachother. ur ex broke up with you, and you have every right to move on, and you need to. who knew it was his cousin? big deal [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
Eddi13E answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 2:14 pm: hahah i say go out with the hot sexy beast and make ur ex jealous, that could be fun! ;-)lol byeeeeeeeee! [ Eddi13E's advice column | Ask Eddi13E A Question ]
GatorFanNo54 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:25 pm: Yes,you can go out with your ex bf's cousin because your ex bf MADE the decision of breaking up with you. So this is a situation where you can go either way. To just be friends,or start a love life togeather. The decision is just up to you though. And if he is mad at you then thats just the way the cookie crumbles. [ GatorFanNo54's advice column | Ask GatorFanNo54 A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:05 pm: Look who you wanna be with is up to you. If your ex left you or even if he didn't, you are no longer together so what you decide to do with your love life is none of his business. If you like his cousin and want to be with him then go ahead. Just make sure you and your new guy talk and are aware that there might be some drama at the beginning of the relationship due to the fact that he is your exs cousin. If you are willing to handle it and so is he then go ahead and be with him. Its your life. As long as you are happy is all that matters. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
sexygurl69 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:00 pm: i think it doesnt matter if he is your ex's cousin you still can go out with who you want to.Your ex can not tell you not to date his cousin cause he cant control you. There is nothing wrong with it. Do what ever you want gurl cause your ex broke up with you so he shouldn't care who you date. [ sexygurl69's advice column | Ask sexygurl69 A Question ]
OooSooSexyy3 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:04 am: don`t worry about your ex
if he dumped you then there should be no harm done
besides if you like his cousin you have a right to go out with him . . and that would be totally different if you didn't like him and were just trying to get ur ex mad. [ OooSooSexyy3's advice column | Ask OooSooSexyy3 A Question ]
searooster82 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 10:40 am: Go ahead and go out with him. Everyon is fair game because you're single. So what, it happens to be you ex's cousin. It doens't matter. If you want to go out with him. Go for it. [ searooster82's advice column | Ask searooster82 A Question ]
sPicYx0hoTt answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 10:19 am: If your boyfriend just broke up with you, its way to early to start a new relationship. Esp. with his cousin!! I think you should wait a while and see how things go and if the flirting continues , and your still atleast talking to your x ask him if he would care. But he is the one who broke up with you so even if he says no its really your decision.
Hope I helped !!
Made4Monkeez answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 9:24 am: Well if his cuz broke up whith you you can date anyone you chose. And if he jets mad tell him that he cant decide who you go out with. Also if you dont think it is right then you might not wont to go out with this guy. But you might just think its wrong because he is your ex's cuz. First you need to find out what you think is happening then make your move!
~Made4monkeez [ Made4Monkeez's advice column | Ask Made4Monkeez A Question ]
JustAskDeeg answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 8:42 am: if he broke up with you, then ANYONE is fair game, plus life is way too short to not be with someone you like just b/c you think its wrong. i was in love with the love of my life 2 years ago, but i wouldnt date him b/c he was my friends ex boyfriend. his name was steve. well steve was in love with me i was in love with him but i kept saying, i cant be with you b/c its wrong, i feel bad. well march 1st of last year steve died. i have to live with that for the rest of my life, all the "i wish", or "what if"'s run through my head every day. my whole point is, never deny yourself or anyone else the chance to love. life is too short, just go with it. hope that helped. [ JustAskDeeg's advice column | Ask JustAskDeeg A Question ]
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