|
humorist-workshop
why
Hey my friend told me about this place so that i would stop asking her for advice.....I went to a new school today and I made some friends and this and that, but when I first laid eyes on this boy that already had a gurlfriend and it was like love at frist site, but we talked and he seemed to like me, but when his gurl came around he wouldn't talk to her or look at her, and I don't want to make her think that Im a slut , but I don't want to hurt her feelings..andwhat do I do??
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships?
i would just leave them alone and if they break up then move in but dont rush into a relationship with him become good friends first
]
Well first off.. why would she call you a slut? no one can change the way you feel about him. I wouldnt go around tho telling TONS of people you like him cause his girlfriend might get pissed and make your life at your new school horrible. Talk to the guy, be his friend...maybe YOU can tell HIM that you like him..but do it when you know you can trust him completely. Make sure tho you do it all yourself. Dont depend on other people to do it. It shows that your more interested and that you've got the guts to speak your mind. Good luck! -aMaNdA <3*
]
Heyhey Hun,
I had the same probably as you before. The best advice I can give is be friends with him first. Don't try to make him break up with his girlfriend...by the sounds of it, it doesn sound like their going to last to much longer. So hopefully after they break up he may ask you out or you could ask him.
<3 xox Britt
]
Love at frist site!?!?!
OMG! That is lyke so lyke amazing.
(I hope the smarter individuals understand the humor of that. xD)
]
Just so there isnt complete tragedy, id say wait it out. Keep talking to him and become closer friends. Hang out... do whatever. If he likes you over her he'll break up with her. And your not a slut unless you sleep around... thats a slut. So if she is calling you a slut, she doesnt know the definition of one. And another thing if hes more important than what she thinx than ignore her and go out with him. You cant help the fact your in love. Just dont encourage this kid to be breaking up with her like dont keep pushing him b/c he might be confused right now.
good luck sweetie
]
well i mean theres nothing u can do if he already has a boyfriend...and if he likes u more than he likes his gf now than he might break up w/ her 4 u! but dont put n e pressure on it...let it go by it self
-katie
]
his girlfriend shouldnt think yur a slut by u just talkin to him..u should sit down with him and ask him if he likes u or if hes serious with his girlfriend..then let the decision be up to him so that way u wouldnt be hurtin her feelings because he'd be tha one to make the decision... * gOod luck !
]
I know what you are going throu ive been there before. Try and make friends with her or least make peace or call it truse. i know that you don't want her to call you a slut but if you were then you wouldn't be worried about someone calling you that! my advise is let him come to you which you are doing and if he comes to you and she still is pissed then say "hey im sorry he left you but that doesn't mean just cuz he picked me means you have to get mad... I'm sorry and i want to be friends please dont be mad.... BE GLAD!!" LOL don't have to say it like that... im just tring to make the matter in a somewhat humor way... not your problem but the way of me saying it as if i was saying it to her!! now as i said let him come to you and let it all out... if you need more help inbox me!! Id really like to hear from you and to know wether or not my advise has helped.
Good luck!!
*BANDIE*
]
Sweety,there's no such thing as love at first sight. There's lust at first sight. Anyway,if he already has a girl and he's flirting with you,then what makes you think if you went out with him,that he wouldn't pull that shit on you?
]
Well you will have to let her opinion go. No matter what someone will think badly of you, even if you are a very nice person. So, maybe just confront his girl and try to come of like you wanna be her friend, tell her you mean no harm with her boy or she will feel like she might wanna be a bitch
]
Talk to him about it. Let him know that you notice how he wasn't paying any attention to heR the otheR day and that you hope it didn't have anything to do with you. Make it cleaR to him that you don't want to come between him and his cuRRent giRlfRiend, and youR intentions aRe good. Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! =D
]
More Questions: |