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my name is kate.. i love to drive even though im illeagal hehe! my favorite thing to do is watch really old movies like clueless and shes all that and laugh my booty off with friends

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im a 13/f n my bestfriend is 13/m i like him alot and we went to the movies yesterday with 2 other friends a boy and a girl. i was sitting inbetween the girl and my best friend n all during the movie he kept sorta kicking me and rubbing his leg against my leg. i thought it was cute. then he didnt mean to well at least i dont think he meant to, but he moved his hand like in between the seat and he touched my theigh a couple of times. i like him alot but do you think he was making moves on me? well he knows i like him but im sort of clueless right now!! thank you

no it wasnt an accident! if you really do like him tell him how you feel and maybe ull have a bf soon! good luck! -:kate:-

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my g/f tld me 2day tht she felt different abt wen we made out n tht she didnt luv me as much as she used to..n thn i tld her how i felt n she said((no joke))o well i luv u but not as much as i used to...wat shuld i do?

tell her she is a bitch -:kate:-

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My boyfriend is very experienced sexually. He's 16 and I'm 15. We've been going out for a while now but have broken up a couple times before. The most important thing is though, is that we love eachother to death. He wants to go farther than what I'm comfortable with right now. I've always been a good girl and haven't done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. He wants to finger me, which I know deep down I am not ready for. How do I tell him this without sounding like a scared little girl or sounding dumb? All my friends have done these things with guys, but I do not want to give into pressure like that.

if ur not ready say NO and if he is like "what bitch?" then dumb his perv ass... good luck! lol but no really say no if youre not comfortable and if he doent respect you enough then he is not good enough for you... just because you dont have sex doesnt mean you are a "good girl" there are lots of other things that are just as good with out gettin pregnant! -:kate:-

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I was wondering if it's possible to get pregnant from swallowing...my boyfriend and I have been messing around so this question came up. Thanks.

damn kid! wake up in ur sex ed class! you can only get pregnant through actual SEX ! lol you make me laugh -:kate:-

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Im 13 years old and I just started jr. high. I'm in the 7th grade. The problem is that I have no friends and I don't know how to make any. I've tried to be social, but no one seems to want to talk to me. I'm in all honors classes, and the girls in the honors classes are all rich and white and popular. I don't really like them anyway, but i have every class with them. Thankfully, i have 1 really good friend I met this year. She dosnt have friends, either. How can I make friends? I want to be the popular girl i was in elementary.

first of all dont asume that being popular is all it is made out to be. most of the people who are "popular" dont know what to do with them selves when they get to high school except to drink and have sex and be druggies.
secondly you have to be confident in yourself before anyone will notice you. for example there is this one girl in my bio class and she is pretty but she is always wearing blah clothes and never changes the pace.. well one day a couple of months ago she walked into class wearing something completely different and she looked amazing because you could tell she FELT amazing..
..the key to making good friends is being yourself.. LOL i sound like a phyciatrist! LOL.. but really..
-:kate:- hope it helps ;)

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ok, i like this guy. we'll call him joe. and i have a friend who likes joe. lets call her belinda. sure. and we both like him a lot. and belinda is like one of my best friends...and i like joe A LOT. and belinda has been gettin' pressure to ask him out. and she's now sayin' she might....if its ok with me. and i want her to be happy....but i don't want him to say yes. i don't know! what do you think would be best to do? or say? PLEASE HELP! this is like a serious SOS, ASAP thing. please! thx in advance.

hey the same thing has happened to me but i was in "belinda's" place instead. well i asked him out and he said yes and the friendship that i had with my friend has never been the same. i dont know if we just drifted apart or what?, but i do know that asking him out was deffinately part of it. so if you really dont want to loose your friendship with this girl then talk to her and try to tell her exactly how you feel...make sure you reach and understanding that you both feel is good before either of you do anything with "joe".
-:kate:- hope it helps!

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