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how do i tell?


Question Posted Saturday August 14 2004, 1:46 am

this question is for my friend:

my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder.


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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 1:13 am:
well maybe he is just trying to be polite around you

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LostCanadian23 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:27 pm:
Most likely he is not gay hes probably just really commited to you and feels its not his place to look at other girls. Not very often you get a boyfriend that doesnt look at other girls. Hope i helped =) ask again anytime

x3 BrItTaNy

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bucs10us answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:17 pm:
not all guys are obsessed with everygurl that walks by. in his mind he might think that some gurl taht walks by is hot, but hes not gunna wet his pants over it, especailly if hes got a gf.

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hailebop answered Saturday August 14 2004, 4:15 pm:
It's a sad world where when a guy respects you and the women around him, you guess it might be because he's gay. Not objectifying women doesn't make him gay, it makes him a decent guy. Is there any actual evidence that might make you suspect he's homosexual or bisexual? Does he check out guys in a way that he doesn't look at you? If he did, then that might be reason to sit him down and ask him if he'd even thought about his sexuality, but from just the information you've given, I don't really think you have a problem. Just relax and enjoy it!

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lovelyrita answered Saturday August 14 2004, 3:42 pm:
<i>"he gets horny around me."</i>

I think that answers your question.

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MummuM answered Saturday August 14 2004, 3:01 pm:
I don't think he would be gay, just because he doesn't check out girls infront of you and such. He probably just really respects you and loves you. He doesn't feel the need to look at other girls, because he already has one =)

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:46 pm:
No i dont think that means hes gay... he was probably just raised better... that shows that he really cares about u & respects you...

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ixsAveDxmYsELf answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:26 pm:
believe me, he is not gay. if he was gay u 2 wouldnt b going out. he simply is just a good boyfriend. guys dont have to be interested in a girl just because they dress like a slut. dont undersestimate your boyfriend just because your the only one he is interested in. believe me, you would be mad if he was interested in other girls.
hope i helped!please rate :)
-sAveD

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alisonmarie answered Saturday August 14 2004, 9:44 am:
It doesn't mean he's gay; it means he cares about your relationship and respects you.

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HurleyGurley answered Saturday August 14 2004, 9:19 am:
well if he was gay than i don't think he'd be going out with you would he? maybe he just feels uncomfortable watching those kinda things with you around, not all guys can be into things like that i guess or not as much as others! :) xoxo

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Swtkisses04 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 8:58 am:
I dont think hes gay.Some guys are like that.He wants to show you that Your the only girl hes interested in.My guy that ive been with 2 years now also is like that so i wouldnt worry about it.Hope i helped and from the sound of it looks like you got yourself a good guy so enjoy it and i hope it lasts a long time.:-)

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Untouched1 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 8:23 am:
i think that hes trying to show you that your the only thing on his mind just cause he doesnt do the normal guy thing yeah is some cases he could be gay but i dont think that your guy is hes trying to show you that like i said your the only thing on his mind and that he loves ya
-Cass-

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XxSweetSamxX answered Saturday August 14 2004, 5:14 am:
all that matters is what you think...i personally dont think he would be gay...he doesnt want to look at other girls because he has his own...thats the kind of guys girls want...is guys that wont start staring at other girls while you are talking to him..or guyz that DONT look at those magazines...those are the kid of guys we want/and need!!!!!! so i dont think he is gay..and if you are having problems with this all you should really talk to him in person..ask him straight up.....hope i helped!!!!!!

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xChainMeUp13x answered Saturday August 14 2004, 4:47 am:
unless ure a guy i think hes just a really really good boyfrend!! lucky!!!!!
.:Keryn:.

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xOCarrie answered Saturday August 14 2004, 4:34 am:
Hun, Not all guy`s go for the "brittany spears" or "christina agulara" skimpy look. This just goes to show that your boyfriend is VERY mature and cares a lot about you and only you. You might even be taking this for granite. Cherish this boy and hang on to him.

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Sweetie2oo4 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 2:38 am:
that's a good thing! i wish more guys were like that! i wouldn't think he was gay, i would just be happy..you're satisfying him enough that he doesn't need to look at the skimpy girls on tv...you can trust him--thats great! he only needs you..plus if he gets horny around you & you're a female..lol well then hmm i doubt he's gay..if you feel comfortable enough then maybe talk to him about it, but be careful about what you say..that could offend him a lil'

xO`Lexi

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Lena answered Saturday August 14 2004, 2:17 am:
just ask him?

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Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:58 am:
Hey, my guy would never chat on me, and doesn't look at other girls on TV or anything like that. If he does, it's always "Hmm. You'd look better in that," or something like that, lol. He's straight as an arrow, to coin a phrase.
It's great that you found a loyal, sweet guy. They're rare. As long as he's not checking out guys instead of girls, you have no problem. He's probably just really into you and doesn't need other eye candy. That's my guy's excuse and what kept him from cheating on me while he was in Vegas for almost two months.
I seriously doubt he's gay, so have fun with such a great guy! Don't try to find flaws that aren't there.
-Siren =)

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BeastFromTheWeast answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:58 am:
That is a stupid question. If he likes girls..than he isnt gay. Not every guy is turned on my skanky clothes.

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Bandie2005 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:56 am:
hey there!!
hey may just be that type that loves only one girl and thats you. he may not like to see other girls b/c you may be the only girl he wants to see in those skimpy clothes. You never know about men.... CANT LIVE WITH THEM CANT WITHOUT THEM!!! but it doesnt mean hes gay... when he starts checking boys out and hitting on them THATS WHEN YOU KNOW HE HAS A PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hope that helps you
bandie and juelz

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lorelei answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:54 am:
As long as he isn't checking out guys, I don't see what the problem is. Enjoy having someone who is completely loyal to you.

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HckyAg89 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:52 am:
Sometimes you'll find that guys are very loyal, especially if he is shy at school and stuff, but you cant really tell if he looks on his own unless he tells you. Second of all, i dont think hes gay because hes going out with you unless hes trying to cover being gay up. i bet he is interested in girls in short skimpy skirts n stuff like that but is just too scared to look with you, no offence but im sure he does without u with him.

if u need ta ask me nething else drop one in mi inbox, or im me at HckyAg89 on aim

much love
drew

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kevin1986 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 1:52 am:
He sounds like a saint. As long as he's into you,what do you care? You don't have a problem.

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